I met this guy online and I thought that I had a crush on him. He was REALLY nice and everything that he said just made me feel that there was serious relationship potential. However, I just met him in person and he's really shy around me. Sure he might be shy because he has the hotts for me or something else along those lines, but now that we've met in person he won't even talk to me online anymore! Maybe it was because he lied about his height and he discovered that I'm an inch taller than him (and I'm a girl) but shouldn't we still continue a friendship? I just don't understand. Does anyone have any ideas why he won't talk to me at all anymore?
Angel_advice answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 2:13 pm: Hes probably enbarreses that he lied a little bit. You can make the first step to talking to him online or emailing him is a good way too. You should that it doesnt matter that your an inch taller or anything that he lied about.
S_C answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 8:21 am: maybe he pictured you differently and isn't impressed? (unless u sent him a pic, and im not tryin to be mean)
or maybe he's embarassed cuz he lied about height
or maybe he thinks u don't wanna be seen wit him, or maybe he doesn't wanna be seen wit u
try to IM him on the internet or sumthin and ask y he isn't talkin to ya, tell him u like him, then he mite not be so shy ne more
again im not tryin to be rude wit any of my answers above, and GL wit the guy hope it all works well 4 ya :-) [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
kevin1986 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 3:10 am: Yes. Because he thought you were a lot hotter than you are. You're not everything he expected and he doesn't really like you anymore. Nothing to do with his height. Or it could be that he thinks you're disappointed in him and he doesn't wanna embarass himself further. I'm not trying to be mean about what I said earlier,but these could be reasons why he doesn't wanna talk to you anymore. Never crush on a guy you don't know,that's a good rule. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
Porkin00 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 12:54 am: Sometimes.. knowing someone online.. without actually meeting them. its weird at first meetin them in person..and just figurin out stuff will be a new experience!.. soo just have fun.. and if he likes u still and u like him.. go for it.. and have fun.. but the first few times.. u just gotta see how u can react around eachother.. believe me it can work.. if u give it time
i think its coz mehbe he was just a lil surprised by you..i mean he prolly dint expect you to be the way you were..like he imagined something different...thahs wat heppened between me and like a LOT of my (guy) frends...hell prolly get oba it sometime soon...ya noe? [ missing-identity-seeker's advice column | Ask missing-identity-seeker A Question ]
miz_liz answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 12:09 am: i think that u should just c wat happens. if he doesnt talk to u again than itz his loss. it waz pretty stupid of him to lie about his height but itz nutin to be shy over. maybe hes just always shy around people but if he wont even talk to u online than i wouldnt worry about it. if he talks to u again then great! yall could possibly work out a relationship. just let him make the first move and if he doesnt MOVE ON!! [ miz_liz's advice column | Ask miz_liz A Question ]
girdy_goo15 answered Wednesday July 21 2004, 12:08 am: It's his loss. anyways why don't you try and talk to him or have a friend. then i think you should still talk and be friends.
(you might just have to make the first move)
girdy_goo15 [ girdy_goo15's advice column | Ask girdy_goo15 A Question ]
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