im a 14 year old 8th grader...and the guy i like is a freshman and i dont want to get pressured into anything bad... ok so... i like this guy... but iv never really met him...but i talk to him on im... and what i know of him i really like...and he asked me out...what do i do???
LilBrwnEyez320 answered Tuesday May 11 2004, 8:27 pm: First you should get to know him really good! Then you should know if he is the type of guy who is going to pressure you into stuff. Pay close attention to his body language and the little things he says and does. Then that should determine if he's gonna be a good boyfriend. but if he isn't willing to be friends first, then you know he's only in it for one thing and you need to stay away! Well I hope I helped! ;)
~Jessica~ [ LilBrwnEyez320's advice column | Ask LilBrwnEyez320 A Question ]
jbdreamer answered Tuesday May 11 2004, 11:32 am: I wouldn't assume that just because he is a year older than you, that he would pressure you into anything. And even if he did try, don't let him. I am sure you are a smart girl and know right from wrong.
I would be warry of online realtionships though. You never really know how much truth they are telling you. For now, I would keep your freindship how it is. But if you do one day plan to meet, make sure you do it with a friend or two and meet in a public place. [ jbdreamer's advice column | Ask jbdreamer A Question ]
RainbowDiva answered Monday May 10 2004, 11:32 pm: Hello!
Well judging from the information provided it seems to me that u met this guy online. I think that u shd simply forget about it. I know that may be hard to or easier said then done, but what a person says online can all be a lie and u may actually end up getting into more trouble than u think.
I don t know what u find so interesting in this guy but I feel that u shd keep things the way they are right now and try not to change a thing.
If something is going to come of it then it will and u will not have to even try so hard.
Just focus on being young and enjoying your life your too young to be thinking of getting tied down in a relationship. Being young is all about having a great time and learning fun and exciting things that u can laugh about as u get older.
Just do what u know in your heart is right and if you can tell your parents about it then it s ok!
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