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how do you get a guy to like you if you are not a very pretty girl?
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Sadly enough, you didn't tell me how old you are. I can deduce however that you have to be pretty young or you wouldn't CARE if they liked you for aesthetic reasons or not.
Nevertheless, the answer is fairly simple. If they happen to be teenagers, hang it up,. They are more concerned with what their firends will think if they are seen with you and aren't willing ( or MATURE ) enough to risk being ostracized. If they're older, then try and let them know that you share some of the same interests as they do. Each man being different. Strike up a conversation about something you hear him talking about with enthusiasm and see if that makes a dent. Most men are really taken by women who share some of the same interests as them or at least provides them with yet another opportunity to show how much they know about something.
Any further questions, feel free to ask me. I'm listed here as OneMan
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Hey, don't ever TRY to get a guy to like you, don't change who you are to get someone to like you. That will never work. If you are trying to be someone other than who you really are, he'll see right through that. Be yourself, there's nothing wrong in that. If you don't think your very pretty, don't let that get to you, say things to yourself like, "Hey, even though I'm not the prettiest, I can find other things about myself that would be more attractive!" In example, have a great personality, guys will notice that. That's many of the things that gets a guy to look, to notice. Good Luck! :)
-Kachiri*
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hey,
you should just be yourself, every girl is unique. Your personality determines how pretty you are. Mature guys can see past the way you look on the outside. If you are in highschool you should take an interest in older guys like the age of 18 or 19.
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everyone is pretty even if others dont think so. you have to show a guy that you have self confadence. if that doesnt work then find your prettiest feature and show it off, also a little foundation to even out the tones of your skin.
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Who says your not pretty? I mean, any guy who judges on looks alone isn't worth having.. It's cliché but it's true: "It's what's inside that counts"
The right guy will come along eventually.. it takes time for them to realise that good looks doesn't translate into a good girlfriend.
Simon.
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Be the most positive, witty, and pleasant person you can possibly be. A beautiful personality outshines everything; including a pretty face. Smiling doesn't hurt either. We all look better when we smile :-)
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i) every guy has his own conceptions of very pretty.
ii) guys have free will, and will like who they do.
iii) that being said, if you're fun to be around, involved in the world around you and in the right place at the right time, it's possible a guy who is to your liking will take to liking you.
There's cause and effect in human relationships, but you never know quite what the effect of the causes you provide will be. Go forth, enjoy life and good stuff may just happen while you're busy making other plans!
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Okay, I am going to refer you to my advice column ([Link](Mouse over link to see full location)), and go to the last question. It is about becoming popular, but alot of it is basically the same.... good luck, but remember, you don't NEED guys to like you, and it is NOT nessecary... its a perk :-)!
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