Question Posted Thursday February 26 2004, 3:07 pm
i have this friend who is only a male friend,we have known each other for couple of months but recently we talked and he said that i remind him of his x-girlfriends and that he replies it's like being married to you, why did he say that? i know i was nagging him today that he doesnt take me serious of what i say.Then i said
i just want you to act seriouly then taking a mock out of everything i say its not a joke and this is when he said to another guy in front of me so basically he said it to my face,that it's just like being married to you i can feel it?
but the other guy just got invovled by saying no it's not like that and both giggling and smiling while this friend was looking at me why did he mention this and said that
i remind him of his ex-girlfriend then i remind
him of someone else but didnt said who while he had a smirk on his face and he said something like in a joke way you need a relationship counselling then i said no wonder why you have had soo many girfriends and no wonder why they have dumped you then he laughs
and tries to deny him self that he was the one to dump the girlfriend he had during his past.
not only that pupil says that i have a spanish look and then he said no i think they mean you have a latino temper? i mean why did he say that but he said it in a knid of pleasent way not in a horrible way but he always say it to me as a joke way or a teasing way why does he,i mean before he says i joke with you to see your reaction because i love the way you take it or something like that he said.
please relpy qiuck as possible thank u for ur help by susie.
Additional info, added Thursday February 26 2004, 8:07 pm: we are good friends but he sometimes always say i can imagine you being married he said he says this because he loves getting my attention but why does he always say these things? help me out
and sorry about the spellings i did it in a rush hour! . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? nicegirl90247 answered Saturday February 28 2004, 12:31 pm: This guy sounds very immature. He loves to "push your buttons" If you're not familiar with that expression, it means "to aggravate and annoy you on purpose for his own enjoyment." He likes seeing you get angry. He is not treating you with respect, and I doubt he ever will, unless he decides to "grow up". It sounds like his friend is just as immature as him. Find someone who is more mature and will treat you the way you want and deserve to be treated. Tell him to grow up and act his age or don't bother calling or coming around anymore. If he cares, he'll get the message, if not, it's his loss, not yours. Play it cool, and try not to show that he bothers you so much. Good luck! [ nicegirl90247's advice column | Ask nicegirl90247 A Question ]
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