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shaving my underarms for girlfriend
Posted Monday February 14 2022, 3:58 pm
I don’t know if there is a contest for weirdest question but I feel mine might qualify to be in the contest. My big question is about whether or not to keep my underarms shaved or to let the hair grow back to natural. I am a 14 year old guy in high school. My girlfriend is 16 years old and amazingly beautiful and way smarter than me and a funny sense of humor. I did a dare where I let my girlfriend and her friend shave my underarms in a video to prove I was in support of women who had to shave there when guys don’t have to do it. I was trying to be in support of women’s rights but I found out from her later that was just an excuse to prank me and I fell for it. I guess it was funny. I say it shows I will literally do anything to k...
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How Do I Adapt To Hazing In ROTC Unit
Posted Friday February 11 2022, 9:36 am
I need interpersonal relations advice about how to be a good sport and fit in with the Navy midshipmen in my ROTC program. They are hazing me in what I consider a mostly harmless and somewhat humorous way, but I secretly am sort of getting a little bummed out about it and just wish there was a way I could be more accepted in the group.
For background, I am a 19M and I am Marine cadet in ROTC. I will owe the Corps a term of service after I graduate college in exchange for scholarships and financial aid during my undergraduate course of study. I will also be commissioned as a Marine officer once I complete officer candidate training.
I was assigned to a Navy ROTC unit because there is a history of the Marines being a part of the...
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Physical Relationship With Adult Female Boss
Posted Monday February 7 2022, 2:59 pm
I have a question about how to handle something that could be awkward. It is not a crisis right now, but it is something I am thinking about and wondering how to handle it when it comes up in the future.
I am 16M. I am having a consensual sexual relationship with my female supervisor at work. She is older than me at 26. I am a dishwasher at a restaurant and she is an assistant manager in charge of my shift. After we started being physical she made sure my two shifts each week are for the closing shift when she works (which is fine with me).
It all started when she found out I lied about my age on my job application. I was actually 15 when I started. I am trying to save money to get a car. Still working on that. She ...
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I had a strange dream
Posted Saturday February 5 2022, 1:09 pm
Hi. Last night i had a strange dream where the girls in my family were trapped inside this house and there was a scary man who threatened us all the time. We kept thinking of ways to leave the house but he had two guns.
the strange part of the dream was that I was expecting. It was so surreal to me that I was shocked in the dream. I am 20 years old and I have never been in any relationship like this nor do I have any plans. I don't consume any media that would make me thirst for motherhood. The closest i have come into contact with a baby is baby sitting (when i was 12 and then when i was 17).
is this dream just random rubbish? The man was my old teacher who was awful at teaching his subject and got scammed a lot. I ...
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Is he interested? Is he being a jerk? Why is he around me?
Posted Friday February 4 2022, 8:45 pm
This is kinda annoying but I was kinda interested in a guy who is younger than me and I am in my 30's and he is in his 20's. I don't think we are that far apart in age. He seems like a fun guy but from judging from what I can see he cares too much about what people think of him and I can see he has some growing up to do. I don't know this guy that well but he is in the dance community so I know him from seeing him and started becoming a dance teacher. Over the years I have seen him dance by me on purpose with friends or he's near me with his friends. I also think he knows that I like him and I have complimented him on his dancing. He said he was flattered when I told him I liked his dancing. In the past I have tried messaging him and he ign...
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My son got a DNA test kit for Christmas that he does not want to do
Posted Wednesday February 2 2022, 9:04 am
My mother in law gave my 15 yr old son a DNA test kit for Christmas, and she asked him if he sent it in yet. She also wants to manage the account once its sent in. He wants to give the kit back to her, but my husband is upset that he doesn't want to do it, that it cost $70 and he thinks 'whats the big deal'? I personally think that if he doesn't want to do it, its his perogative AND its his DNA to which he shouldn't be bullied into giving if he doesn't want to. This is causing stress because of our disagreement but I do not want my son to be bullied into doing something he doesn't want to do just to please my husbands mother. And she will be upset and that is how she usually gets her way.
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my best friend ghosted me
Posted Tuesday February 1 2022, 12:58 pm
I am a 22 years old female. my best friend is 29 and a male. we met during the beginning of the pandemic in 2020. we met online and were inseparable. we haven't met because we live in different countries but we have each other on social media and use use call all the time.. we were both going through so much at the time, we grew dependent on each other through the tough times. being the big age gap he helped me understand so much in my life. I was able to get help by going to therapy for my anxiety and depression. we have been best friends for almost 2 years. it's 100% platonic. he has had a girlfriend for about 10 months and she knows about me. there are no problems. the last time we spoke was January 22 we were suppose to play a video gam...
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An insecure past that eating me away
Posted Tuesday January 25 2022, 6:40 pm
Hello, I am a 28yo, Indian married woman living abroad with my husband. I had a past before my marriage. I had a full fledged affair with a married office colleague in my previous office in India. Nobody apart from my best friend knows about this. At that time, my current husband was interested in me and tried to convince me into a relationship (he was in the UK and I was in India at that time, so mostly it was a long distance relationship and he was so busy with his studies that he wasn't able to give me time regularly, we hardly spoke or Skype each other,many times it happened so that we didn't speak weeks and even months at a stretch). I was growing impatient and doubting if this relationship was going to work or not. He seemed pretty ir...
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My friend wants to come with us on my family trip, but...
Posted Saturday January 22 2022, 12:09 pm
My friend wants to come with us on my family trip. But I really want to spend my time with my family because we rarely hang out just us. My friend wants to go out on a trip but how do I tell them that without hurting their feelings?
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Single child problem
Posted Tuesday January 18 2022, 3:39 am
Hi there, I need help to understand my parent's psychology in a non-biased way, thus writing my problem here. Being a single child was not an issue for me and my parents while growing up. They provided me with every possible things they could afford. They taught me to dream big, to have a career and to have a mind of my own. They used to be rational in every ways. But after my marriage and my coming to abroad to live with my husband changed everything back home. My parents got so insecure that they gave me constant worries and stresses about things back home which are not anymore under my controls. They started guilt tripping me in innocuous ways for getting married and going far away from them. Whenever they see a neighbor kid or my cousin...
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My girlfriend has no feelings for me anymore. what should i do
Posted Thursday January 13 2022, 11:15 pm
My girlfriend has no feelings for me anymore. what should i do?
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My sister.
Posted Sunday January 9 2022, 6:06 pm
My sister is so annoying. I'm tired of her stealing my money, using my credit card, and trashing my bedroom at school. I need to get rid of her. What should i do?
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Should I get a drivers license in my condition?
Posted Wednesday January 5 2022, 10:29 pm
I'm 28 years old, I have anxiety disorder and panic attacks for five years. My family is really conservative in their religious views and because of it I wasn't able to get psychologist help for all these years. I also have sleeping disorder and night paralysis with nightmares. Before my disease I used to be independent woman, I would work, study in college. In big city I was able to get to college and job by bus. But we have moved and right now we live in small city and there are no buses.I was able to find job only in big city, because there are no jobs. Last year I took driving classes for few months and have passed all driving lessons successfully. But I have serious panic attacks during driving that I start to loose concentration that ...
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I'm going to jail
Posted Thursday December 30 2021, 8:44 pm
Last summer, I (F/20) decided to go solo camping on some abandoned farmland just outside the city limits. There was a burn ban in effect, but I chose to make a campfire anyway. Long story short, it grew out of control and spread onto a neighboring farm, severely damaging a barn and the equipment inside it.
I was charged with reckless burning (a felony), pled guilty, and have been sentenced to nine months in the county jail. The judge was gracious enough to give me two weeks to get my affairs in order before I self-surrender. I now have ten days left.
I definitely played a stupid game and won a stupid prize. I wish more than anything that I could go back and stop that night from ever happening. But I know that's...
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My neighbors, who is a scientist lacks emotional intelligence
Posted Tuesday December 28 2021, 5:13 pm
My wife passed away last December from cancer, this year has been very difficult for me. I've practically been isolated. I am still very devastated, I miss my wife so much. My neighbors gave me a gift and a card. When I opened the box it was a coffee mug with a face sculptured on it. The card read " So you don't feel alone when you're drinking." This really hurt and bothered me. Am I wrong for feeling this way?
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My brother's relationship is breaking our family.
Posted Monday December 27 2021, 1:58 pm
I am from south Asia. My family (Mom, Dad, Bro and me) have always been close knit. That is until my bro left for college. He graduated at the bottom of his course(despite being excellent at school) and also informed us that he had started dating a girl 6 years older than him. My parents were upset at both these news but I consoled them saying that this was normal in today's times and that age was just a number. My brother joined the same well-paying organization as my father. Then one day he announced that he had broken up with that girl. He was quite furious and I listened to him vent. Then a few months later he announced that he was back with that girl. Their relationship has been long distance from the beginning where they meet every f...
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Posted Monday December 27 2021, 5:15 am
I'm Vietnamese, so my English is not very good. I have a very close friend and she is really close to me. I used to play with a group of old friends but then they left me, and they hurt me a lot And even called me trash So I don't want she Close to them because I fear they will be like me and I feel uncomfortable when I see my best friend so close to them. I told her what I thought. And she also promised me that she wouldn't get along with them. But one day we had a big argument and she left me. After no longer talking, I see that she always takes the time to call and talk to them many times and post stories like close friends. That left me pretty devastated and frustrated. And then she texted me and asked me to give her a chance and I agre...
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What do I wear to a New Year's Eve Dance Event That is Red Carpet?
Posted Sunday December 26 2021, 3:36 pm
So I am a 32 year old female and I have been invited to a new yeara eve dance and it's a red carpet event. I have no idea what to wear.
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Trying To Be Chill RE Gay College Roommate
Posted Monday December 20 2021, 5:37 pm
Hello. I am not sure how to do this so I will just ramble and hopefully there will be some good advice even if I don’t ask the right questions. I appreciate any honest opinions and advice.
I am 18 and freshman in college. I am straight and raised traditional Catholic. I do have a girlfriend (five years now) but she is smarter than me and going to school at Notre Dame in Indiana and I go to school locally in St. Louis. I could give more details on that if you want, but not sure if they are relevant.
The issue is my roommate. Let’s call him Trevor (not his real name). Trevor is totally and fearlessly gay. He likes dudes and he does not hide it. He talks about guys he likes, or guys he met, or guys we see on TV, and how hot t...
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Jealousy and harassment
Posted Sunday December 19 2021, 3:54 pm
Hi there, I need an anonymous advice to tackle a nasty situation. I've discussed this with my family and friends but I felt they were biased. I need someone to think about it with impartiality.
So, I came to live in the US with my husband. Initially I was a housewife. Then got a job and now pursuing full-time PhD. There is this woman, wife of my husband's office colleague, absurdly jealous of me. If I buy things she has to buy the exact same thing. If I decorate my house in a certain way, she has to do it ditto. I decorate my house with my paintings.She can't paint so she's buy same patter painting and claim this was her original idea. I love gardening, she didn't have an interest in plants. Even when I gifted her two plants, she...
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