Question Posted Wednesday December 8 2004, 10:21 pm
i have one friend that seems to be mad at me and my other friend and we have asked her if she is mad at us and she says no. My friend and i dont know what to do. We really want to be friends with her but i just dont know what to do
dinoold answered Thursday December 9 2004, 1:29 pm: well if she does not want to hang or if she does not return your calls..i am thinking she is mad..and is done with you guys. You cannot make someone be your friend..trust me..have tried this year and this lady does NOT want to have anything to do with me..if you can get her to get mad at you to at least find out what the reason is behone her feelings..but that could bakcfir.e
linwe answered Thursday December 9 2004, 11:42 am: when your talking about three friend gealousy comes to mind, be caareful with her feelings. [ linwe's advice column | Ask linwe A Question ]
Karen answered Thursday December 9 2004, 11:38 am: Talk to her! Ask her why she's mad at you and your friend! Let her know how you two feel! Even if you didn't start this "fight", just apologize to make some things better! Maybe she's changed like maybe she doesn't want to hang around with you two any more? Some people are like that! If she doesn't want to be friends with you two, then just leave it as it is. Hope I helped :)
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Farren answered Thursday December 9 2004, 9:23 am: She's just changed. It's not that she wants to be your enemy, she just doesn't want to hang out with you guys anymore. People don't have to be friends or enemies, just be neutral. Just leave her alone, she's changed and you've grown apart.
Sorry if I sound mean, I'm trying to be honest, no harmful intentions.
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Courtney answered Thursday December 9 2004, 8:30 am: You all need to talk to her . You all need to air out whatever frustrates you with her because that's the only way you're going to mend this friendship . If it doesn't work , then you'll kknow that it truly wasn't meant to be . Conversing woth each other is a major deal with have a friendship and don't repress your feelis when it comes to an issue . It only makes matters worse . So, I hope I was some help and have a nice day .By. [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
Daisy answered Thursday December 9 2004, 8:26 am: Ok, is there any reason at all why you think she might be mad at you and your friend? If not you really need to confront her individually. If you do it together then it will seem a bit threatening. You need to say to her that if she is your friend then you would expect her to tell you what is wrong. You are upset that she is not telling you her problems and if she continues being like this then keep your distance from her. She will soon realise that she should tell you her problems and reallise how much you both mean to her. [ Daisy's advice column | Ask Daisy A Question ]
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