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okay. . . ive been really upset and depressed lately and i told my best friend that she neva talks to me and neva calls me or makes plans anymore (shes moving in 4 days) so she said that ive changed and that she never wants to talk to me and that im giving her an attitude and that im a bitch. and in my info it says that i dont have anymore best friends and she goes "and u wonder why you dont have any best friends" what should i do??
and oh yea, shes having a going away party soon and im supposed to go. Should I go, or not?
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I THINK U SHOULD GO 2 HER PARTY, I MEAN U CANT HAVE UR FRIEND LEAVE...KNOWING THAT U ARNT FRIENDS ANYMORE...ON UR INFO..RITE SUMFFIN ABOUT BEING SORRY FOR WHAT EVER U DONE...AND JUSS TRY TALKING 2 HER...ND IF THAT DONT WORK..SHOW UP @ HER PARTY WIT A PRESENT..ND TRY MAKIN UP
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ok first of all, it sounds like things are really confusing and messed up for you, im sorry about all of that. BUT, i really think you should find other friends because if she is abruptly ending your friendship and changing thoughts it's not worth it at all and you need to find people you can hang out with and have a good time without thinking when they're gonna flip out on you next. and also, i think you should go to the party, wish her luck at her new school and be nice about it so you can walk away knowing your not lowering yourself to her level and that you did the right thing. hope i helped a little bit and please rate me, thanks!
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shes being a real b**** and if shes moving you probably wont talk as much anyway...i moved last year and i never talk to my old friends...also shes probably just really upset that shes moving and taking it out on you... I dont hink you should go to the party because she might just make you feel worse...only go if she appologizes and says that she wants you to go
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well i hate these situations. i kno how u feel but what u have to do is tell her that u havent changed and if u have then to accept it and if u had an attitude u can just either say i am sry can uforgive me or if that doesnt work or the other stuff doesnt work then just ignore her and if she starts yellin @ u then just say w.e i relli dont care ok or w.e w.e w.e ok?!? well i relli hope it goes good! bi
oh yea well if this doesnt work out w/ u and her then dont go but if u and her work it out then u should go and mayb just b quite if u dont like it very much! god bless! ~mary~
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Wow!Sounds like she is the one who has the attitude problem!!!There may be some underlying thing there,like that she's scared about moving,but that's no excuse to take it out on you.You were hurting and you expressed your concern to her,that's totally reasonable.I would maybe write her a letter,tell her everything that you feel,and that you don't want to end things on such a rotten note.Then maybe take the note and drop it off at the party.If she can't accept that,and swallow her pride,and stop being mean and rude to you,then trust me hunnie,you're much better off without her!!I know this may not be the best advice in the world,but it's the truth sweetie,believe me!!!I've been there!!Feel free to write me back anytime you need anything! ;)
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..that hurts alot im really sorry that your friend is like that. IF she doesn't like who u are then try to hang out with other pp and get to know them im sure ur not a bitch or nething..u deserve a better friend then that.. but yea i think you should go to her party itl be fun to hang out and chill and maybe you and ur friend can fix things while ur there.. hope i helped!
<3Shelby<3
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maybe it's just her weird way of making the move easier on her. but you guys should be enjoying your time together before she moves, not being mad at each other. try talking to her and asking why she's mad at you. tell her you treasure her friendship and you want it to last.
i'd go, you don't want to give her the satisfaction. best wishes!!! send me something if you need more help, i'm here for you.
xox Kristen
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maybe shes just telling you all this so it might make it easier for both of you when she moves, so if ur mad at her or shes mad at you the separation wont be as hard
you should probably go to the party
hope this helps
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