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Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 5:06 pm

i'm a freshmen in HS, i have this huge crush on this sophmore. He's not in any of my classes but i see him in the hallways alot. My friends think i should ask him, but i shy and wouldnt know what to say. what should i do? please help!



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which guy?


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 4:00 pm

my ex bfs brother really likes me and wants me to go out with him (lets call him mike) and so does my friends ex bf and hes rlly nice. but i really miss mikes brother and i couldnt stand 2 c him knowing that i miss his brother (lets call his brother bob) and so i miss bob and like mike but hes three and a half yrs older than i am too... and this other guy whos in my english class really likes me 2 (josh) and i dont want to upset any guys or get myself hurt again bc bob really hurt me, its been about 3 months since i went out with anyone bc i miss bob but im way too good 4 him but still cant resist liking him... what should i do??

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i dont know what to do


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 4:00 pm

ok so this guy i like and he liked me too. well idk, we were REALLY close. got a long GREAT and we talked about EVERYTHING. well l8tly.. EVERYTHING has gone wrong for him. his 2 best friends moved away, his grandpa passed away, his other grandpa is really sick, and his aunt died in a carcrash. and i mean throughout it all i told him i was there for him NO MATTER WHAT. and he confided in me a lot. but we got in a fight the other night.. nd he cussed me out and i got really mad at told him i was gonna have sum1 wo0p his butt.. and all this ridiculous stuff. and since then we havent talked. i miss him sooo much. i cried myself to sleep the last few nights.. and i cant help but think about how much i need him there. b/c all this crap is goin wr...

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how?


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 3:58 pm

How do u know u are really ready for a boyfriend?

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I have two friends


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 3:50 pm

I have two friends, a girl and a guy. I have a crush on my guy friend....but my girl friend is in the way. I mean, she already has a BOYFRIEND...but it's as if her boyfriend is our guy friend. I also think that he likes her, because he's always hugging her and being nice to her, while both of them leave me out and make me feel bad. And when they talk, I can't get into the conversation, because I have no connection to what they are talking about. HELP!

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Getting over my first love


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 3:41 pm

So my boyfriend and I, both almost 18, were together for nearly 11 months, virtually every single day. We were inseparable. We'll both be going to college next year, and we were planning on moving somewhere away and finding an apartment together. There was even tentative talk of marriage. I felt like I could really see where my future was headed. I was so completely in love.

But then he tells me, one month ago tomorrow, that it's just not working out. He says he doesn't feel the same anymore, and that he can't give his whole life to me. I was completely devastated and cried for days straight.

He's the most wonderful person I've ever met. We share our group of friends, so we agreed that we would both try our bes...

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My cousin and the boy i like


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 3:07 pm

...well last night i went to the movies with this boy i like...and ma cus went to..an she also likes him..well ..let me tell you everything that happened...we were all sitting togther an then ma cus started to make out with him ..and well yeah i was pissed and upset so i cried...and she nows i like him ALOT...so he kissed me out the lips...but i pulled him off becasue he was an ass whole...he told me he loved me and that he'll be with durin the whole movie but he lies..like most guys..but/..then he went for a walk outside and i went to and so did ma cus...so i new somethin was wrong and i asked him an he wouldnt tell me..so ma cus goes ill make you happy and pushed him up againt the wall an made out with him RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME AGAIN...an ...

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friend's friend


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 2:34 pm

ok so not to confuse, let's give names:
my friend: sara
her best friend: liz
liz's boyfriend: bob

bob is trying cheat on liz with sara. he's asked sara to have sex with him, take pictures of herself and give them to him, etc. sara refuses and has put up with this for a while, and then finally told liz. liz believed her at first and then i don't know what happened. sara tried calling liz and liz's mom answered saying that liz wasn't available. sara asked when she would be and she said, for you, never. sara is devastated and can't understand why liz would do this to her. (liz and bob are still together, btw). what can i say to comfort sara? is there any way i can help the situation?

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hard to get!


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 1:34 pm

how do u i play hard to get and still having the guy come back for more but doesnt give up on me lol??

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age difference


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 1:32 pm

i really like this guy, i'll call "dan". he's 15 years old and i'm 17. we both like each other and want to possibly go out, but the age difference is really bothering me. is 2 years apart in high school too much?

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the rest...


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 1:18 pm

i have told her how i feel, i have asked her for a better reason to stop liking me and she tells me she doesnt know...she says she doesnt like me for my personality even though she only knows the one i have around her. i have a different personality around her because i dont think she would like the one i have with my friends because we are all a bunch of stupid bastard skaters who piss everyone off, someone told me that the minute you get her to show her real smile is when youve captured her heart..only thats the problem i get her to smile and laugh and everything all the time and she doesnt even like me. obviously if she doesnt like the personality i have with her then she wont like my real one, i dont have a very good history with girls ...

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Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 1:16 pm

relationships never seem to work out...

the guys that like me are the ones i would rather avoid...

but the guys i like see me only as a good female friends.

what should i do?

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my bf and my friend


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 12:52 pm

im 13-f i have a bf and i luv him its just we've been going out since summer and i know i shouldn't have done this but i've gone really far with him but my friend likes me soooooooooooo much and i sorta like him to. the thing is he has a gf but he said he'll break up with her for me! but i dont want him to because i dont want to break up with my bf. i cant decide who i like better but i've known my bf for 2 years now and i went out with him in 6th grade and in 7th but now since im in 8th grade i sort of want a knew bf because i've known him so long........im really confused about what to do....help please! thnx

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*sAyiNg "i LoVe YoU"*


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 12:16 pm

ok my bf told me he loves me when he left a mssg on his fone but he wont say it directly on the fone or in person so i just broke the ice n sed if furst last nite when i saw him and he sed it back but i sed it as i was turnin to leave so i didnt see his reaction or nothing n we both sed it like really quietly....but then he called n he didnt say it (i didnt hear my fone ring) so he lft a mssg but he didnt say it....does it mean he didnt m ean it or he didnt wanna say it again or wat? did he only say it bak so i wouldnt get mad or somethin?

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I need a boyfriend


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 11:42 am

I feel that I need a boyfriend. All of my friends have one. But no, it's not because of that. You see, I think I need someone to talk to, someone that will make me feel better, someone who is sweet and there for me. I want a boyfriend, and it's NOT because I wanna impress people that I have a hot boyfriend. I just feel lonely. But IDK how to get a bf. I wana ask guys out, but I am SOO sure that they'll say no, because they don't like me. They like the popular, hot girls. Not fat, ugly, stupid, weird, girls.

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Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 11:07 am

ok i like this kid who is on the same sports team as me and its an all yr sports team n i wnat 2 tell him that i like so taht we could hopefully take our firnedship 2 the next level but im afraid taht if i tell him i liek him n taht he doesnt liek me back than things would b awkward n since its a whole yr team idk wut 2 do i need ur guys'z help wut should i do?!?

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Why


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 10:49 am

well ...this boy i like he told me he liked me too..but last night me and my cus went to the movies with him and hemade out with her...and yeah so im kindda really pissed off about it all and stuff...but i dont know what to say about it ...he told me next time he'll make it up too me but noo..and he wanted to msake out with too at the moves..but i didnt becasue he already had ma cus SPIT IN HIS MOUTH ..na di made hime cry...but he made me too and i dont know what to tell him now and i dont know how i feel anymore about him..plz help me

-sined confused

p.s. what should i do about ma cus

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i'll rate a 5


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 8:37 am

what are some ways that can help me to stop being so shallow? and stop caring about looks in a guy?

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X boyfriends


Posted Saturday November 6 2004, 1:37 am

hey yall, me and my X just broke up about a month ago.. i already have a new boyfriend, but i dont know if i really like him or just trying to get over my X. me and my X only went out for about 4 months, but the love we had for each other was amazing. but now me and my X arent on good terms and he blocked all my screen names and is talkin shit about me to all my friends. i just wanna let him know that i care but he takes it as being obsessive...but i know im not obsessed..i just miss him..how can he go to lovign me so much to hating me so much?? i mean, he knew my AIM password and deleted my whole list and it was the same as my email password..i guess he just guessed it was...and he changed it! why is he doing this??

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this is long so i hope you feel like reading


Posted Friday November 5 2004, 11:43 pm

im 14/m and i am in love with this girl. she used to like me a lot and then she said over a few days she started having mixed feelings. she had liked me like a week after she started going out with my friend and she dumped him but didnt say why or something like that. i told her she was beautiful and that i love her. we have mostly similar common interests. we have made out and stuff and we were very close. at homecoming during the last slow song i asked her out..she she doesnt know and the next day she said she doesnt like me anymore..that was like a month ago and now she likes this sophomore who i think is using her. she told me one of the reasons she didnt like me anymore was she couldnt picture me as her boyfriend..i saw the guy she lik...

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