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okay well my ex boyfriend asked me out i said no when i still really liked him because i didn't want to screw up and hurt him again but he knows i still really like him and he said that he still likes me but last weekend i saw him and this girl i really dont like together and he had his arm around her sholder and stuff i got really mad and now shes always saying how much she likes him what should i do? should i just stop liking him.. its going to be hard
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I always say when it comes to relationships and situations like this you've got to decide weather to follow your brain or your hart. It seems to me your brain is saying to you don't do it and your hart is telling you must do it. The ultimate decision has to be a personal one, down to you: But I always say unless theirs a real big reason why not to - its always policy to follow your hart; and remember, in the words of Mr. William Shakespeare in A Midsummer Nights Dream 'The course of true love never did run smoothly'. So I say - go for it. If you never jump you'll never find out how far you can fly, will you?
Good luck and god bless
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if you want him then i think you should go for it, but don't mess up someone else's relationship just because you don't want him with anyone else but you dont want him either. i think that if you really did like him then you would have said yes when he asked you out instead of saying no.. is there a big reason you broke up or was it something small, that's something you need to think about also. another thing, is that if you said no to him, you can't expect him to stick around, and stay in the past, he has to move on too. He probably still does have feelings for you, but he probably figures that it doesn't matter because you already said no to putting those feelings into a relationship..
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I think if you go back out w/ him, it won't be successful.. you'll just be really hurt, and this girl will get in the way *obviously*.. I think you should just move on. There's a reason he was your ex, you know? Just let him stay in the past :- there r plenty of fishies in the sea!! just keep swimmin..just keep swimmin!!!
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WEll gurl ....lemme tell u. If u really like him den wut u did really didnt make ne sense. Cuz first of all if u really liked him, even if u didnt wanna mess things up u shud have at least talked 2 him about that n not hide behind the fact that u didnt wanna screw up thingz. N second of all if u he knowz u styll like him, but u turned him down dats just makin it look even worst. I understand the fact dat u dont wanna hurt him but turnin him down n not talkin 2 him about it iz not da answer. N trust me i understand wut u mean about being jealous, especially if itz a gurl u really dunt like. But i say just let him be, if u dunt wanna hurt him either let him move on n start other relationships or.....sit him down in talk 2 him one on one b4 diz relatioship with dis gurls getz way more serious den it already iz. I hope i helped=)
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Hmm, it sounds like he was trying to make you jealous by being all over that girl. If that was the case, he got exactly what he wanted by making you mad. I think you should move on because you already had your experiences dating your ex and there are plenty of fish in the sea. There will be another guy that comes into your life and sweeps you off your feet, and you just have to wait for it.
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well this is confusing. if he likes you and you like him then you should go out with him again, even if you're scared of screwing up. but whats with this random chick? why was she there? ask him about it, if he denies it maybe he wants to two time you both? i dunno but you need to talk to him before you go out with him.
keep me posted.
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