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Last Update: April 11, 2006
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hi me again the reason i dont want him to know and all that is cuz its something i want to try and its with another couple so if i do like it and that then i will invite him in im just not to sure if i will like being with another women we did this onec before and he was involed in it and i felt worried of him cheating and stuff like more like he was going to like her better and that if you know what i mean (link)
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Hey! I'm sorry to break this to you, but i think if you try it you're making a big mistake! In most cases, couples have a lot of problems getting over the fact that they actually acted out one of their fantasies. Life, becomes hard with your partner, first all sorts of ideas and thoughts will run through both of your heads, then feelings of betrayal and mistrust, then you'll start to get insecure, wondering was she better than me? (and asking him won't help, because either he will say "yes" and it will hurt, or "no" and you'll think that he's just saying that, which he has every right to do since he doesn't want to hurt you. Also, fantasies are meant to be left fantasies, for many reasons: mainly because in fantasies you can control them. When you're having this fantasy with another couple you can control how your husband touches her, and how he touches you, or how he has sex with her and how he has sex with you. If you wanted to in your fantasy you can make it so every one pays attention to you, and NO ONE pays any attention to her. You get my drift? In real life, this might not be the case! How would you like to see your husband letting go, or orgasming with her? You might see in real life he gets more turned on having sex with her than you, or you might see how he touches her and makes more of an effort with her than with you. Then, questions like, howcome you're not like that with me? will arise! This is something every couple faces after things like this. It happened to me, and to a friend. Guess what? Neither of us are with our boyfriends any more! Fantasies should be left fantasies, UNLESS you are absolutely 100% certain that this will not come between you! I think you should set a lot of rules, then think it over, long and hard because right now you're not a 100% sure! I only want the best. Love is beautiful, so don't let this interfere! It's ok to say NO! Let me know, i wish you all the luck!
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I've recently read in an article about depression and I think I might be getting into the stage if depression, if I'm not already there. I'm a 16 year old female. This last half-year has been insane for me. I dated this unbelievably perfect guy, we were together for a month and a half. I loved every minute of it. Then he got back with his ex... whom I basically stalk. I'm always checking on her myspace and aim... just wishing I was her. I know its so stuppid and lame but I can't help it. I've save all her pictures to my computer and stuff. ANother thing, I've lost my best friend. We were friends for 2 years and she started hanging out with other girls so I basically ditched her right back. I have another friend I mainly hang out with so I'm not exactly lonely, but I don'tlike hanging out with her too much because she has a bf and whenever I'm around the 2 of them, I feel soleft out, basically I'm the 3rd wheel. Another thing, I have major trouble getting up in the morning. I have to be on the bus by 7... I used to get up at around 5:30 and now I never feel like getting out of bed... earliest is probably 6:30 ... I've gained weght, not too much tho, only about 10 lbs, and my face started to break-out a lot. I can't stop thinking about my ex-boyfriend, his gf, and everything. I'm not thinking about suicide or anything cause don't get me wrong, its not too horrible but I just wish I had something to motivat eme and stuff you know? I'm really insecure and I just wish that I wasn't. I mean I'm in high school and I dont wanna regret things. Any advice on how to get my life back on track? Am i suffering thruy depression? (link)
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You're in luck! YOU AE DEFINATELY NOT SUFFERING FROM DEPRESSION! I know what it's like suffering through it! You are just stressed out. You're going through what every single 16 year old teenager is going through! Boyfriends/just being a teenager/highschool/LIFE! This is the age where you are being tied into two different worlds! Adult world where people think you should start gaining responsibility for things and yourself, and still a child where mom and dad still want you to come home at a certain time, and want you to do your homework, or not stay up late. It's confusing, and those are your every day stresses. I think that you're too hard on yourself! Most importantly this is what you have to understand! There is someone out there who will like you for you! Your ex didn't leave you because you looked a certain way or else he wouldn't have went out with you in the first place. He needs to be with someone else now, there's no reasons, no faults, it's because you guys are young and experimenting with different people. This is the time in your life to just have FUN! No one wants to settle down unless they know it's a for sure thing! And in reality you're not his for sure thing, as much as you want to be his right now, more importantly focus on you! You will never get over him the more you sulk about him, try getting hooked up with another guy or start hanging around people that are uplifting. Set up a girls-night-ONLY, and chill out have some fun! If you're really unhappy with your looks which seems to be the problem, do a mini-makeover, dye your hair a different color with a different style, sometimes changing something like that, can make you feel a lot better and more up-beat! Here's a pearl of wisdom for you: People will come and go out of your life, everyone that steps into your life is like an angel sent from God. They were put into your life for a reason whether it was for 10 minutes, 3 months, or 6 years, or even for the rest of your life, they all impact you in a certain way, some ways you will see, some ways you won't. Maybe this guy, was one of those people. He was sent there to help you through something, and then continued on, or maybe you were sent to help him through something, you never know! What you have to understand, is that people will come and go through your life, you're young and you WILL, I REPEAT WILL get over it, trust me! Everyone goes through it! Move on, and just be you!
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like omg wen i shave my legs they grow back in one night's time:
1. is there any way i can make them stay smoother longer Ps I wana shave
2. is it a good idea to shave every day? (link)
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Sorry to tell you this, but the more you shave, the darker and thicker your hairs will get! If you can, try waxing the hair seems to grow back better, it's easier to maintain as well. With waxing, you can go up to 3 months without having to wax again, and you're legs are much smoother. Waxing works better because it actually rips the roots out, which is why it takes longer for the hair to grow back. But there is a downside: you have to (unfortantely) wait until you're hair grows back an inch until you can wax again! If waxing doesn't seem like it's for you, i have another idea that works for some people! Hopefully, you are not dry-shaving make sure you use lots of moisturizing shaving cream. So, use a cold cloth on your legs before applying shaving cream until you see goosebumps on your legs, then apply the shaving cream in a cool atmosphere, that way, when you have goosebumps your pores open up, and you can shave closer to your roots. See if this works for you! Let me know!
Goodluck!
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 3 weeks. he wanted me to help him with his myspace so he gave me the password and everything and i read his messages and he sent them to this girl jessica. and the other day we were having sex and he was like.. "i should call jessica and say, 'im having sex with kendall'" so now i think he was thinking about her the whole time. and i dont know what to do!
does this mean he wants to be with other girls? (link)
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Uhm...wow! This guy seems really immature! In my opinion you guys have only been dating for 3 weeks right? You really need to find out what this guy's alterior motives are! Seriously, if he's going to brag about what you two do in the bedroom to his friend Jessica, then who else do you think he's telling! I think you should be worried with this guy, he seems immature and up-to-no-good! I think that you deserve someone, who will not kiss-and-tell so they say! Let me know how things go!
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