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low self-esteem!!!!
my friends and my ex bfs all tell me that im beautiful/pretty but i dont believe it. i have low self-esteem and i cant get over it. i dont think im pretty at all. except my eyes. i like my eyes. i think i have a big nose, bad lips, stupid looking hair and i think im fat and everything and my best friend says that my low self-esteem is a big turn off but i dont wanna think im all that or anything and i just cant help but think im ugly and not good enough
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hey, you don't have to think you're all that but remember- confidence is sexy...guys who see a girl that holds her head up high are attracted to her beacuse she doesn't mope around saying she's not pretty and she has fun- a smile will get you very far..and chances are, that if all people are telling you this then you must be pretty..don't try to focus on your flaws so much because we all have them..focus on your positive assets... =] hope i helped
love elle
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put a lot of emphisis on your eyes then or what ever you do like
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having low self-esteem is definalty not a good thing. i don't have to deal with low self-esteem, but just remeber that when you think you are ugly, fat, etc. that there are other people that don't think so. but you should really try your best to think of yourself better because when your friend tells you that low self-esteem is a big turn off, she is right. my best friend is just like you. she thinks she is fat and she always calls herself ugly. but she is a very pretty girl and everyone likes her because she is so nice. but no matter how many times i tell her that she is not fat, she never agrees with me. so usually we end up aruging about it. and she dosen't get that many boyfriends because she is always putting herself down. it just gets annoying listing to her talk bad about herself. so really try your best and think postitive about yourself. just remeber, just because you don't think your pretty, other people do. and the most important thing of all to remeber is that the real beauty is on the inside not the outside!
best of luck,
adviceprincess
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stop feeling sorry for yourself, get over it. Im sure you are very pretty. Why should it matter anyway?
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You are suffering from coperate evil! You have been taught that you must be perfect to be accepted! You must accept your self and know you cannot change it. Do not be hard on yourself, the world is hard enought as it is! Relax, you will be fine. I like manny girls who think they are wrong in someway. If you had a bf in the first place you must be doing someright, So Just Relax!
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It really doesn't matter what you look like, but what is on the inside. I know I sound like I got that directly off of some daytime TV show, but it is true. Think of the people who are ugly on the inside, the mean and rude and snobby and be glad that you're not like that. You are obviously modest and kind and beautiful on the inside. Think of that next time you don't feel pretty.
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Ha. I think I am pretty but I can be "shy" as they call it. So blah to them.
You have to love who you are. For me...that's not a turn on. Or a turn off. It makes me see people in a different way. Different in who that person really is.
The more you say you suck, the more it will get stuck int oyour head.
Next time before you go to bed, say "I love you" to the mirror.
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I've gone though this, so I can feel your pain. The fact that you like your eyes is a start! Now you have to learn to love who you are. You can think you're pretty without thinking you're "all that". Low self-esteem is a big turn off (to guys especially), so your best friend was right. No one is ugly, and no one is not good enough. How would you define "good enough"? Good enough to have all the guys crawling all over you? You don't want that. It's happened to me and it's really annoying. Good enough to be miss popularity? Think about what you're saying, honey. One true lesson I've learned is that you can't love or have anyone really love you unless you love yourself. I hope your self esteem level goes up! You're beautiful no matter what anyone, INCLUDING YOU, says. =)
-Siren
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Be happy with hoo u r. You may b goin thru tuf times with low selfesteem but it's ok, every1 has those times. there will always b sum1 u think is betta than you. Just live your life and deal.
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