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hi me again the reason i dont want him to know and all that is cuz its something i want to try and its with another couple so if i do like it and that then i will invite him in im just not to sure if i will like being with another women we did this onec before and he was involed in it and i felt worried of him cheating and stuff like more like he was going to like her better and that if you know what i mean
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Hey! I'm sorry to break this to you, but i think if you try it you're making a big mistake! In most cases, couples have a lot of problems getting over the fact that they actually acted out one of their fantasies. Life, becomes hard with your partner, first all sorts of ideas and thoughts will run through both of your heads, then feelings of betrayal and mistrust, then you'll start to get insecure, wondering was she better than me? (and asking him won't help, because either he will say "yes" and it will hurt, or "no" and you'll think that he's just saying that, which he has every right to do since he doesn't want to hurt you. Also, fantasies are meant to be left fantasies, for many reasons: mainly because in fantasies you can control them. When you're having this fantasy with another couple you can control how your husband touches her, and how he touches you, or how he has sex with her and how he has sex with you. If you wanted to in your fantasy you can make it so every one pays attention to you, and NO ONE pays any attention to her. You get my drift? In real life, this might not be the case! How would you like to see your husband letting go, or orgasming with her? You might see in real life he gets more turned on having sex with her than you, or you might see how he touches her and makes more of an effort with her than with you. Then, questions like, howcome you're not like that with me? will arise! This is something every couple faces after things like this. It happened to me, and to a friend. Guess what? Neither of us are with our boyfriends any more! Fantasies should be left fantasies, UNLESS you are absolutely 100% certain that this will not come between you! I think you should set a lot of rules, then think it over, long and hard because right now you're not a 100% sure! I only want the best. Love is beautiful, so don't let this interfere! It's ok to say NO! Let me know, i wish you all the luck!
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I think you should try it. If you do it and like it you do it with your husband as soon as possible! If you don't like it then you never mention it and you explain to your husband that you are not comfortable experimenting. I know this is unconventional advice but sex with people outside the marriage is always tricky.
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It sounds a little risky to even go through with this. But if you feel you need to, to satisfy your sexual drive or some reason along those lines, I wouldn't tell him.
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