my friends boy friend wont stop saying hes gonna kill himself but i dunno wat to do ,my friend doesnt know he told me so i was wondering wat do i do???? i mean i dont wanna tell her cuz it will like kill her so if i tell neone else then they will like report him to a mental place so i dunno wat to do!!!!wat do i do?????
thx~~
~*RiSs*~
g0inbananas420 answered Sunday June 27 2004, 12:41 am: hey riss! talk to your friends boyfriend, and ask him what is soo horrible about life that he wants to kill himself, but kind of tell him all the nice stuff hes got without telling him hes selfish but just be like " look, god put you on this earth for a reason, to make something of your self, you werent a mistake or anything because than you wouldnt be here if you were. you are my friend and my friends boyfriend, and just think about it if you kill yourself, you might be 'letting go of pain'for youself which really isnt the answer, and it will make things worse and you would be hurting all these people who love you! and leaving them with grief and sorrow. And people will sit there and wonder why you left the world and could not even think twice, especially your parents, they brought you into this world, gave you the cloths on your back and food too, and is this your gift to them? please i want to kill myself, everyone feels that way sometime but pick your head up and just see whats around you " and than leave that with an i love you and "please take me seriously" maybe that will help him, and if it gets really really serious and he dosent listen to you than take him to see a counsler at school they will listen and all they talk about is confidential, just be careful and please talk to your friends boyfriend! i hope i helped you out at least a little bit! [ g0inbananas420's advice column | Ask g0inbananas420 A Question ]
crackafosho answered Sunday June 27 2004, 12:18 am: You talk to him yaself, then you tell someone else that u both know, then gradually tell more people and he won't really want to do it as much b/c more people will kno and he'll feel that more people care.. [ crackafosho's advice column | Ask crackafosho A Question ]
Katie_61890 answered Saturday June 26 2004, 9:39 pm: Well this is serious. First you have to talk to your friend in private. Then you should go to your parents, because this kid really needs serious help. And if he gets sent to a "Mental Place" than its for his own good because he will get the right help for his problem. But you have to address this to somebody soon, dont wait or you will regret it! [ Katie_61890's advice column | Ask Katie_61890 A Question ]
AshleysLilDuckBear_9112 answered Saturday June 26 2004, 8:03 pm: Hey! You should try talking to him and ask him why he wants to kill himself. Ask him if its about stress or somethin or if something is bothering him. You could tell him that killing himself isn't the right way to live. God made his life special and he died on the cross for us. Tell him he would be leaving his life, girlfriend, parents and friends behind. Tell him your there for him.
~Brooke~ [ AshleysLilDuckBear_9112's advice column | Ask AshleysLilDuckBear_9112 A Question ]
Derfel answered Saturday June 26 2004, 7:48 pm: Ignore him! He's just trying to get attention, if he really was thinking of committing suicide he would just do it and certainly not go on and on about it.
Derfel [ Derfel's advice column | Ask Derfel A Question ]
WEESNA89 answered Saturday June 26 2004, 5:22 pm: ok, well u should probably ask him why he wants to kill himself and if its a stupid reason then u should try to convince him that killing himself isnt the way to go. but if its a reason that he thinks isnt worth living for, i would definitely tell someone like a counselor or a psychologist and they should try and talk to him. i hope my answer helped you in some way and plz try and tell someone b/c this is a serious problem that needs to be dealed with.
~devin~ [ WEESNA89's advice column | Ask WEESNA89 A Question ]
blonde answered Saturday June 26 2004, 2:35 pm: Defanitly get this boy some help. You don't have to tell your friend, and don't tell anyone else so that is won't spread. Take him somewhere or else tell his parents. Good luck!
AskAdrien answered Saturday June 26 2004, 2:32 pm: Dear Riss,
What you could do is try to talk to your friend's boyfriend and ask him why he wants to kill himself(it's most likely a faze under stress). When he tells you then you can decide what to do. If you still don't know what to do visit my column and i will help you out [ AskAdrien's advice column | Ask AskAdrien A Question ]
UrCuTeXoXo answered Saturday June 26 2004, 1:33 pm: you GOTTA tell someone .. whenever someone you know is threatening to kill themselves you have to tell someone .. or try and convince that person to get help. If you dont it could lead to worse things! Like say he actually went thru with it .. how bad would you feel knowing that you KNEW and you didnt tell n e one!? .. Whether it be your friend .. or someone who can actually HELP this kid .. you have to tell someone or try and convince him to get help! [ UrCuTeXoXo's advice column | Ask UrCuTeXoXo A Question ]
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