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ok heres the deal i am switching out of some of my classes and all tomarrow and that doesnt bother me becaiuse i will be in more classes with my firends but this guys that i used to like and told him i liked him will be in those classes too and i am nervous to see him becuase he hates me and all we used to be freidns but arent now any way do you have any ways i could come over this anxiety and maybe even some tips on how to show him i dont care becuase i dont its just i am one of those people who want to be loved by all hehe but i am no dependant any wya do you guys have any answers
~*confused*~
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Hey!
The fact that you still care tells me that you might still have feelings(in a non-platonic sense) for this guy. First, relax. He can't do anything to you. he's just a guy. Okay, so maybe
he ain't just a guy, but a guy that you liked. But so what? He's still himan. Take courage in the fact that if he ever tried to do anything to humiliate or disturb you, you could do worse to him.
I had this sticky situation once. I managed it by just acting normal. "But how?!" You might ask. It was very hard, but after the first day. It was a breeze. I just kept myself busy and chatted with my friends. I ignored him everytime he shot a look at me. He cornered me once, but I simply told him I was meeting my boyfriend. He back off.
I really don't think using lies will be necessary, but it's there if you're REALLY REALLY in trouble. Just hang in there girl. You'll do fine.
Hang tough and keep your head high
Faithfully,
Actualtruths
Ps. Feel free to email me if you want some private advice. teri_advice@hotmail.com
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This is a pretty common reaction from a guy who isn't interested. Sometimes guys get scared or nervous when a girl that they see as only a friend wants more than that. The reaction sometimes is unpleasant, such as when you say "he hates me and we all used to be friends".
What can you do? First, don't worry about him. He was surprised that you liked him, and doesn't know of any better way to handle it except to be mean to you. So, just talk to your other friends in the class, if you make I contact, just say "hey", and then talk to someone else as if it's no big deal. Soon he'll realize it isn't a big deal too, and things will calm down a bit.
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Dear confused,
Oh course I have answers! To show him you dont care for him anymore you could maybe show affection for another cute guy in one of your classes. Dont pay much attention to him and just pretend hes not there. Ive been in situations such like yours this always seems to work for me!If you need any more advice just come to me.
-Shay :-)
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