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hi please can u help,i met my now hubby 4yrs ago,from the start our relationship was a lie all his lies,he lied about not being married but separated he lied about his debt he hid from me,& as you can imagine this tore us apart but then after a few weeks we managed to sort it all out & work it out but in the short time he was gone i found out he had a one night stand so he says but i think he was actually living with this girl,im 36 with 2 teenage kids,we got over that & i married him i say i got over it i dont think i ever have,the problem is im so unhappy,hes lazy,he hates hard work he hates doing odd jobs around the house,i have kidney failure & im not able to work & we need him to bring the money in do over time look for another job,i would think more of him for doing so,but its like talking to a brick wall ive tried everything,hes a taker but he gives nothing in return,i dont think he loves me like he says he does either by the way he treats me,i reckon he came back as it was convinient for him,he says no but im not so sure,he has no freinds i get no space or privacy.please help me many thanx cindy.female.
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I am so sorry, it sounds like you have been through a lot. You say your husband gives you nothing, but he is the one providing for you. He must like you in some regard if he is the one sticking around supporting you and your children. I don't think he will ever change, so if you want out of this unloving realtionship you need to start to fend for yourself. Do you have any family you could live with for a while. Can't you get social securtiy if you are unable to work because of a dissability? If you want your life to change, you have to make it happen. Stop being dependent on your husband, otherwise nothing will ever change.
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