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a room of her own
hi there- this probably has little in the way to do with relationships, per se, at least of the interpersonal sort. however, i'm in a bit of a panic... could use some advice on a living situation. i read your advice, and i like what you have to say. thanks for reading! if you get this twice (if no one replies), i'm sorry :).
i am a med student, so peace and quiet are nice things. pleasant surroundings also important for those few, precious moments at home. i moved into a GORGEOUS loft-style apt in a cool up-and-coming revitalizing-itself kinda neighborhood. my apt has a claw-foot tub, skylights that open to the fall new england air, stainless steel apps and the most gorgeous hardwoods you will ever see. problem is: my house was sold/bought during my lease, and the new owners are pushing a lot of construction through on the 1st fl. they claim it's nearly over, and i will be starting surgery soon (hence not at home as often to bothered by it, maybe..?). but i don't know whether to move or not. i found a new loft-style apt, and it has tons of charm, character, and the building is lovely and well-maintenanced. but it is not the same. the neighborhood is also not as cool, although, it is nice enough. i have to make a decision as i am trying to study for a major licensing exam, and i have allowed this to gnaw away at me. i am at the point of screaming or tearing my hair out with all the various stresses. any thoughts? much appreciated, sorry for the length. sincerest apologies.
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Well, I'm not sure how much I can help you, not actualy having owned my own property yet but I'll try....
When you say during your lease, I assume this means while you still rented your current accomidation? I think you need to find out what sort of changes they have made, for example, have they completly changed the whole appartment or are they just having double glazing installed? Once you have seen what they have done with it, this may change your mind as to whether you still like the place.
I doo know what you mean about the other place not seeming quite so good since you have set your heart on the current place.
I think all I can suggest is you look at what the new owner are planning/ have done and decide if you still like the place.
I hope I haven't mis-interpreted your predicament, and good luck whatever you ultimatly decide :)
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