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What should I tell her?
I have this friend that thinks she sould be invited to everything.She thinks that I can only hang out with her. Everytime she calls to see if I wanna hang out with her, I just cant say no.She flips out when I say no and gos running to her mom, and she comes back saying that I have to hang out with her because her mom says I have to. I really dont wanna hang out with her because she is acts like she is the boss of everything,and we have to do what ever she wants to do. What should I tell her when she calls to hang out and I dont want to?? Please answer!
Thanks...
KeLsEy
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just say you have other plans or you dont feel good...try to think of something new everytime she calls or tell her how you feel and that unless she changes you dont want to be friends with her anymore
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you could say you would like to be alone or your going out or have other plans or tell her how u feel
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hey sry about ur friend. she's actin all weird. my guess is she's jealous that u have other friends and she only wants u 2 b friends w/ her. well, here's what i think u should do. just call her up and invite her over. when she comes over, just calmly explain how u feel, and talk it out, maybe she wants 2 talk 2 u about it. also, when u don't want 2 hang out w/ her, just say u have a dentist appointment or something. she can't make u hang out w/ her if it's something ur obligated 2 do. and as 4 her mom, well, that's probably where she gets it. i mean, who's mom makes their daughter's friend hang out w/ u? that's real weird. or, if u just don't wanna hang out w/ her ever, try getting caller ID, so u kno if it's her, and u don't have 2 pick up the phone, or on AIM, just block her. she'll hopefully take a hint. hope this helps. plz rate me, thx. muah! ~erin
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Tell ur friend da truth. just be like i cant always hang out with u. u have other friends u can hang out with them. i want to hang out with other ppl for once. and if she is always like dis den pull da plug. say listen maybe we shouldnt be friends if u r going to always run to me to hang out. and i know dat it will be hard on u and her. but u might just have to. i hope i helped.
~Amy~
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I have two things to do. You can tell your mom to anwser the phone all the time and tell her to say that your not there, or you can just tell that you don't want to now and if she tells her mom tell her who cares and when she decides to do everything her way, just ask her to do somthing your way or others ideas. Try that. Good Luck.
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i think you should tell her exactly what you think, that she bosses you around and that isn't what FRIENDS do. tell her that if you want to hang out then it is my decision wether or not i want to, not yours. you have a voice, use it! xo Cay :D
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Dear Kelsey,
Everyone has a friend like that including me If you dont really want to hang around with her just tell her the truth and maybe she'll understand or you could find her another friend that is like her and maybe she'll forget about you and go off with her.
sincerely JessieV
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Try calmly talking to her and tell her exactly how she makes you feel. Tell her that she tries to boss you around too much. Tell her that you have other plans sometimes and can't ALWAYS hang out with her. Tell her that you still want to be her friend, but you wont be able to handler her if she is too overpowering.
Don't just lie to her and avoid her, just tell her the truth. If she can't get it, then you might have to take a break from hanging out with her at all. She needs to understand that she can't control everything you do.
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Tell her you don't want to hang out with her right now. That there is something else you would rather do. Apparently you need a break from this person. You might have your mom talk to her mom if its a huge problem.
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