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I'm 16/f, and I have 3 friends who always do stuff withought me. I feel like i'm never included in anything they do. And I always feel like they're talking about me at theyre little get togethers. I'm always sitting at home while they're out having fun and they don't even bother to call me. I also think they're parents hate me as well, which sucks even more. My question is, what should I do when they DO call me and what should I tell them?
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tell them how you feel or if that sounds to stupid then you should invite all of them to the movies or something so you could hang out with them and see what they do without you
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okay, it sucks having friends like that and being treated like that! i can relate..ive beeen treated like that all my life. But if they do call you should say "Dont call me anymore, if you want my friendship back then you have to come to me and fucken tell me to my face! All of you not including me when we are supposed to be friends pisses the fuck outta me, im so glad i had friends who wanted to be my friend" And i bet they'll say something..this could lead to great possibilities! But babe just keep your head up and try making more better friends that actually keep you included! i mean you dont need friends that fucken treat you like shit! THE ONLY PEOPLE YOU NEED IN YOUR LIFE ARE THE PEOPLE WHO NEED YOU IN THERES!!
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Tell them to get lost if they do that then they are not true friends
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Hey I know exactly how you feel! The past few months have been like the exact same situation as yours for me. Lately I've been trying to invite all of them places in advance so they can't make other plans first together... and we all can hang out. It's been working for me, and it seems like they weren't doing that (all getting together without me) on purpose really anymore it was just kinda happening by coincidence. Ummm if that doesn't work then they might be upset with you about something, so you need to come directly out and ask them nicely and respectfully what is going on. If they don't really answer and the behavior continues, I say, this sucks, but you have to get new friends because it looks like these guys aren't that great of friends. As for their parents, oh well. Just try to be nice to them and ask them how their day is going if you happen to see them or whatever. You can't do anything more than be respectful, nice, and yourself right? Good luck hope it works! xo
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Get new friends!But b4 you do i would call them and try to make plans or tell them how you feel, that you feel they are leaving you out and ask why..it doesnt matter that there parents odnt like you because well your frens with the kid not the parent! hope i helped :) plz rate
xoxo
~becca~
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You should call them more often, because that might be the reason why they don't invite you places. You don't have to tell them anything, because you can just talk. But you can also ask if you guys are still friends, and if there was anything you did. As for their parents, you never know, but it shouldn't matter, they aren't your friends. Hope I helped=)Please rate me
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I say get new friends! That same thing happened to me a few years ago. The best thing to do is forget about them and hang out with new people. That's what I did, and know I have lots of friends who I do things with! Good luck!
Happy New Year!
♥ Erin
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O that really sux. Try making plans with them and see if they leave you out. if they do try to talk to them like, Is there something rong with me. I;ve been your friend for a while and u r still treatying me like a flunky. If they are like are chemistry between us is fine and they still leave you out, try hangin out with a different group of friends. Remember treat them like u wanna be treated. Thats the golden rule. Real Friends are like diamonds and our precious and rare false frends are like autumn leaves and found every where!
I hope I helped Good luck IM me and tell me wats up I Heart Sk8erZzZ
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Try calling them. And if they're talking behind your back, they're not true friends. Try talking to them and tell them how you feel, if they're your real friends, they would care.
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You should definitely talk to them and tell them how you feel. It sucks, knowing that they don't want you included in anything they do. Invite them over one day and talk to them that way. When they do call you, just be like "Why don't we hang around that much anymore?" Say something like that! Hope I helped :)
-Karen
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