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he is with another girl
I went out with my ex for almost 2 years and me and him took a break and he is now going out with my friend sinamin. I still love him dearly but he says that ever since I have been hanging out with my friend carol (who is living with me intill june 1st), I have changed for the worst and he loves and misses the girl I used to be. I am willing to change for him. whats your opinion?
My name is gina and iam a sixteen year old female.
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I think you should change for him, But if it affects your friendship then just move on.
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You are going to evolve and change over time - it's part of growing up and discovering who you are. You cannot, and should not ever change for a boy - maybe you've grown out of the relationship. Maybe it's time to try someone else.
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You and this guy have been going out for two years and you change just because some girl named Carol . THATS COOL . What way does your boyfriend mean you have changed for the worst ? Does that mean you are drinking, partying hard, and doing drugs because, if you are I'M WORRIED ABOUT YOU AS WELL . The question is that's important is ARE YOU HAPPY WITH THE GIRL YOUR X WANTS YOU TO BE ? WERE YOU EVER HAPPY BEING THAT GIRL ? Questions like these are important . At times, you can't loose yourself for others . It sometimes depends on your happiness . ARE YOU HAPPY WITH THE WAY YOU ARE? It's all up to you .My opinion is my ADVICE ,AND TO MOST IMPORTANTLY: FOLLOW YOUR HEART.
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First of all, I think it is crazy that your ex, decided to take a break, and is now dating your friend. I am not making any assumtions, but you should think about that. Also, if you two were to get back together, where would you and your friend Sinamin stand? And, he wants you to change? What makes him think you are not still the same girl inside? If you guys are even thinking about getting back together, you have to sit down and have a long discussion about how things are gonna be from then on. Will you and Sinamin no longer be friends? Will he really learn to accept you? I know you love alot but, if you and him getting back together is going to be a big disaster, you may want to think about what you are doing, and if it is worth it.
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