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ok my friend was talking to me online and she kept saying that she hated her life and wated to kiss herself and she said that she wanted to cut herself again and that she was fat and stuff and i dont know what to do and im scared for her!
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I have friends like that and I am like that myself. You need to talk to her and be there for her to the best of your abilities. Don't tell anyone about it unless you have okayed it with her or you think she REALLY REALLY is in great danger. The best thing you can do is be there for your friend. Help her see the great things about herself and show her that she doesn't need to cut herself.
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You need to talk to your friend and try to talk her out of it. Just be like "I know people have problems in there lives, but I can try to help you through them if you want. If you ever need to talk, you know I'm here for you. I mean I know it can be tough sometimes, but killing yourself won't solve it, either will cutting yourself. And if you feel like you want to, you should try putting a rubberband around your wrist and snap it each time you feel like cutting yourself. And I mean everyone has a purpose for living on this earth, you're unique in your very own way. You may not think that, but you are. So many people care and love you and wouldn't want you gone. And you're not fat at all. I like you just the way you are..." Just say something like that and just try to make her feel better. Like tell her what you like about her. Tell her stuff like that. I hope his helps and good luck hun. Tell me how it goes. If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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you need to call her up and talk to her...dont just let it go because she dont wanna listen!!...you need to keep tellin her not to do that sh!t..till she gets it!
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