Question Posted Friday September 24 2004, 10:48 pm
OK I like this guy Named Chris But I used to Like this guy Named Matthew But the Day I met Chris was the Day I met Matthew In person And It was kinda Awkward Because I like Chris more and I dont want to hurt Matthews feelings So I didnt tell Matthew that Chris spent the night with Me But he found out by a friend But its ok I didnt tell her she couldnt tell!! so anywayz that night me and chris were laying down next to eachother and we started kissing ever since then We have had this big huge crush on eachother so But ok
Chris is really sweet, nice, comments me on stuff and kisses alot and hugs alot a cuddles alot And likes me for me which is really kewl
on the other hand
Matthew- Cocky, kinda mean, nice sometimes
comments on how Hott I am doesnt give me hugs, tells my friends there hott all the time in front of me talks about my friends 24/7 and U see why I dont like him
I just need to know How to tell HIm I dont like him but IN a nice way!!
Basketball3846 answered Saturday September 25 2004, 1:33 pm: Alrighty. Well, just tell him that you would much rather be his friend because there is someone else in your life. It is not good at all to tell lies, cause he will find out and it will look suspicious if you and Chris are around each other all the time, right after you broke up with Matthew. He should understand, and if he apreciates you (even though it kinda sounds like he doesn't) he should be fine with it. But most likely he will ask questions. Just keep saying "I am sorry". You don't have to answer them cause Chris is none of his bussiness. Good Luck!! [ Basketball3846's advice column | Ask Basketball3846 A Question ]
.:ashli:. answered Saturday September 25 2004, 10:48 am: just straight up tell him that you dont like the way he acts around you and that you met someone that you really like and want to go out with the guy that you like because he treats you in the way that you want to be treated!
FernGully answered Friday September 24 2004, 11:28 pm: You don't necessarily have to tell Matthew, just slowly distance yourself from him. He will either lose interest or catch on to the hint.
blondie75 answered Friday September 24 2004, 11:04 pm: I think u should tell him that you just want to be friends or something like that. i mean it prob doesnt get much nice than that lol. hope i helped, good luck! [ blondie75's advice column | Ask blondie75 A Question ]
x0x_surfergirl_x0x answered Friday September 24 2004, 11:02 pm: Two words: Pick Chris.
I know it feels like your hurting matt's feelings but everyone gets hurt at least one time in their life. I would go with Chris but I am not persuading you or anything but Chris seems like the right path to me. Just pick the guy your heart wants...
Follow your heart... :)
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