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Are these fake friends?
Posted Monday June 10 2019, 11:13 pm
While at a retreat,I share a suite with 3 other teens and other freshmen high schoolers everyone else was in the lobby including them while I was the only one to stay behind to go back to the suite I went in the bathroom when first walked in she went in her room and got on the phone with her mother I heard remnants of the conversation such as something about feeling someway probably such as “bad for” someone overhead then two other girls followed bursting into the room as if frantic one which I shared a suite with the other stayed across the hall, I came out of the bathroom asking what happened which they both said in unison nothing so I went back in the bathroom the one who didn’t stay in our suite left while the other two went bac...
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I dont know how to let my mom know things need to change.
Posted Saturday June 8 2019, 4:27 pm
So....Its alot so my mom has been ill my whole life and when I was little, I saw her as my hero that she could do no wrong and my world revoled around her..I would have a gut feeling about some of her actions... but I couldnt possiablely go against her because she was always right...So as Im getting older I'm starting to realize the things she use to do would influence me... She hates my dad when I was little she would talk about him about an hour and make him like this evil man and things including my grandmother, who had taking care of her when my mother was extremely ill. My grandmother made her food and cleaned did a lot...My mom would talk behind her back since my grandmother has dementia and says the neighnbor are doing meth and thing...
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Does he like me or her?
Posted Friday June 7 2019, 11:51 pm
So apparently this guy that I like had a crush on me in the past (and might still? It was recent), but another girl is super forward about her crush on him, like leaning her head on him and stuff, etc. He usually looks pretty awkward but is still good friends with her. Him and I only recently finally started talking and texting each other. She's much more bold than me... it seems like he might be starting to like her. What do i do?? I used to be pretty cold (in order to hide I liked him), and recently started opening up a bit, and he is starting conversations and stuff now a lot more since then. But she is a lot closer to him and I don't know if he still likes/can like me again. Any tips on what to do? :')
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School Troubles/Drama
Posted Friday June 7 2019, 10:07 pm
At school, I have a group of friends who sit at lunch together. One girl, I'll call her Sara, is really into anime. She wears mostly anime t-shirts, has a MHA backpack, the whole sha-bang. As a joke, we like to poke fun at her and her choice of clothing: things like. "Didn't you wear that shirt yesterday?" or, "Do you have any regular shirts in your closet?" Of course, we are aware that she is comfortable with this and she does not take it personally. Around 2 months ago, this other girl, I'll call her C, comes to our lunch table because 'all of her other friends left her.' Now, this girl isn't the best: her friends left her for a reason. But we said, sure, why not? Come join us. Big mistake. She has a ginormous ego and ...
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Losing my best friend in the whole entire world
Posted Friday June 7 2019, 9:18 pm
A while back I started getting really close to a guy (being a girl myself). We became best friends pretty quickly and I felt a strong connection to him. After months of friendship he confessed to me about having a crush on me and possibly even being in love with me. However, I’ve had a boyfriend for over a year and still am very happy with him, so I naturally turned him down. At first we seemed to be able to stay good friends but he has now told me that he feels like he is dependent on me and knowing that I cannot be his really upsets him. I obviously understand that he needs his distance from me to get over his feelings and move on but I haven’t stopped crying since he told me he needed space. I feel like our friendship is over because...
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Why isn't he texting me back?
Posted Thursday June 6 2019, 8:20 pm
26/F
I recently reconnected with this guy who I used to be friends with. He lives in California (my hometown) and I live in NYC. The guy is in a long-term poly relationship with this woman who lets him have sex with whoever he wants. When we first got back in touch with each other again, stuff got pretty heated. Since then, we have been sexting and having phone sex over the last 6 months.
I just came back to California for a vacation, and sent him a text letting him know that I'm back in town, and asking about when we were going to hook up. It has been a few days now and he hasn't responded. What is going on?? Does this mean he doesn't like me anymore or doesn't want to see me? If he was busy but did want to me...
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How do I get my foot in the door in te medical field?
Posted Thursday June 6 2019, 2:26 am
I've applied to dozens of jobs and even called to see if companies are hiring or to check on some applications. They all say to just apply online and wait for a response. I'm in school to be a patient care technician. I have my phlebotomy and EKG certifications. I'm trying to get some experience in phlebotomy or EKG but I have no luck. I've applied everywhere
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My roomate has me confused
Posted Wednesday June 5 2019, 11:12 pm
Never done this before but Im in need of some outside advice(kinda complex). I just turned 20 a few months ago. I graduated early from highschool in 2018 and also from a local technical college that I attended half days (during highschool) for 2 years near a pretty good size city of over 500,000. Ive been working in a small town since I was 14 for farmers and a local lumber yard, I grew up 25 miles outside the city limits. When I was a sophomore I knew what I wanted to do for a career so I had a job lined up with a local heating and air company and after almost a year with them I was offered a real good job with another company that a good friend of mine has worked with for years (commission and hard work but pays real well and company vehi...
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Is my Husband Cheating By Secretly Texting Women?
Posted Wednesday June 5 2019, 11:12 am
Ok, so my husband has a sex addiction. Over 16 years I have learned to suffer, forgive, and let go. Part of our trust agreement is I can look through his phone at will. He has secretly emailed and texts women and deleted the messages and lied about who they were. (says he has low self esteem). I thought our life was going pretty well. UNTIL last week. He left his phone home by accident and asked me to bring it to him at work. Being a nice wife, I did. But before I did I looked through it. Sure enough, He had set up a kik account and was talking to a girl half his age.(26) He is 54, and I wish he would grow out of this behavior. The comments were all hidden or deleted. Well, confronted him and he said it was a girl from facebook marketplace ...
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My mom is a lifetime movie
Posted Tuesday June 4 2019, 4:13 pm
28/f. I no longer wish to have a relationship with my mother. We have an extremely toxic relationship. Although I'm 28, she treats me as though I'm a 16 year old drug addict. She shows up at my house, unannounced. She inserts herself into my love life. It's gotten to a point where I haven't even introduced her to my significant other, despite us being serious. At this point, we're discussing marriage, children's names, and I've introduced him to the rest of my family. But, because of her behavior, I don't want her near him. Whenever I travel, she blows up my friend's phones. People are afraid of her. I use to feel like I had to look at my dad and my grandparents as "heroes" because they would be the ones to "save" me fro...
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I'm in love with someone much younger
Posted Tuesday June 4 2019, 1:46 pm
I'm a 30/F and I work in retail. One of my co-workers is an eighteen year old lesbian. Despite our age difference, we became fast friends. In the months we've worked together, I've become aware that I have romantic/sexual feelings for her. Over the years, I've had periodic feelings for other women, but never one so young. I tried to fight them at first, but I guess she could sense my attraction and, to my surprise, began to subtly flirt with me. Long story short, about a month ago, we went out for coffee after work and ended up kissing for the first time. We've been dating since then.
I'm really struggling with my feelings right now. Part of me feels this is wrong and that I shouldn't be involved with her like this. Part of m...
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Abusive relationship /parenting
Posted Monday June 3 2019, 2:05 am
I’ve been with my boyfriend going on three years now, and we have a one-year-old son together, and a have a daughter four-year-old daughter from a previous relationship, and he’s been in her life since she was one and he loves her as much as her father. Previous to our relationship before I met my current boyfriend I was going threw a stage trying to find myself so I messed around with one of his friends that constantly came to my job trying to talk to me at that time I was freshly single from a 8 years long relationship so I went for it and it was the worst thing I ever did he never told me of his girlfriend so when I found out I was so mad I slept with one of his friends one time and that’s was the biggest regret of my life because ...
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Scared to Talk to a Counselor
Posted Friday May 31 2019, 4:39 am
I've been told many times that I need counseling. I was raised by an abusive father, I have very low self-esteem and an issue with self hatred, I've had an issue with depression, my sister thinks I have OCD, I used to have a fear of marriage and still fear ending up in a marriage like my parents, I sometimes feel ashamed of myself and am paranoid when I go out in public that people are talking about me, and I have irrational fears. I want counseling badly, but every time I think about expressing my feelings to a counselor, I feel scared. I'm afraid of being judged. I'm afraid that my feelings are stupid, strange, unreasonable, selfish, childish, an overreaction, etc.
I'm not just afraid of expressing my feelings to a counselo...
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I don't understand my family (my dad especially)
Posted Thursday May 30 2019, 10:22 pm
Before I start, i like to keep my information as private as possible so I'll specify now that I'm from Asia and have never been anywhere near Europe or America.
My family, except my dad, shifted to another country. My dad stayed for work and my sister recently went to live with him temporarily because of her exams. To be honest we never really lived with my dad he had work in another city and would only come by on weekends so there is not much difference. My sister's exams are over so i asked her why she decided to stay longer and she told me to mind my own business. That really hurt me because I miss her, i tried to ignore it because maybe she is stressed and we haven't really adjusted to this new country yet. My dad keeps secrets...
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Should I quit band?
Posted Wednesday May 29 2019, 9:12 pm
I’m in band and I feel like I don’t belong. I’m not great at playing my instrument. There’s this really hard song “creed”, and I cannot play it at all! Practice doesn’t work. I feel like I should quit, but soon the band is going to an amusement park, and that’s sounds fun so I don’t know.
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Lab attire conflicting with parents belief
Posted Wednesday May 29 2019, 7:23 pm
I recently got accepted into a university and will be transferring from a community college to a university in the fall. My mom checked my syllabus and they are very strict about attire for my lab. I have to take chemistry 2 and it’s required for my major. They said that no skin whatsoever can be showing and we must wear long pants and leggings won’t work. Thing is, for my religion we wear skirts. I was thinking about wearing something under my skirt, but I don’t know what would be most appropriate. I wear leggings in the house and don’t own a pair of pants so I would have to go shopping. For anyone who’s taken these kinds of labs, would they be ok with that? Is it just necessary to have long clothing or would pants be necessary? ...
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How do I say I don't want you people in my house, without saying that?
Posted Wednesday May 29 2019, 11:27 am
I have a question about a family event.
My son is graduating from high school, so I feel compelled to ask my family to attend. However, we are not close, and I have a horrible relationship with my sister who is a bully and is horribly judgmental.
That being said, I am having his party at a park,so I don't have to have my family in my home. I have pets, which they don't approve of, and I don't want to hear it.
My question is, how do I say I don't want you people in my house, without saying that? Or should I just say that?
This is causing me a lot of unnecessary stress, and I am unsure how to proceed. Any advice would be so appreciated!
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I don't know what I want and I don't know what course should I take
Posted Saturday May 25 2019, 11:11 pm
Hey, I'm not really good at anything. I don't know what course should I take. I'm thinking of taking up Engineering but I'm not really good at Math. I want to be successful and I really want to travel the world. What should I do? Send help :xx I really feel pressured. :<<
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In desperate need of advice regarding my relationship
Posted Thursday May 23 2019, 6:47 pm
29/f. I feel like I need to give a backstory, so I apologize in advance if this gets to be a little bit long. I began dating my current boyfriend, Steve, when I was abut 22 years old, give or take. Growing up, my mom and I were close. But, as soon as I became an adult, she started to abuse me horrifically. It seemed that all along, she just wanted me under her thumb and once she saw that I was establishing my own life as an adult, she couldn't accept it... including a more serious relationship. I started to realize, slowly but surely, that we were never really "friends." I was just a puppet.
So, she encouraged me to break up with him for various reasons and red flags that she believed I had missed. I believed that s...
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Do I wish him a happy birthday? or just keeping pushing forward.
Posted Thursday May 23 2019, 5:00 pm
So my crush has had a girlfriend for a month now, It sucks seeming in the hallway holding hands and smiling like it like an arrow in my heart. I have been getting over him from time to time, We have a class hour together and sit together, I just dont talk to him unless he talks to me... It hard to have a conversation with him in class, even to look at him..The atmosphere doesent feel so great.....Over text our conversation our lighthearted and kind but in person it just seems cold and tense, and no talking.
The school year just ended, the last day of school I texted him we had a little conversation, He told me he was really happy with her, I replied and the conversation was wholesome, then i deleted his number, and just b...
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