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I have some trouble getting a boyfriend. I'm 13, and I've only had 3 boyfriends where my friends have had a bunch more! It's not like I'm trying to compete, it's just weird! I mean, people tell me I'm pretty, but I don't think I am. I also know I'm not fat but not thin... and I have a lot of friends! I don't really know what's wrong with me! Can anyone help?
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Hey,
I'm ur aGE TOO and i havent had a b/f. Like u, im not fat but not thin. People sometimes tell me i'm pretty. don't worry about the whole thing about not having a b/f thing cuz between u, me, and my viewers(lol) i think its fun not having a b/f cuz u dont have to make a commitment and you can flirt with a lot of guys!!! lol
hope i can help!!
~trumpetchyk92
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it doesn't matter how many boyfriends youve had..im 16 and i have had a total of 3 boyfriends and 2 girlfriends...its nothing big..just dont worry about it darlin ;]
xOxO - Ty*Ty
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Hey! Maybe you and the guys don't talk much. Try to hang out with them, and share your interests and hobbies!
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At 13 you dont need to have had a bunch of boyfriends!!! So 3 is perfectly fine! Also you should try to be more positive about yourself! Work on your SELF-ESTEEM! Guys like it when a girl is comfortable in her own skin! And definately dont like it when a girl is FAKE! So just be you and you shouldnt have ne problems gettin a guy! And if you dont get a guy right away... YOU ARE THIRTEEN! You have time!
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Hey
I think nothing is wrong with you its just maybe the guys dont realli kno you. So make some guy friends and kno that when your thirteen you shouldnt have to many bfs or ppl might think you are a playa or somethin. I thave had lyke 7 bfs in the last year and not that anyone thinks im a slut or playa but i think that guys kno it wont last long. So dont worry about getting bfs just make some new guy friends even the cutie your crushin on. Then they can realli see wut ur lyke!!!
-Missy-
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"You can't expect anyone to think you're pretty if you rate yourself a zero." Have some self-confidence- it's sexy as hell from what I've heard. You're thirteen too...relax man, you've got years ahead for boyfriends so if you don't have one now, then enjoy the single life! Once people realize that you have fun on your own, they start to like you for that and you'll be beating them away with a stick.
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Belive me, theres nothing wrong with that! im like almost 15 and i've never had a bf..lol. I mean, realy...you dont want people to go out with you just because of the way you look, right? I'm sure the right guy will come along soon. Goodluck! =) <333
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Well you basically just answered your own question... if you don't think you're pretty then that's your problem. guys like girls that have confidence! they like a girl that thinks that they are pretty. not being cocky or anything but if you think you're pretty then it boosts your confidence and guys like girls with alot of confidence. and it's normal not to have a lot of boyfriends. you're only 13! you still have freakin forever to get another boyfriend! sit tight!
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whoa it sounds exactly like me
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hey its ok that u dont have that any boyfriends!just wait becuz once u have a boyfrind things will get a little crazy! but any way its not your fault u dont have any boyfriends its just that the guys arnt ready to date u! or if u see a guy u like then why dont u ask hi out! ITS all gonna be ok though- keep me posted
SAMANTHA
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well one of the problems thta yooh seem to have is yooh seem self conscious .. alot of girls are but yooh need to look nd the mirror nd see somethingother then ugly even if yooh see only a lil pretty .. yooh need to be more confident cause from wat i see confidence gets the bois attention .. wen i had confidence in 8 grade i got so many bois to ask me out .. so have mor confidence nd for me make up gave me the confidence . well good luck .. im me if yooh need to talk [ LyL qT x lOnLy [ *megan
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Look hun, dont worry about it. Your 13, you have plenty of time to break hearts and im sure your pretty, sometimes guys can sense that you dont think you pretty and its a turn off, be confident with yourself and never let anyone tell you your ugly!
x0x good luck hunnie
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Hey!I've had the same prob. I learned it was cuz I wasn't putting myself out there.Letting boys KNOW that I was single and looking. Be more flirtatious maybe. Who cares if girls call you a flirt. You gotta do what you gotta do. Just don't flirt w/ other girls bf's.lol. Well Good Luck! (still be yourself though!)
xOxO tasha
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OK! Nothing's wrong with you... Hey, I'm 13 and I have had no boyfriends (just shared some experiences with "friends")! Some girls just have more boyfriends than others...
Signed,
xxAdviceGirlxx
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