Hi, I'm new at this. Well lets see, this Christmas my parents found out that one of my best friends was headed down the wrong road. She was telling people that she was having sex with my other best friend who is a guy. Well now we both don't talk to her and so she is saying that me and my guy friend Matt are sleeping together. Last week we did stuff that I wish we hadn't and now it feels weird. He's Bi and has a boyfriend now, and I think that i may like him. I told him, and he likes me too. Well my problem is that he says he thinks i'm the one, but he doesn't want to act on it now. He asked me if someday i would marry him, but i want to go out with him now, not later. He tells me all about his boyfriend and i don't think i can take much more of it. I don't want to end the friendship, but how can i tell him that i hate the fact that he has a boyfriend, and not a girlfriend {me}.???
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? AbbyMichelle answered Saturday February 21 2004, 12:55 am: Well...it sounds like this guy doesn't really knows what he wants. He is telling you no because he has no idea what he wants. Wait a while and let him come to you. You can write him a letter and tell him what you think he needs to know about you. But other than that, go out and have a life of your own. Don't think that just because he is not into you, doesn't mean you can't get a boytoy yourself. And don't drop the boy your seeing when he says he's ready for you. Make him wait a while before he gets you.
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