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Friend is constantly calling me?
Posted Thursday July 14 2016, 12:39 pm
If you have ever read any of my old questions about someone calling me constantly last year! This is another question I don't remember if it's about the same person from the last or not. Anyways I have this friend who calls me all day every day to talk about the same damn thing . Every time she calls its to talk about her boyfriend or relate everything to her boyfriend so now I avoid her calls because I know what the outcome of the call will be. When she wasn't dating this boyfriend she was calling to talk about how she likes this guy who is now her boyfriend. Before that she used to call me about her ex-boyfriend (who was her boyfriend at the time, she broke up with him in March and started talking about a new boy that same month and start...
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No friends and suicidal
Posted Thursday July 14 2016, 6:14 am
Okay so I'm 14 years old and I'm a female. Recently (as in the last couple of days recently) my two best friends said they don't want to be friends with me anymore. Reasons given by friend 1 is that I'm not as good a friend as friend 2 and I'm self-centred and I brush off problems (despite the numerous hours I've spent trying to help both of them with their problems). friend 2 gave similar reasons. I have two other really close friends in our friendship group and yesterday they said they don't want to be friends with me because I'm too clingy. So in the span of two days I've lost literally all my friends. I've been diagnosed with depression, and anxiety- I'm on medication and receiving therapy. I have tried committing suicide once before an...
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My friends hate each other and I am caught in the middle
Posted Friday July 8 2016, 8:35 pm
I am a female middle schooler. My friends from my soccer team hate my friends from school and my friends from school hate my friends from soccer. Anything I do or say is like I am picking sides. If I do something with one group the other gets mad and calls me a trader. But I made a stupid decision and I trough my school friends under the bus. I say I am sorry and ask for they are mad at me and they say no but then the other people from my friends from school say they are. I don't know what to do because I want to keep both friendships but I feel like I lose either way.
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i need friends
Posted Wednesday June 29 2016, 11:32 pm
I am a 13 year old girl I just moved my family is somewhat poor at the moment and I need someone to talk to a friend. I have tried to walk around the neighborhood and all I find is happy old folks I need to find a friend my age and at the moment summer break so no school. advice on friends and keep in mind little or no cost
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What's wrong with her?
Posted Wednesday June 29 2016, 1:45 pm
So I am 25/f and I have a really good friend that I've been friends for the last 2 months. She's also 25. Now She's a recovering alcoholic/drug addict who's been arrested numerous times and has even had her son taken away from her. Now she has a job and she's starting school. However I noticed from the beginning of friendship she has gotten very insecure, possessive and tries to use me for rides because she doesn't have a car. I told her how i felt about her asking me for rides and she said well I want to hangout with you and I don't have a car, and you're my only friend (basically guilt tripped me). Now I made the mistake of telling her about this guy I met while we were swimming one day at her apartment complex. He's 41 and we've been hoo...
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Ignorant friend.
Posted Friday June 17 2016, 2:54 am
15, female.
One of my close friends are acting like they're mad at me or something. For the past few weeks we would talk almost every night through texts, we've been friends for about 2 years.
The thing that really bothers me about this is now she is not talking to me like at all. I said hey and she replied "what" and I just said that I wanted to talk to her and she just didn't reply. So, because I was being dramatic and it was in the moment, I blocked her because she does this a lot. We'd talk and be great friends and then she just ignores me as if I am annoying her.
She's done this with a lot of our other friends too, I'd see that they'd be really good friends and then she'd start b****ing ...
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Best friend disregarding my feelings - boy drama
Posted Friday June 17 2016, 2:12 am
Female, 14
WARNING: CRINGE TEENAGE BOY DRAMA
Hey, so I guess I am just writing this, seeking clarification.
So, I used to fancy this guy at my school for about a year and a half, he didn't know though. That was last year, and I got over him. Earlier this year, he began to fancy me, and he asked me out on a date. The thing was, I got over him for a reason, which was that all he seems to want is a girlfriend, so I was quite relluctant to say yes, but I said yes for one date, because I thought 'why not', that reason, and also that my friends had made it out like I did fancy him, so I felt like I had to say yes, which I know that I shouldn't feel forced to say yes to that sort of thing. Anyway, so I went o...
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My friend has a crush on me, I don't know what to do about a thing he did.
Posted Wednesday June 15 2016, 10:28 pm
I have this friend who told me yesterday that he has feelings for me and he asked me if I wanted to go on a date with him some time. We've been close friends for about 4 years now, but I'm not interested in him at all like that. I told him I'm not interested, sorry,but don't worry this doesn't have to affect our friendship at all. And I genuinely mean that, he's my friend and I'm more than capable of not being awkward just because he has a little crush.
The thing is him telling me this made me think of something that happened a few months ago. A bunch of friends and I went out one night, he was there, and I got pretty drunk, like to the point where when we got back to another friend's house, where we were staying that night, ...
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Same crush as my best friend....
Posted Tuesday June 14 2016, 11:12 pm
(Girl, 15) hey! I have had a crush on this one boy in my grade for a few years now. It was okay, until I found out that my close friend has a massive crush on him too. I don't wanna tell her that I like him, but I wanna date him as well. What should I do if he asks me out? I don't wanna ruin my friendship with this girl, but I really like this boy.
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Selfish Friend
Posted Tuesday June 14 2016, 11:08 pm
(Girl, 15) Hi. I have this on and off friend of 4 years. But now, she is really annoying. She is basically coping everything I do, and she only talks about herself and her problems. Sometimes she is a great person, but most of the time she gets on my nerves. Should I keep her as a close friend?
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Is it right your best friend hang out with my cousin more than me?
Posted Saturday June 11 2016, 11:50 pm
My best friend and my cousin are going to six flags together with out me. Is it right my best friend Hang out with my cousin more than me?
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I'm too shy!!!
Posted Monday June 6 2016, 2:36 pm
I really want new friends because my old friends were kinda jerks but I'm not very good at starting and keeping on a conversation. HELP!
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I am about to cut off my best friend who I have known for 16 years
Posted Sunday June 5 2016, 3:01 pm
Hi everyone! Recently I have noticed that I am starting to hate my best friend whom I've known for a decade. Reasons
1. She is the only person I communicate with. We chat, talk on phone and hang out daily.Everyone used to joke''Hey,Lena your boyfriend has come''(meaning her). It's like my whole world was my job and my bf. My mom always warned me she would alienate me from my other friends and she was right. She can't stand any other friend next to me constantly telling me about their flaws. As a result I am alone without people I refused to hang out with choosing my bf instead.I have no friends or boyfriend. She's magically made herself my entire world.
2.However, she always has exciting news to tell me about her life and gu...
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annoying girl
Posted Tuesday May 31 2016, 10:14 pm
So, for my Gr 12 Prom,(dinner and dance) I am sitting at a table with my 4 best friends and this one really annoying girl. As in, the table seats 10, but after she joined, no one else wanted to sit with us.
Yes I know, we should be nice and all that, and honestly I have tried. I do my best to be as nice as I can. But seriously, this is prom. It only happens once. And there is no way she is going to leave us alone! I just want to be able to enjoy the night with my friends without someone extra butting in on our conversations, making them all about her.
She just has no appreciation for personal space, common sense manners, or other people's opinions. She won't take a hint, but if you outright tell her that she ne...
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How to make friends in university?
Posted Sunday May 29 2016, 11:47 am
I didn't really make that many friends in high school I mostly made acquaintances and friends that are only my friends because I saw them 5 days a week. No one texts my phone unless they need something and only two of my friends text me for an actual convo and try to attempt to hangout with me outside of school the other people don't. I try to text people first but they either read it or don't reply or stop replying in the middle of it. Anyways high school is over for me in less than 4 weeks and I couldn't be any more happier but now in September I will be going to university so you can already tell how big the school and my classes will be. Anyways I'm going to a commuting university so only the people who don't live close by live on resid...
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My best friend abandoned me
Posted Friday May 27 2016, 7:50 pm
In school I hung out with this girl, we were best friends. She really likes Marvel and all that superhero stuff, and I know nearly nothing about it. She was talking to this other girl in my class and they found out that they both love Marvel. My friend stopped talking to me and spent all her time with the other girl. I'll try to talk to her but she either flat out ignores me, or tells me to shut up. It really hurts, and I have no idea what to do. I do have other friends, but she was my best friend, and I really miss her.
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hopeful to get an answer by 5:00
Posted Thursday May 26 2016, 10:11 am
I apologize, first and foremost, if this is in the wrong section. It has to do with work, but not exactly. So, hopefully, this question finds it's way to the right people who can answer it for me. My cats had kittens. As of then, they have been neutered and spayed and I found all of the kittens homes. I didn't make money off of them. I charged a small fee and then with that fee, I neutered and spayed my cats. The only request I had was for the people to keep in touch and send me pictures of the kittens, as I did grow to love them very much.
There was this one lady who got one of the kittens. She has a cat already and she was looking for a companion for hers. She was so kind and so nice that I thought it would be wonderful for...
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Am I Overreacting to This?
Posted Saturday May 21 2016, 3:43 am
A friend was telling me that someone called her unreliable and I agreed that she was b/c she rarely shows up to important things and doesn't ever text/call when she goes missing for days at a time. She got defensive and was more upset than I knew. A few days later we were talking with other friends and she told me that I "talked more shit than anyone else". I feel hurt that she would say this and seeing that I was hurt she said "well you called me unreliable". I'm still hurt by the comment and considering gradually ending the "friendship", am i overreacting?
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Anxious about life after Uni
Posted Friday May 20 2016, 2:21 pm
So I'm about to graduate from Uni and I have had the best three years!
I've made lots of new friends and had fun as well as being set to get a good degree.
I'm worried though after Uni that i'll be lonely. I've heard some people see it as a grieving process because your so used to having loads of people around and then suddenly they've moved on.
Back home, before I went to Uni I was SO shy and had no confidence. I never used to speak in class and as a result only had like two or three friends. I've not kept in contact with them during uni and might look desperate to get back in touch now.
I just used to hang out with my equally shy twin all the time.
Also my parents never socialize with oth...
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not sure what to do for my friends birthday
Posted Wednesday May 18 2016, 12:53 am
(I apologize for how long this is but I have a habit of rambling and saying too much info)
I love my best friend dearly, and she's been having a rough time lately. She's hotheaded and stubborn to the point of almost close mindedness and doesn't like to admit she needs help. But she's also the most generous, selfless and strong person I've ever met. She's been through more in her short life than she ever should have. I can't put into words how much I respect and look up to her.
It's her 18th birthday in a couple weeks. We've known each other our entire lives, and have been very close all throughout high school. Though since she's about to graduate and move, I am as well but will be staying behind for a year, I worry we ...
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