hey i gotta problem u see my friend is alwayz choosing her boyfriend over me wat do i do!!?? do i tell her do i tell him??? uh......help me!!!!
thanx~
~*RiSs*~
Kate_2003_101 answered Monday June 28 2004, 8:57 am: hey riss
i think you should tell her how you feel or shes gunna continue doing that and thats not cool ... but if shes a true friend then shell stop wut shes doing to u .
good luck XoKatieXo [ Kate_2003_101's advice column | Ask Kate_2003_101 A Question ]
AlexR04 answered Sunday June 27 2004, 3:08 am: dude tell her something! theres obviously something rong with that! if shes really ur friend she wouldnt push you aside and choose a guy over you. hopefully she'll realize how stupid she was being! good luck! <33 alex! [ AlexR04's advice column | Ask AlexR04 A Question ]
CaNdYQT101 answered Saturday June 26 2004, 7:35 pm: ure freind is prob jus getitng way into the gy she is with ,,.. but if she is a real friend she will always come back to u and everything... but if it continues then u need to find another friend that u cna still confide in becuase every gurls has to have hur close friends withher and if ure friend is jus ditching u then u kan either wait it out or talk to her about it and start meeting some new people and keep ue old friends but make some more also [ CaNdYQT101's advice column | Ask CaNdYQT101 A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday June 26 2004, 12:34 am: Some people have trouble balancing friends with boyfriends. It's a skill people have to develop. Talk to her about it, tell her it's bothering you, and see what she says. She might not realize she's doing it, or that it's bothering you. If something's bothering you, you gotta open your mouth. No one can read minds, so you have to say it aloud.
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
MissJ1414 answered Friday June 25 2004, 11:53 pm: She'll see that friends are more important sooner or later. But just get another girl to hang out with while they're together.. but don't be mean or not be friends with this other girl. [ MissJ1414's advice column | Ask MissJ1414 A Question ]
XoTruebrunettExO answered Friday June 25 2004, 11:53 pm: First of all i don't think you should talk to her boyfriend because, he may be the cause of your bestfriend picking him over you, but he can't help it. i think that you should talk to ur friend but when you do keep this in mind.. your bestfriend is there for you even if she doesnt relize what you have friendship wise right now, this might be a fase and it could pass. tell her how your feeling, give her sometime .. but in the mean time dont try to get revenge by doing the same thing back to her cuz that might just push her farther away.. if you need anymore help just ask! hope i helped & please rate me! [ XoTruebrunettExO's advice column | Ask XoTruebrunettExO A Question ]
meliciouslyme answered Friday June 25 2004, 11:22 pm: friends are for ever. boyfriends will pass. Let her know how your feeling. Friends should always come before some guy. You shouldnt tell him because it isnt his fault. Talk to her but dont take it too personall. If she isnt into a guy you shouldnt ruin it unless it needs to be ruined and he shouldnt ruin your friendship if he cares about her [ meliciouslyme's advice column | Ask meliciouslyme A Question ]
room2moveon182 answered Friday June 25 2004, 10:58 pm: talk to her about it. just say, "i thought i was more important than him. I know you love him and all...but i feel like i don't matter as much anymore. I just feel like you favor him over me sometimes...Can we talk about this?" [ room2moveon182's advice column | Ask room2moveon182 A Question ]
blonde answered Friday June 25 2004, 10:43 pm: Tell her you don't mind her hanging with him, since he is her boyfriend, but she needs to be there for you sometime. You don't need to tell him unless you feel he is making her choose him over you. But defanitly tell your friend how you feel. Good luck!
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