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:-/ I need help major!
Alright well tonight I found out that my bestfriend had sex with my Ex boyfriend... he actually wasnt my boyfriend but i concider him one because we were "Together" But not offically! And I dont know what to do because the person that told me I swore to him i wouldnt tell! And this is the hardest thing that I have truely ever had to been threw! I dont know what to do! Please help me :-/
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well u need to decide which one is more important, your friend who told u being mad at u for confronting your friend or your friend getting away with what happened. Does she know u still have feelings for him? And are u sure its true at all?
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Alright, well first ask yourself if u are botherd by the fact she did this...or didnt tell you...u may or may not have feelings for this guy still...i kinda has a similer situation go on, i know ur friend said not to tell...but go back to him/her and ask him if he knows this information is fact [who he got the info form..all that stuff...but if it still comes to it talk to her, bring him up and ur feeling about him...about her...all that...she should tell u if he feels that ur open and nice...if she dosent dont get all mad at first...she might be scared or immbaresed ya know...dont go down hard...if nothing helps talk to ur other friend again, tell him that u have to talk to her about it N that u dontthink she'll get mad...then just be nice about it...tell her how u feel! but also remember not to make it all about u! not to be mean but somtimes it goes to our head...i know! lol well i wish u the best of luck wit it!!
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Well ask your friend be like are you a virgin? ya sure?! positive?! and if seh goes why are you doing that to me just be like im just messing around with ya lol and then if she does tell you then egg her on for me info-trix ((please rate))
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First of all , I think you need to ask your friend cause the 'person' who told you might not know everything about what happened , and also if you and the guy never really went out then why is so bad ? I am not saying your friend should not have asked you first if she new you really liked him , but still you should talked to her before listening to anyone else . If she is a true friend she will tell you the honest truth !
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Ok well for one that gurl really isnt a true friend!! and u should just be like i want to talk to u and be like i heard romors thats u slept with my ex and be like if u did it would be better for u not to lie to me then to lie to me!! be like so if u tell me the truth i wont be as mad!!!! well thats what i got to say GOOD LUCK
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i think u need to sit down & have a talk with ur gurl friend...if she knew how much u & the boy liked eachother then she is not a good friend...& the guy that told u can take the gurls place cause it seems like he is protecting u...good luck he seems like a better friend n-e-way
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Maybe you could try to get it out of your friend without actually saying that you know, like casually bring it up. Or if there was a way you could keep this guy that told you name out of it so he wouldn't get into any trouble with anyone, then i suggest you do that. Talk to your friend if she confesses to having sex with your ex. But remember, technically he wasn't yours anymore, but she still should have been more respecful of you and your feelings. Keep in mind when your doing this, that you may be mad at your friend right now, but if she's a good friend and especially since she's your best friend, let her explain first and don't let your friendship be ruined over this. If you can try to calm down a little bit before you talk to her .. hope this helped at all
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