My BEST FRIEND is dick wooped. (dick wooped means she does anything for him). she says she isn't but i think she knows she is. it bothers me because she does anything for him and she is such a great person and he takes advatage of her. he is her ex-boyfriend. i tell her and she says she doesn't like him and doesn't do what-ever he says. i need help trying to talk to her about it. (it's so bad that the other day we went to the water park and she wouldn't go on the slide with me because she was waiting for him) it really sux!! pleaze help asap!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? chanamolet answered Sunday May 16 2004, 4:13 pm: YOU KNOW WHAT, THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO TO GET YOUR FRIEND OUT OF HER "DICK WOOPED" ADDICTION. UNFORTUNATELY, WHEN WOMEN ARE INTO THEIR MEN THE WAY YOU SAY YOUR FRIEND IS IN TO HER EX-BOYFRIEND, ALL YOU CAN DO IS SAY A FEW WORDS TO HOPEFULLY ENCOURAGE HER TO LEAVE. IF THAT DOESN'T WORK I WOULD LET HER LIVE HER LIFE MAKING A FOOL OF HERSELF. IF YOU TRY TO CONVINCE HER TO MUCH, SHE WILL START TO THINK THAT YOU ARE JEALOUS AND THEN YOU'LL HAVE TO DEAL WITH A WHOLE NEW SET OF FEELINGS. WE ALL GO THROUGH OUR PHASE OF BEING STUPID OVER SOME GUY AND IT IS JUST YOUR FRIENDS TURN. WHEN SHE IS TIRED OF BEING TREATED LIKE CRAP SHE WILL LEAVE HIM ALONE. JUST BE READY TO GIVE HER A SHOULDER TO LEAN ON, AND DON'T GIVE HER THE "I TOLD YOU SO SPEECH". JUST BE HER FRIEND LIKE YOU SAY YOU ARE. [ chanamolet's advice column | Ask chanamolet A Question ]
storageanddisposal answered Sunday May 16 2004, 4:00 pm: Your friend is in denial. She obviously still loves him. You already told her, so by continually talking to her about it, she may get mad at you. You might try setting her up with someone else, though a lot of people don't like being set up. Try anything to get her to start thinking about other guys. [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
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