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Gay Rights


Question Posted Wednesday December 17 2003, 12:10 am

I am not gay or bisexual. That's what makes this so weird, as I have become a Gay Rights activist of sorts. I personally, as a Christian, do not believe that homosexuality is wrong. (When I heard about the gay bishop, I said "more power to him!") I am politically conservative on most things, but I am pretty liberal on this issue. My friends (and adults/teachers) do not feel the same way. I was brought up in a house that accepted everyone for who they were. When I went to a private school, and the subject of homosexuality came up, I was disturbed at the ignorance that surrounded me. Their argument is that people "choose" to be gay. This, of course, is total BS. I have tried to see their point of view, but it's not working for me. I have had MANY arguments about the subject with my peers. Then they will ask a teacher/pastor and they will agree with the peer, of course. It's obvious they have never met anyone gay. They also have misconceptions. They think that all gay men act feminine. How can I make them see the light? Or should I accept that I am surrounded by people who disagree with me on an issue I feel strongly about?

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spacefem answered Thursday December 18 2003, 11:27 pm:
You can't always change people's minds with words or stand up against every wall and knock it down. As a Christian, you're called to be an example of the life you think God would have us lead. There are many attitudes in the world you'll never be able to change, and often you can only create more anger by loudly speaking out.

I'm not saying you shouldn't make your position known. You should. Just don't harp on it and definately don't let it eat away at you if they aren't listening. It's important how you live your life and it's important that you love everyone, not that you lead them all to see the light.

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