i have a friend, lets say her name is "alyssa" well me n alyssa have been best friends for about a year, now weer goin to dif high skools, and i think she's tryin to tell me that she doesn't wanna be BFF just friends, and i mean thats aight wit me, but i just wish she'd say it, instead of beating around the bust
should i just wait for her to make it clear
is she just actin weird
should i say sumthin to her
rainbowcherrie answered Sunday June 27 2004, 1:25 pm: Ok First off, the whole 'bff' thing doesn't work as you get older. you should just have a big group of close friends-it's so much better. If it's fine with you that she doesn't want to be bff anymore then don't worry, she still wants to be friends and thats all that matters. As for beating around the bush (yeah its bush not bust)don't worry about that either, just see what happens. Try and get to see her when you can once you go to your new school but don't go out of your way to do it, you'll make new friends, she'll make new friends, that's the way it goes sometimes. You'll both move on. Hope i helped! PS: please ask direct questiions to my column! [ rainbowcherrie's advice column | Ask rainbowcherrie A Question ]
Katie_61890 answered Saturday June 26 2004, 8:58 pm: Hey! Well I think you should talk to "Alyssa" and confront her about how you feel about your friendship. She is your best friend which means you guys can talk about anything. And if "Alyssa" doesnt want to be your friend then its her loss. But you should get through it. [ Katie_61890's advice column | Ask Katie_61890 A Question ]
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