Question Posted Thursday September 23 2004, 12:59 pm
16/f
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 mothes and im in love with him tremendously. We have sex all the time 24/7. But im just wondering what does an orgasm feel like i dont know what it means, if i had one i wouldnt know. I just wanna know what does it feel like for both male and female.
here2help answered Saturday September 25 2004, 8:35 pm: first of all stop having sex. you can get pregnant and get hiv/aids. and if u have the baby he might leave u and u will single parent, giving ur child a bad life. [ here2help's advice column | Ask here2help A Question ]
alisonmarie answered Friday September 24 2004, 7:43 am: The best way for you to figure out what an orgasm feels like is to masturbate. I can't tell you how your orgasms will feel - women have varied responses. Some have one big orgasm, some have several smaller ones, some need clit stiumlation, some don't. Women are wonderfully different, and it's your responsibility to get to know yourself.
Maturbate when you feel excited and are alone. Start by just doing whatever feels good - this usually means rubbing your clitoris. Once you know the things which make you feel good, then you'll need to talk to your boyfriend.
It's not fair to you to be in a relationship where you are not acheiving orgasm.
I'll also point out that you've got a guy you can ask about what the male orgasm is like - if you can't talk openly about sex with your boyfriend, then you shouldn't be doing it.
Also - remember to protect yourself from STDs and pregnancy; sex without orgasms can be depressing, but not as bad as putting yourself into a life-altering situation. Happily, you can fix the orgasm thing. Good luck. [ alisonmarie's advice column | Ask alisonmarie A Question ]
jbdreamer answered Thursday September 23 2004, 1:31 pm: Maybe you shouldn't be having sex if you don't even know what an orgasim is.
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