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PLEASE HELP!!!!!


Question Posted Saturday September 18 2004, 7:00 pm

sorry if its long!! ok. there is this gurl umm lets call her jenn* i used to like her, but when i got with my boyfriend, i found out some stuff that they did like umm..have sex in his truck. (this was back like 2 years ago and i have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and havent done anything with him) ((she broke his glove compartment door by the way when they were doin it.lol)) ok well..everytime i think about it, i get sooo jealous/mad! i mean he dont like her or anything and always calls her a whore, which she does do a lot of ppl. well anyways..but i just dont know how to stop being so worried and stuff about it. ya see.. i saw her last night at the fair and we got on the same ride. she was 2 seats down from me. i didnt know she saw me. but obviously she did because she called my baby adam today and told him she saw me there. she asked him if he wanted to come over and go swimming and he told her naw. i asked him why he didnt go and he said because he wouldnt want me to go to a guys house and go swimmin and plus he just didnt feel like it. but do you know anyways just to keep from gettin so mad/jealous when i think about it? PLEASE HELP!

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sparklythingy answered Saturday September 18 2004, 7:45 pm:
She does seem a bit as though she's flirting with your boyfriend. Don't confront her unless she does it again - she should get another chance. If she does, make sure your boyfriend gives her a clear message that he's only interested in you, and isn't going to be looking at anyone else anytime soon.

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LilMia811 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 7:31 pm:
I know what you mean about being jealous. i tend to be the jealous type myself. Its is very hard to stop thinking about people who have been with or around your boyfriend. But, if I were you i wouldn't really worry about it because it seems like your boygriend doesn't want naything to do with the girl. he is obviously very into you and knows that that other girl was nothing but a piece of ass. And also, think of it this way, she probably wasn't even any good becasue if she was she would probably still be around, and you, who hasn't even had sex with him are still around. So, don't stress over that girl, she obviously has no compition with you.

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JesusFreak2006 answered Saturday September 18 2004, 7:22 pm:
hey....i wouldnt worry about it...your boyfriend seems pretty loyal to you...cus im sure he knew if went over "jenns" house he would have gotten some...and if the sex thing still bothers you maybe you need to talk to him about it...i know when ive had past girlfreinds tell me about what they have done with there old bfs i hate it cus i always up seein the guy and start to dislike them...what i usually do is just ignore and tell myself that shes my girl now not theres whats in the past is past....

JesusFreak

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Sherry answered Saturday September 18 2004, 7:13 pm:
Dont be mad if that was over 2 years ago. If she does everyone & anyone, that means your boyfriend was just horny at the time and wanted to get some. So dont worry about it, hes with you now!:)

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