hi im about to have a 3 some and my hubby dont know about it but lastnight he kind of got the idea from a profile and now i dont know what to do should i tell him of keep it a secret? but hes been asking me latley about swing but i dont want but i also dont want him to fine out about the 3 some help
DJ answered Wednesday May 19 2004, 3:22 pm: You plan on having a 3some without him? If he is not into it I have to say do it. If you don't your going to worry about it and it's going to affect your marriage. But here is the kicker. You have to talk to him about this. If he wants one why wouldn't you want him involed? Is it all women? If it is then he may only want to watch. I really need more info. Why wouldn't you want to have a 3some with your hubby? Bottom line, no secrets! They will destroy your relationship! Unless that's what you want. [ DJ's advice column | Ask DJ A Question ]
storageanddisposal answered Wednesday May 19 2004, 2:37 pm: All secrets kept from married couples are bad, sadly all married couples have them. Consider his possible reactions before you tell him, if you tell him. He may not like the fact that he wasn't invited. I, personally, would tell him, but it would probably end in a huge fight. [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
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