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Ignorant friend.
15, female.
One of my close friends are acting like they're mad at me or something. For the past few weeks we would talk almost every night through texts, we've been friends for about 2 years.
The thing that really bothers me about this is now she is not talking to me like at all. I said hey and she replied "what" and I just said that I wanted to talk to her and she just didn't reply. So, because I was being dramatic and it was in the moment, I blocked her because she does this a lot. We'd talk and be great friends and then she just ignores me as if I am annoying her.
She's done this with a lot of our other friends too, I'd see that they'd be really good friends and then she'd start b****ing about them to me.
I recently have been feeling quite sad. I told her some good news that happened to me recently and then she just said "ok". This bothers me and makes me think she's a bad friend. It really upsets me that she does this and completely just ignores me out of the blue. I asked her if she was ok because I realised that maybe she is going through something. She just said that she's fine. She's normal with our other friends now, it's just me that she's being kind of rude to.
I know that if I try to talk to her about it she'll just pretend that she doesn't know what I'm talking about and she'll act the same way.
I have been feeling quite sad lately, and I feel like I can't talk to her about it or about any of my problems anymore because she'll just make me feel even worse about myself.
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Try to talk to her face to face, and if she still acts like she doesn't understand than just tell her your side of the story. Tell her about how it looks to you and how it makes you feel. Try to be honest with each other, but try not to get too heated. If she still isn't understanding and listening then give her some space.
Sometimes you just need to distance yourself from people. If they care, they'll notice. If they don't, you know where you stand. -Ziad K. Abdelnour
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