Hey everyone! I'm 15 years old and I'm great at giving advice! I'd love to answer any of your questions and feel free to ask me anything! I love to talk online, feel free to IM me, I also love to go to the beach, shopping, and all that other stuff. I'll talk to you later!
E-mail: lilshort3y1@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: California
AIM: lilshort3y1
Member Since: November 27, 2003
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Okay, there's this guy who I am madly in love with. I think of him 24/7, I doodle his name all over my school work, and I dream about him at night. But, as far as I know, he has no idea that I like him. Now he's got a girlfriend. I have no clue what to do. I mean, just because he has a girlfriend, doesn't mean that I can just turn off my feelings like they never existed. I mean, I cry everytime I see him and his girlfriend together. And I see him ALL the time. Everyday in class, weekends, summer. It's crazy. I just don't know what to do. But my problem is that I don't know how to tell him that I love him, because I'm positive that he doesn't feel the same way. All of my friends say I should move on...but it's just so hard. Thanks in advance for any advice you can offer. (link)
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You need to move on. Don't be obsessive over him. He has a grilfriend and you need to find someone who is single and you can get to know. It'll be hard, but you're going to have to try.
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I hate you guys. You gave me terrible advice and now i am stuck in spanish and failing. THANKS (link)
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Well that's your problem. You asked for it, we gave it to you. You didn't have to listen to our advice, so I don't really give if your failing with your comment.
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Tecnically i need no help in the hmwrk feild. BUT. what do you think about me droppin spanish and persuiting my carrer in movies. (link)
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That depends on you, not what we think. Are you really interested in Movies? Go for it! Do what your heart tell you to do.
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I am into musical theatre and i met this guy while doing a show and i really liked him. Now we've sort of kept in touch, but i miss him so incredibly much. I've tried to see him a couple times but it hasn't worked out. What should i do?
~Confused~ (link)
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Do you have his number? Call him! IM him, anything like that, schedule something together that you know will work out.
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I am a fast runner you see and I got asked to run this thing called the turkeytrot, but Iave to run in front of the whole school. I am araid of getting lastplace should I still run? (link)
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Go for it! Even if you do get last place you still got ask to do this running thing right? So already your good enough to run the turkeytrot! Don't be scared! I'll bet you'll do just fine!!
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I like this girl at my school but she is 1 year older than me and in 1 grade ahead of me. She is on my bus and lives really close to me. I dont think she is very popular or has a boyfriend witch is good because im not very popular I mean I have a lot of friends but we are not in the popular group. How should I ask this girl out, do you think its even worth asking her out? Its so hard for me to think of what to say plus I dont know when to asker her out. (link)
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Hey! Get to know her first. A relationship will barely work if you don't know the person. Become friends with this girl, and see where you go from there. That'll be the best! If you need any more help feel free to ask me!
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hey i have to boys i baby sit one is 5 and is the devil and ones 10 he is always pms'in so what can i do to calm them down and give them somethin to do
please help
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Hey! Boys will be boys. For the 5 year old, maybe bring something he's into. If he's into movies, bring a couple movies he'd like, if he likes games bring some board games. Don't ignore them, that's what will get them to act up. Show your authority don't let them be the boss of you. And as for the ten year old, just ask him what he likes to do and do something with him. If it gets to hard watching them, and there's pretty much no solution to controlling these kids, tell the parents. Good luck! Feel free to ask me something anytime!
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I'm 16 and my family still makes me sit at the kid's table at holiday dinners. They act like it's just too big a seating issue for me to not have to eat with five year olds, but I think they just don't want to treat me like an adult. I'm sick of it, but they don't care. How can I wake them up? I somehow lived through another Thanksgiving but Christmas is coming up and I'm going to want to beat them all. (link)
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I know how you'd feel. Just tell them calmly, "Mom, dad, I'm 16 years old, I'm old enough to sit with you guys during family get togethers." Say something like that, calmly. I think they'd understand, bring it up and see how it goes. Good Luck!
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Lately I've been chatting a lot with this guy. He's a friend of a friend. Anyway, it's been about 3 months now and we have loads in common. We decided to go see a movie together(not a date) next weekend. Trouble is, he's very smart, and when I'm chatting with him I always feel like I'm too stupid for him. When we meet, I'm afraid it might show even more, that he might start talking about things that i don't have much say in and he'll find me unworthy of his time and won't want to be friends anymore. How should I act, or should I plain out cancel the meeting and just stay friends on msn? (link)
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Don't cancel. Don't think you're too stupid for him. He probably has the same thing going on thinking, "Oh she's too cool for me, I don't know." If you blow this one off, you'll never know what it'd be like. I say go out with him once, see how it goes. You'llknowif you'd want to see him more. And if you decide to forget it, then you'll be wondering what it would be like if you did. Take a chance. Don't ever think you're to low for a guy. Chances are, you're probably better. Good Luck!
-Kachiri*
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OK there is a guy at school that everyone thinks i like, and the fact is I dont know
I enjoy spending time with him and he's nice, but I dont know if I like him that way >:( (link)
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It'll just have to take time, I kind of am in the situation you are in, I don't know if I like him, or I just like to be around him. I think you may actually like him, or it's just a really good friendship you like. You'll find out soon enough. Good Luck.
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Okay, well...there is this teacher, let's call him Mr. Somebody. Mr. Somebody...well, he isn't really a teacher, but he just works with the guidance counsler in my school. Mr. Somebody is a very freaky guy. It doesn't show to many people...but he just seems like he would be one of those molesters to the younger girls. He looks at me weird and it always seems like he is staring at me and it makes me very uncomfortable...the guidance counslers office used to make me very comfortable but now my stomach churns whenever I think about it. It's not like he's done anything, but its just the way he is and I dont know where to turn. I don't want to talk about it to anybody because I don't want to blow this out of proportion because sometimes that's what i do and I don't know if I'm just judging incorrectly. But one day I was in the guidance counslers office and he came in and my stomach churned and we shook hands when we were introduced to each other and it was just so uncomfortable becasue he gripped so tight and it felt like the handshake lasted for minutes.He just made me feel so uncomfortable and when my guidance counsler talked to me i felt his eyes on my back and it made me nervous. And then that day in gym class and he came up to me when i was sitting down on the floor and kneeled and out is hand on my shoulder and was like "Blah blahs gonna pick you up today ok?" and he smiled and I backed away and nodded. And then later my guidance counsler came up to me and was like blah blahs gonna pick you up today okay? And I told her I already heard and she was like "Oh you did?" and i think that Mr. Somebody just overheard the phone conversation between my dad and my guidance counsler and decided to use it as an excuse to see me or something. I know that sounds crazy, strange and unlikey but you dont see how this guy is...what should I do because I dont think this guy is your average clean cut guy...he just seems so weird and I dotn wanna see him...I give him dirty looks, not meaning to but whatever...and there was also another incident that occured but I'll tell you about that in another letter it will be entitled "About Mr. Somebody continued"
Please help me...what should I do? (link)
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If this guy makes you feel uncomfortable, talk to a counselor. It doesn't seem like he's all that bad from what you've explained, but I understand how you feel, and if he gets more,"friendly" We have this teacher, Mr. Sneider, and he is a pervert, sounds like the guy your explaining but far worst. He touches girls, slaps their butt, and touches them. It's weird, but I don't go near him. I say talk it out with someone. He seems like he has the urge to see you all the time. Talk to somebody, don't keep this inside forever. Good Luck and if you need any more help, don't be afraid to ask.
-Kachiri*
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How do you nicely turn down a friend when he asks you to go to prom with him?
Our prom is in May and I think it's a little early to worry about it yet, but he decided to ask me now. To make matters even more fun he's my ex-boyfriend.
Help? (link)
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Hello. Just gently tell him, "I like you alot as a friend, but I think it should stay that way, so I don't think we should go to the prom together." Something like that. Say it in a way that won't hurt his feelings, and that he will understand. Good Luck! Feel free to ask me whenever! :)
-Kachiri*
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I'm on my period and have really awful cramps. What's the best drug to take? Aspirin? Tylenol? I'm tempted to just take them all. (link)
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I think Advil, IB Profin, and Midol work the best. Try either of those! :)
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Ok, so I've liked this guy for a while now and we're pretty good friends. The thing is though, he's not really looking for a girlfriend right now since he just broke up w/ a serious one. I think I love him and I would wait for him to be ready if I had to. But then there's this other guy... I'm almost 16 (the first guy's 17) and this guy's 20. My parents are kind of sketched out about his age and so am I. I met him at the mall a few days ago and we exchanged phone #'s (not something I do very often). He called me and says he wants to get together. I don't really feel too comfortable around this guy, and I barely know him. Also, if I get into something with this guy, what about the first one? Do i just forget about him? I'm really confused right now. I don't think the guy's a psycho but I don't know for sure. The first one is basically all that I've been looking for.
Sorry for the length, but I really need some help
Thanks a bunch!! ~Pom (link)
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Pom, It already sounds that you are a little nervous of dating a 20 year old. He may be a little to old for you, and may be looking for something else. Sounds like guy number 1 sounds good for you, he's your age, and wasn't some random guy you've met at the mall. Sounds like you have already figured this one out on your own. Stay safe, and stick with your own age right now. Don't hesitate to ask me anymore questions. lilshort3y1@yahoo.com
-Kachiri*
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i dont no if i am straight bi or a lesbian, i mean i always have the hots for guys but sometimes i catch my self checking out a girl its not all the time becuase then i would no but every once in a while i will check one out and i dont no why i would be like oo she has a nice butt or something like that even though i no i lean towards guys but i need help (link)
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Hey, that doesn't neccesarily mean your bi-sexual. A lot of girls check out other girls and compare themselves. It doesn't mean your sexually attracted. Girls are always like that, seeing their competition like, "Oh she has a bigger butt" Things like that. You'll just have to find out. But that's what I think. Good luck! Don't hesitate to ask me anything else!
-Kachiri*
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how do you get a guy to like you if you are not a very pretty girl? (link)
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Hey, don't ever TRY to get a guy to like you, don't change who you are to get someone to like you. That will never work. If you are trying to be someone other than who you really are, he'll see right through that. Be yourself, there's nothing wrong in that. If you don't think your very pretty, don't let that get to you, say things to yourself like, "Hey, even though I'm not the prettiest, I can find other things about myself that would be more attractive!" In example, have a great personality, guys will notice that. That's many of the things that gets a guy to look, to notice. Good Luck! :)
-Kachiri*
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Is there any open and unambiguous way to let a girl know she's charming, gorgeous, mesmerizing and brilliant without being miscontrued?
What if such a misconstrual would be right :) ? (link)
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Hey, just tell it to her openly, but sincerely. She'll see right through if it's fony. Be sincere, and just tell her, "You're amazing" and look into her eyes. Be romantic, but honest. Good luck!
-Kachiri*
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Alright, i just got back from hanging out with this guy (sry another guy prob hehe). well he and i like eachother and he kept talking about how he wanted to kiss me. However he never did. I know he isnt shy, because he definetly isnt if you knew him. So what's holding him back? He almost kissed me today, but then sorta changed his mind i guess...what could the problem be? I think he isn't sure if i want him to or not> How can I tell him that yes, I want him to kiss me, without freaking him out?
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Hey, this guy is probably just nervous. If he already told you that he wanted to kiss you, I think he's dropping hints, but is too nervous to go for it himself. There really is no serious problem, he's just nervous. Let him know you're okay with him kissing you, or you make the move and go for it, that'll break the ice. I hope everything works out for you, good luck! And don't hesitate to ask me any other questions!
-Kachiri*
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