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ok recently, my relationship with my mom has gone pretty much down the tubes.... it always seems like ive done something wrong or shes just mad at me idk... i am pretty moody a lot and i get mad and storm off and then when i come back shes like giving me the silent treatment... its annoying me and whenever im in a good mood, she just like looks all sad which makes me mad.. idk its strange but is there anything that i can do??
13/f btw...
thanks<3
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if i know anything about this... all i say is if you guys get to fightin dont fight bad.. all that does is get you into more trouble && you get into fighting and it all gets out of hand... just relax && yea thats what moms are supose to do.. get you mad && sad when you are in the best moods.. your mom might be havin a bad day or she could be hurtin.. or somethign like that.. give her a break.... you are a teen so you will have attitude but just relax...
trust me.. im 15/f && i got into a fight with my mom over the same thing this past weekend && i ended up with a fat lip.. so just relax a little.. thats what i got to say...
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Same with me and my mom just try to ignore her for a while and what ever she says do it then go to your room and do other stuff.The more you fight with her she will get worse.If you don`t feel like ignoring her sit down and talk to her maybe theres something going on and shes hiding it just talk to her about it.But thats just how most moms are..♥
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Firstly you need to become a little less moody and stop storming off because that apparently really hurts your mom's feelings. Also be very open and just have alot of conversations with her and see if you guys have anything in common. I also beleive it takes two to tango and she equally has to be nice to you as well. If she doesn't look like she is contributing and being nice then tell her your feelings. Hope you and your mom get a better relationship :)
♥ Jess
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The first thing I think you should do is try to calm yourself down to make yourself a little less moody. Then try talking to your mom. Ask her why she seems mad at you and ask what you can do to help her fix that. Tell her how you feel when shes like that and maybe ask her how she feels too. Once you guys have made up, maybe decide on having a mother daughter day where u hang out together. Me and my mom have those about once a month and it seems to help our relationship a lot.
Well I hope this helps
xoxo
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I know, mom's are pains at times. I not an average girl, I'm smart, and my room is clean. My mom blows up if I do anything wrong, like forget to tell her a message, I'm doomed. She's probably going through menopause. She's gonna be moody like that for a while. Just, stay low for a while. Behave a little bit, and listen to her. She might chill off if you do that.
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You know, I still feel this way, and I'm 23. My mother and I have always been close, but because of that closeness, we tend to ride each other's nerves quite a bit. I'm moody as well...I used to do the same thing. Then when I'd be.."done" being moody and try to talk to her, she'd just ignore me.
As someone else mentioned, your mother MIGHT be going through menopause. That causes mood swings, hot flashes, general irritability, etc. It's not her fault or yours, it's just mother nature.
But before assuming that, try and talk with her. If you come at her seriously and ask to talk, her ears might just be open to listen. Ask if there's anything bothering/concerning her, and express your thoughts on how your relationship is sort of dwindling. Even if she may know the same, it opens people's eyes when they actually HEAR someone saying it.
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First off, how old is your mom? If she's in her late 40's (like my mom) she 'may' be going through menopause and you're going through puberty. So it may be different for both of you.
Just hang in there and have a talk with her and remember, even though your mom may get mad at you, she'll always love you.
-GD
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Well... It seems like she may be a little dissapointed in things in general. The first and best thing you could do would be to control your anger and moods. I don't think she knows how to deal with you when you do that. And if it seems like your always doing something wrong, why not talk to her about it? Find out what she thinks you're doing wrong? That seems like your best bet.
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