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HE ASKED ME TO HIS PLACE AFTER OUR FIRST DATE..WHY?
Posted Friday July 20 2018, 10:58 pm
we went for ice cream and the park....i had fun...but ....i know not everyone wants to screw after the first date but then again...why ask me to his place.... same shyt, diff guy....will it ever end....smdh, everybodies isnt a hoe ...there are a handful of folks who have some type of morals....this is a HUGE dating turn off for me....and why I like to turn down dates when dudes ask me out
my friend replied to my question with the following
No, it will never end. If you're going to date guys, then you're going to get asked for sex. Adults have sex, that's reality. Having it on the first date would be too soon, though, IMO.
Hon, refusing to have sex before marriag...
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He lied to me--What should I do?
Posted Friday July 20 2018, 2:49 pm
25/f
I am talking to a guy. Let's call him Andrew.
I met Andrew through mutual friends and I immediately had a crush on him. But I didn't do anything for years until later this year.
I didn't really talk to him until then. When we first met up, I wasn't attracted to him. I was just getting to know him. When we first met up, he kissed me. He told me he thought we had immediate chemistry and he wanted to take me out on a date. I agreed.
The next time we met, we kissed again. He said he wanted to see me again but he was going on an international trip for a month. He said he was going to travel to many places during this time. He asked I would be seeing a lot more of him when he got ba...
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Should I go back to teaching?
Posted Friday July 20 2018, 1:58 pm
25/f
I left my teaching job mid-year so I could search for a job that I loved. My whole life, I have had jobs that I have hated. It took 4 months of unemployment to find my current job.
And I love my current job. However, I am in a financial crisis. I am in debt and I am trying to pay it off. I am trying to move out of my apartment and get my own (because I am not happy in my relationship), and I will need a new car, or a new-used car.
Based on my calculations to pay off my debt, and to get everything I need, if I stay with my boyfriend and keep my current job, it will take YEARS.
If I break up with my boyfriend, I will definitely be struggling and the only way I can do this on my ...
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I can't get him out of my head?
Posted Thursday July 19 2018, 12:25 pm
So, I was recently rejected by my crush. But he was super nice about it, and we're still friends. I was having a lot of trouble getting over him. Summer break finally rolls around, and not seeing him has helped me a bunch. Just recently, I want to say about a week or two ago, he's started popping into my dreams. It's not the same dream every time though, it's a different dream where he always makes an appearance. We usually talk most of the time in the dream. For example, last nights dream we were riding a bus. He was in the seat behind me and we just talked to each other. Sometimes my dreams aren't so platonic. Other times were holding hands or touching shoulders. I really need to move on, but these dreams aren't letting me! Any advice on ...
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Having Issues with My Father
Posted Monday July 16 2018, 12:22 am
I am having some issues with my father. For example, I am planning a trip to Monterey and San Jose for my next birthday. While I am there, I plan to visit the Monterey Bay Aquarium and the Rosicrucian Egyptian Museum. For example, for one of our disagreements, I would like to have lunch at a nearby sit-down restaurant in either Monterey, Pacific Grove, Pebble Beach, or Carmel. For example, I suggested having lunch at Roy’s in Pebble Beach on my birthday, but my father is against the idea. I think it is because a sit-down restaurant will slow us down. Plus Roy’s can have slow service, but I have eaten there twice and both visits went fairly quickly. My father would prefer to have lunch at the Monterey Bay Aquarium. I have had some negati...
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ANYONE WILLING TO LEND A HELPING HAND?, THANKS??
Posted Sunday July 15 2018, 2:37 am
www.gofundme.com/lost-my-job-and-i-have-a-sick-mom
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What is a good brand SMART TV to buy that isn’t too expensive?
Posted Saturday July 14 2018, 6:27 pm
Sony, Panasonic,Philips, LG, Toshiba or TCL? I want a quality Smart TV that isn't too costly.
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Confused Feelings with my Best Friend
Posted Wednesday July 11 2018, 11:18 pm
So I am confused right now. I have this super close friend of mine who is now abroad. But before she left, we are already super close, and I am always there for her everytime when she had problems. She calls me at night crying her heart out about her relationship with her boyfriend who mistreats her badly. I always find ways to make her happy and cheering her up that we already have this so called bond as super BFF's. Lately they parted ways with her BF and she is alright now. We do have some communication every week, and I usually check on her if she already has eaten, how her day was going, those kinds of things. And she always says that, I always care for her compared to her XBF.
We had this chat in the last coupe of week...
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Feeling bad for leaving my dad out...
Posted Wednesday July 11 2018, 8:52 pm
A bit of backstory, me and my dad were never close. He has anger issues, and he throws tantrums quite a bit. I'm much closer with my mother, and tend to spend the most time with her. Since we moved about a month and a half ago, I've been avoiding him slightly, choosing to do things with only me and my mother, and not mentioning him to any of my friends. He'll cuss in inappropriate places, such as a school meeting, when he got mad and told me I need to get the fucking paper, even though I already had one. Or when he cussed out a fast food employee for the restraunt being closed. He constantly interups me , and has broken things without apologizing for anything. He also says some pretty racist stuff from time to time. Point is, I don't like t...
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Can you give me advice about getting a private student loan?
Posted Wednesday July 11 2018, 6:34 pm
The school I’m attending doesn’t accept fafsa. They said that I can call around workforce centers or Catholic charities or get a private student loan from the bank. I’m worried about getting a loan. Tuition is $7,000. If I can’t get any financial assistance, I will have to get a loan.
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Should I just stop trying?
Posted Wednesday July 11 2018, 10:56 am
I have this friend from high school the last time I saw her was the ending of 2016. However, every time I try to make plans with her she would disappear and then respond the day after we were supposed to hangout. I’ve always gave her the benefit of the doubt but it’s not like she’s busy cause she’s not. Everytime I text her she says she’s always home because she didn’t go to school after high school and she didn’t get a job either so I’d figure we could hangout but she’s always flaking should I just stop trying? One time the day we were supposed to hangout long story short my other friend and I were at the place we were supposed to meet her at and she didn’t answer her phone calls and didn’t text me till two weeks late...
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I'm Going To Be a Terrible Mother
Posted Tuesday July 10 2018, 4:22 am
Long story short, part of me wants to become a mom pretty soon, but the other part is terrified that I'm gonna be a horrible one. I don't know if the fears I'm having are common and normal or if they go beyond the typical doubts people tend to have about their competency as a parent.
Until a couple years ago or so, I didn't doubt that I'd be a good mom and having children was by far the thing I wanted most from my life. I was raised by the best mom ever and I've had other good role models whose example I can follow, but I have learned things since then that make me think I might not be cut out to have children.
My sister had a baby (my nephew, Lane) back in August 2015. Since then, I've been around Lane for abo...
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Help
Posted Monday July 9 2018, 1:17 am
My story is actually pretty long but ill try to keep it short. I met this guy about two years ago, he wasn't my type but he seemed very nice so I gave him a chance. As the relationship developed I noticed his flaws such as anger issues - being rude and disrespectful. I myself have an attitude but its only when he starts. He's the type of person to make me believe that everything is me, he always tells me that its me me me and sometimes I believe it. Half of my family doesn't like him, my parents like him but thats because they don't know anything, The relationship has gotten to a point where its toxic, not only does he disrespect me but he has put his hands on me MANY times. he has broken many of my phones, my glasses, has pulled my hair, c...
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WHY DO NON VIRGINS WEAR PURE WHITE ON THEIR WEDDING DAY?
Posted Saturday July 7 2018, 8:27 pm
I think they should keep it real and wear black or even dingy...
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Depressed About My Weight
Posted Saturday July 7 2018, 4:13 am
I need help as I am thoroughly depressed about my weight and want advice on what to do about it.
I am a 59 year old woman, I am 5 feet 2 inches tall, and I weigh about 180 pounds. I am absolutely addicted to coca cola, root beer, orange and grape soda, potato chips, Taco Bell, and cheesecake. I don't know how to break these addictions and lose weight. I have an elderly father who has a horrible diet. He eats no vegetables, no fruits, lots of processed foods and snacks foods, lots and lots of sugar. He eats an ice cream sundae or a Wendy's frosty everyday and he drinks nothing, and I mean NOTHING but Dr. Pepper and even HE'S in better shape than I am. Okay, maybe he's not as healthy as I am, but he IS skinnier.
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I'm severely unstable, unable to work and want to help people.
Posted Friday July 6 2018, 9:08 pm
So my psychiatrist has labeled me as severely unstable and "too stressed to work." because I've tried killing myself over stress and my mental illnesses because of every time I've tried working. So he's been helping me to get disability. He even insisted on going to court FOR ME. He's TRAVELING to go to court. That's how bad off I am. And he's one of the most intelligent men. Every person who has ever met him has said that. So it's not like he is biased or anything.
But I was watching this tv show of this woman helping other people. I've always helped people all my life. I give money/food to homeless people even when I don't have enough myself, I kind of live off my parents right now, but I do help them as much as I...
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I feel like I made a mistake and I love another
Posted Monday July 2 2018, 6:35 pm
I am going into high school as a freshmen and I am currently 14 years in age (I am a female). Over the past few months, there is a guy I will call Sam. He and I have been flirting a lot and he recently asked me out, and I said yes. I realize that I have liked him for a while; but, I have also liked another person named Philip or an even longer amount of time.
Philip and I have really gotten to know each other for the past 2 years because we always talk in band class. I recently learned from a friend that he has had a crush on me for about a year (which really gave me hope). I have done so much for Philip, but then I believe he moved on from me and started to date a girl; their relationship did not work out because they never...
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Keeping an erection
Posted Monday July 2 2018, 3:31 pm
So I have a bit of a problem. I'm 27 years old and about a year ago I had sex for the first time. Considering the fact I hadn't masturbated for a few weeks before I lost my virginity, it was easy to get hard and I didn't last very long. After that, however, it was pretty much impossible to keep an erection when putting on a condom! The girl would give me a blowjob and I'd get hard, but by the time I put the condom on and change position, my penis would go soft! We tried to do it several times in one night, but just ended up having oral sex and I came every time. I thought maybe I didn't have enough stamina considering it was my first time... Or perhaps it was a mental block because the girl was kind of married so I was afraid her husband mi...
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Tips on gaining confidence?
Posted Monday July 2 2018, 12:46 pm
I know I’ve asked questions similar to this before but now I’m actually ready to listen. I’m almost 20 years old and I still have the same low-self esteem I’ve had all my life and I want to change that. I feel like an embarrassing older sister for my sister (who is turning 18 next month). She’s more outgoing than I am, has more friends and can even talk to guys. I’m more reserved, I barely have any friends and at my age I still can’t even talk to guys I find attractive. If you’ve seen the movie 10 things I hate about you, she’s basically the younger sister and I’m the older one when it comes to personality. I think my elementary and high school experience shaped who I am today which isn’t good. I was surrounded by supe...
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I suspect my youngest took the blame for her sister.
Posted Monday July 2 2018, 8:05 am
Months back, my two daughters (ages 16 and 18) attended a party together. Unbeknownst to me, there was no adult supervision and alcohol was served. Both of them ended up drinking.
Now my youngest, allegedly, was behind the wheel during the drive home and the car ended up in the drainage ditch just in front of our house. Her sister wasn't wearing her seat belt and went face first into the dash and got her bell rung pretty good. My husband and I weren't home at the time. A neighbor saw the accident and phoned it in and my youngest ended up getting arrested.
Naturally, they were both grounded following this incident. For two whole months.
On Friday, my youngest was in juvenile court to receive he...
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