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best friend
i recently found out that my friend was a lesbian ..she denies it but i read the notes she sent to her girlfriend.. what do i do? when people ask me i defend her.. but im not sure if its really true. please help
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First of all, why were you reading her notes that she sent to her girlfriend? If she doesn't know that you read them, you should fess up and let her know, because that is a huge breach of trust in a friendship. Secondly, if your friend is truly a lesbian, let her get herself used to being this way. This may be new to her. Do not push her into telling you if she is or not, because that will only push her away from you. She most likely does not want people to know yet, so let her come out at her own pace. Respect your friends privacy and her wishes... AND be honest with her. I'm sorry if I seemed to lecture you at all, but I've had people read through my personal belongings, so it hit a tiny nerve.
The best piece of advice I can give you though is to be supportive for your friend through everything. No matter what, she is your friend, so let her know you are always there for her.
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If I were you, I wouldn't mention it. But if it really is bothering you, try talking to her. You're friend is still a great person. Remember it's who they are, not what they are. Be cool and don't embarass her!
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P.S. I f you have any problems, you can come to me.
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