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my boyfriend ignores me about almost everything even tho we get along i email him whenever we have a problem he is not a bad guy but a new guy wants to go out with me and we actually did go out once i would not say im gonna cheat but i just cant seem to decide when i am with my boyfriend i am happy when well for the most part anyhow and when i went out with the new guy i was happy also what should i do i feel right with both of them the second and newest guy is a bit slow but that dont bother me the first one is a bit over bearing at times wants to control me that is his basic only flaw except he hardly ever wants to listen to me
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give your new boyfriend awhile and see if he can shape up but if he doesn' then go for the other guy but don't start thinking that your a pimp or playa
write back and tell me what happens
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if your guy won't listen to you and the other one will i think you found your guy. but make your decision quick before they find out about each other and neither one of them want you
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First I want to say that communication is key to any relationship, and sending an email to your boyfriend to disscuss your problems is a terrible idea. You don't sound very happy in the relationship anyway. He is controling and ignores you – that doesn't sound great to me.
I am going to assume you are in highschool or so. Don't lock yourself into a relationship just so you can say you have a boyfriend, especially one that you are not thrilled with. Go out with other guys and find out what different relationships can be like. You can find a guy that will treat you better than your current boyfriend!
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Hon, if he doesnt listen to you, leave him. Every person needs someone in their life to listen to them. If You think you love the new guy, or you think you like him more then the other, be with him. You have to like the 'YOU' in you before you can the 'other' in other people. I hope this helps you- if you need more advice email me. Im here for you!
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well if he's ignoring you he knows wats up he knows you seeing another guy dats why and you stupid for going with a slow guy when you have a boyfriend alredy he's controlling you because he loves thats all but you dont have to take it from him you can be a bit controlling to him to if you want but not to much because that might leed to breakup ok. this is diane answering your problems
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if your boyfriend ignores u then y be with him i mean u dont need to be treated like that. When a guy ignores you that means hes cheating on or he doesnt want to be with u anymore and he wants u to know that and get the hint that its over. The new guy if hes who you wanna be with then u should be with him.If he makes u feel like your all he wants to be with then thats who u need to be with. Its not whats on the outside its what is in the inside.
-Jess
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