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My sister is using my mom's debit card without permission, what do I do?


Posted Thursday April 23 2020, 6:46 pm

My '' sister" just turned 18. For months she has been using my mothers debit card to order stuff without permission. So this time I decided to google the name of the product that was ordered off of it. And it is weed, so I took it upon myself to look in her room, and she had a box full of it. Should I tell my mom?

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life worth it without sex?


Posted Thursday April 23 2020, 1:55 pm

I already am miserable. Have been for a decade. but now I have something where sex or any semblance of it (even looking at porn or getting a mild erection) is gonna end badly for me. So, not only can I not be in a relationship, I can't even get off (or I shouldn't get off). So what's the point of life as man? If I can even be called that. I've had this for years now, I thought it'd go away by now but NOPE! If anything, its worse. I've already made good money and it didn't make me happy, I'd really only want money to get women but that's out of the question.I know toys will only temporarily make me happy. I can't have a family. So it all seems completely pointless. Sometimes I want to get corona virus so it takes the burden away from killing...

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Opening bank account without residence permit


Posted Thursday April 23 2020, 3:31 am

My question is the following: I am not an EU citizen, living now in Germany, have no residence permit. All the banks ask for confirmation of residency. Is there any option to open an account in a European bank without residence permit? I have heard about Blackcatcard that you need only copy of your local passport and photo. Is that true? Any other cards?

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BlackCatCard


Posted Wednesday April 22 2020, 9:23 am

Hey guys! Do you know anything about BlackCatCard? Does anybody use it as a crypto wallet or just as a bank card? What are the pros and cons? Whatever you know. Thx

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Do I message her first?


Posted Tuesday April 21 2020, 10:31 am

Hi, I'm 20 yrs old
I'm courting this girl that I've known since 1st year college (we're now in our 4th year)
And since our government issued a community quarantine we are just talking through messenger and sometimes I'll call her during the night.
But last week I felt that she's not interested in talking to me anymore. And I told her that it's hard to communicate to her these past few days. Then she said that she said that she's not in the mood to talk to anyone these days and that she gets drained and don't want to talk to anyone and that she doesn't know when that will stop. She ask if I'm upset about it.
I said No and I'll try to understand her and I'll wait for her.
It's been a week since then.
...

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"Modern Dating my a.."


Posted Thursday April 16 2020, 10:13 am

I am in my 30's and the guys in my generation are an absolute joke. Throughout my whole life I have been working on myself and have the worst of luck with guys. I don't understand why I can't simply date and I REFUSE to be apart of the trashy hook-up culture. Guys have never chased me and I have always been the one going after guys. What am I doing wrong? They reject me 24/7 and I am beyond sick of trying anymore. I don't settle for less, I don't take crap from anyone at all. I'm old fashioned. I have tried online dating- which is a complete joke, virtual/speed dating- another joke and if I try to develop some kind of connection it disappears. I have been ghosted, lied to, treated like crap on so many accounts or treated like an option. THE...

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Losing Touch with People


Posted Wednesday April 15 2020, 12:45 pm

Hello. My name is Brian Hardy. I am twenty-seven years old and I live in Danville, California. I have Asperger’s Syndrome, so I do get upset easily about many things. Plus long-term relationships can be difficult for me. I am also a brony, which is a male fan of My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic. Watching that show has taught me the true meaning of love and friendship, so because of that, family and friendship is important to me. Anyway, what I am going to discuss today is losing people I was once close to. The first person I will discuss is my best friend David. David is my best friend. Just like me, he also has Asperger’s Syndrome and he is a brony. We first met at a brony meetup in Emeryville on August 1, 2015. We had previously go...

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How do I move on?


Posted Tuesday April 14 2020, 7:14 pm

Male 24,my girlfriend broke up with me, I still love her alot.. We see each other every day,we have friends in common, I still think about her, at times I feel like picking my phone and calling her, but I know she does not love me as much as I love her....I'm trying to move on but I can't, she's always on my mind.

It hurts, and I don't know how to make the pain stop.

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My son beats my boyfriend wrestling.


Posted Sunday April 12 2020, 12:53 pm

My 13 year old son is stronger than my 34 year old boyfriend and can beat him wrestling. He is not that big, weighs about 110lb and my boyfriend around 150lb and taller, but my son does train in wrestling, does crossfit, and safe strength training. My bf worksout with light weight, does yoga,and runs. Could be my son has more lean muscle mass and training, but he seems to also overpower my boyfriend. Center of gravity and aggression I guess has a lot to do with it. I was still a little shocked he easily handled a grown man. I was even able to pin him down in wrestling before and I'm just 5'6 and 122 lbs.

Is this normal for a grown man? i don't really care if he isn't good at wrestling or strong, but curious.

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EDD debit card?


Posted Sunday April 12 2020, 12:16 pm

When will I receive my unemployment debit card ?

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“If you love them, let them go”


Posted Saturday April 11 2020, 5:24 pm

I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we are both 26. He moved to my state to be with me, we talk seriously about the future, and have considered moving in together. Everything between us is pretty much exactly what I want in my life, however there are two major hurdles in our relationship. First, he has committed to permanently living in my state, 4 hrs away from his parents, to make it work with me. He is very close with his family and I know that will be very hard for him, especially when kids are involved. Secondly, we are from the same religion but he believes in certain practices/traditions that would require substantial sacrifices on my side (i.e keeping kosher in my home, attending more religious events than I would normally...

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My manager flirts/compliments me a lot & then acts weird. What do I do?


Posted Thursday April 9 2020, 12:41 pm


I work full-time for a healthcare agency. I am 26 years old and I have a boss that is 34. This guy is cute, close to me in age, and has a really laid back/sweet personality. I am sort of attracted to him. I do know, however, that he is my boss first and foremost so I know that he is off-limits and I can accept that. The thing is, though, that he seems to flirt. Quite often. From what I have observed he does not act the same way towards other female coworkers. Sometimes in between the flirting, though, he becomes very formal/distant so it just leaves me feeling confused or like I did something wrong. Not saying that he should necessarily be flirting in the first place, but why would he do a complete 180 like that?

The ...

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Fantasizing more than normal?


Posted Wednesday April 8 2020, 11:15 pm

I'm 27/f and I've read and heard that women don't think about sex or masturbate as often as men, but I think I do. I masturbate at least once daily, sometimes as much as 4 times. I fantasize often and sex is usually somewhere close in my mind's eye. I feel like my libido is in overdrive. My boyfriend has been depressed for a while and we usually only do it maybe twice a week, sometimes 3 times. Sometimes only once. But I know that's not either of our faults. I guess my question is, are there other girls like me who think they are a nympho? Sex isn't like a compulsive thing for me, though, I'm just constantly thinking about it.

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Wanting to do some Day Trips


Posted Monday April 6 2020, 10:22 pm

Hello. My name is Brian Hardy. I am twenty-seven years old and I live in Danville, California. I am having an issue that I want to discuss:

I have Asperger’s Syndrome and anxiety, so my parents made me undergo eight weeks of therapy at Rogers Behavioral Health. On the weekend of October 19/20 of last year, my parents took me on some day trips as my reward for completing eight weeks of therapy at Rogers Behavioral Health. I went to San Francisco on October 19 and Carmel, Monterey, and San Jose on October 20. We visited the Museum of Ice Cream and SFMOMA on Saturday and we walked around Carmel and visited Selfieville, Santana Row, and the Winchester Mystery House on Sunday. However, it was not enough for me. My friend Olivia ...

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Sad Face Emoji


Posted Monday April 6 2020, 12:28 pm

How do I even say this😞. I’m 15, and I saw an old friend and and couldn’t quite grasp how I envy how she has the perfect curvy body. Among teen girls in school whether a friend or some girl I don’t even like,I have noticed and mildly accepted how much less of a voluminous body I have than them,every girl is more better than me if she is 1. perfectly skinny, with no breast or butt, 2. Has a little belly with big everything / and or perfect in all three areas.I already have low self esteem and won’t ever find myself settling for the body that I have (which I take as settling for less). I am even desperately trying to self diagnose myself as malnourished or some other explanation as to why I am so under developed, and am fully prep...

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Am in a complicated relationship with a girl I really like


Posted Wednesday April 1 2020, 9:41 am

Male 24, from Nigeria.... There's this girl am friends with, we are both in higher institution, both in the same class and both live in the same hostel.... She's very smart, honest, beautiful she has alot of good qualities, and I started crushing on her, on a faithful day I decided to tell her how I feel about her and I did, that day she and I had a romantic time together but the next day she started acting cold towards me, I asked her why,she said she regrets what happened between us the previous day... A few days later we had another romantic moments again kissing touch and other stuff but no sex... The following day she acts cold again,I asked her what's wrong,that's when she told me that because she's a Christian that her religion conde...

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Depressed in the Happiest Time


Posted Tuesday March 24 2020, 3:01 pm

First and foremost, thank you so much for reading my question. This will be long because I need to explain the backstory so that you can have all of the information. So, may those who read and answer be blessed!

I'm 29/f. I've been struggling with some of the same issues for a while and while I have been able to get out of some of the very difficult ones, I feel like I'm in a place of limbo, ever waiting to settle and never feeling grounded in where I am at the moment.

I was abandoned by my birth parents and adopted by a set of parents who both abandoned me in some way. I was like a nice shiny doll for a time, but like a kid with a new toy, they got tired, and I was discarded. My adoption was not beautiful. It ...

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Boyfriend going to prison soon.


Posted Monday March 23 2020, 9:23 pm

Hello, I'm sixteen years old and my boyfriend just turned seventeen in January. We've been dating for about a month and a half now and I really like him! No one has treated me this well for a while. However, he's going to prison soon. He's facing up to twenty years and I don't know what to do. He's currently out on PR bond and we've discussed the aftermath.He doesn't want me to wait on him but I don't want to move on.. Any ideas on how to process this?

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I feel like my light went out, and I am filled with horrible feelings


Posted Monday March 23 2020, 10:27 am

I am a 24 year old female. I feel stuck in life, my boyfriend has a house with his mother, and one day when we sell the house (5 year plan) his mother will probably have to live with us. He bought a truck in January without my knowledge or discussion and that hurt my feelings and I was outraged. I know the love and affection doesn’t live on forever but lately it’s almost non existent. Sure, he’ll love on me when he wants to be intimate but then far and few in between. Lately, I’ve been angry, upset, and resentful (introvertly), and towards him I’ve just been like Eeyore. Several small things have added up to make me just constantly annoyed with him. And in truth, it all started when the truck came home, and weeks later his best fr...

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Depression and anxiety


Posted Saturday March 21 2020, 7:58 am

I have been going through a really tough time. My serious relationship of 3 yeas ended. The guy ditched me just before marriage. This my 3rd relationship failure. I'm 32. People around me are getting married and kids. I don't have many friends. I'm alone ans cry everyday. My confidence is shaking. I don't hv anyone to share my deepest feelings. I regret many things in life. I feel anxiety thinking about

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