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Trust, Family, or Money?!?!?
My mom and dad argue a lot but now some family issues have come up on my dad's side of the family and his brother needs money because his wife died in a car accident recently and he is in need. Anyways he is asking our family for a lot of money and my dad really cares about him and so he gave it to him without my mom knowing- and he tried to tell my mom but she was busy and had to leave. So now my mom knows that he gave the money to him without telling. And she is upset because we can't afford that kind of money to just loan out. And she is arguing cuz he is being dishonest. And my dad is angry because he loves his bro and he gave the money cuz he knew he needed it bad- and he trid to tell my mom, but my mom. Then this afternoon she said, "I don't care what u spend that money on, but i want u to ask me first" and now my dad thinks my mom doesn't care about his family at all, and so he screamed at my mom to just get out and go! Then he pushed her and that's when i went to my room and started crying my eyes out beecuz they have fought before but never physically and so i cried my eyes out and i left with my mom to pick up my brothers from practice and when we got back my dad was gone- I dunno where he went. I really hope our family is okay, i especially hope my dad is alright too. What is going on here?¿? How come they are both losing it?¿? Can i do anything? Or can i only pray for them? I'm really scared!!!
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it sounds to me like your family is alot like mine used to be ... you need to get your parents together and talk to them calmly at once ...and uts sounds like the best thing to stop the figting is a divorce , yes thats really hard but my parents used to be the same way and now they get alng just fine apart ... and you need to talk to them before things get a little to physical .. i just started this column so i really hope my advice kind of helps.
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Well my best frined had a situation like this, it was very scary for even me! Thats why i started this, ok so i think you should pray, and i really think you should talk to your mom about it and say that your scared and that you feel like everything is going wrong. Feel free to email me anytime you need to and let me know what happens! :P
Horserider9@wowway.com
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If i were you i wouldnt worry. your dad will be back. sometimes fights escalate to too high of an extent, im sure your dad juts left to cool off. and your parents will make up, so dont worry.
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aaww sweetie dont worry!! my parents have and still do have their good share of fights!! what you should do is when your with only one of your parents, then when your alone with the other parent, you need to talk to them. tell them when they fight that it scares you really bad and you dont want your family to fall apart. and that you saw your dad push your mom and it made u cry your eyes out!!thatll help A LOT!!!!!!!hope i helped you if you need anyone to talk to about this talk to me because my parents have done it all except a divorce!!
xoxo good luck!!!
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I feel for you..my parents had their share of bad fights, but we pulled through and they are great now. Maybe your dad just needed some air and time to think. This is the first phsyical fight? I think he`ll be back...probably just is worried about his brother..adults can explode and act crazy/dumb also. I would just stand by your mom and brothers and pray maybe. Dont feel like you have to do anything..let your parents work it out.
Best of luck..please write back if the situation gets worse or if you wana talk!
-melissa :)
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