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was he flirting with me???????????


Posted Saturday April 6 2019, 11:11 pm

I was in the poultry department today and the nice looking guy behind the counter asked me what was I cooking, I said fried fish, spaghetti, mac n cheese and peach cobbler and he said oh that sounds good, and he said ill bring the wine...I just lol....was he making a move and my silly but was too silly to see that....

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Should i break up my marriage of 7 years? My husband had a gambling problem


Posted Friday April 5 2019, 6:33 pm

Should i break off my marraige of 7 years
My husband has a gambling problem and we are aleays broke
I met another man 2 months ago i love him but he is living with his sistet
I dont know if he loves me of is just looking for a place to stay
Im confused
Please help

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how do I know I'm still in love


Posted Thursday April 4 2019, 12:05 pm

I've had a boyfriend for quite some time now, and I'm starting to doubt my feelings for him. He's a sweet guy but he's really bad at knowing how he feels and what he wants. I, on the other hand, have a pretty good idea of what I want in life and I often feel like he doesn't care about me. I tried to talk to him about this but he mostly said things like "I don't know what I want I'm sorry" and also "I don't know how I feel".. Should I stay with someone that doesn't even know if they like me at all? I hate the thought of breaking up with him but right now I just don't know if this is still a healthy relationship.

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Having trust issues, in my relationship.


Posted Monday April 1 2019, 4:55 pm

I have met a person who has become a very important person in my life. From the beginning he's always asked me for honesty, and I have tried my best to give that to him. However when I open up it makes him question who I am and things I've said before because things "don't add up" or because I have kept a few things from him and later told him. We are now on good terms and are working on all our issues. Just today I was thinking about what we were talking about and what he was asking of me, and realized yet again I forgot to mention I have a class with someone I used to associate with, not an ex, not a hookup or a random fling, but a person I would text and would caught up with after a few years. I know I should tell him but I fea...

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Planning on breaking up: Should I move home or get a roommate?


Posted Thursday March 28 2019, 12:13 pm

26/f

Please read this thoroughly before responding.

I have been in a three-year relationship that has not been working for longer than a year. I struggled with being in a rut in the relationship and spoke to my boyfriend about it. By the time he was willing to change, my feelings were no longer the same. But because we live together, I stayed in the relationship for another year.

I got a new job and it does not pay AS NEARLY as I used to, I am struggling living where I am now. Living in a place with someone who I no longer love is not ideal, either. But I love my new job and I am back in graduate school. So, I need time, space, and money to do what I need to do.

I have two choices:...

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cheating


Posted Wednesday March 27 2019, 9:52 am

My significant other who I Have been dating for two years and living with for a year thinks it is ok to continue seeing a female friend who he has had sex with before while I WAS DATING HIM. He also thinks its ok if I HAVE SEX WITH OTHERS. hE DOES NOT LOVE ME. sAID HE LIKES ME AND likes me living there. I do everything around the house. I have looked at his phone and he has a lock on it now. THis women lives two blocks from him and before her husband passed away she visited him quite often. shOULD i leave him

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Should I tell my boyfriend this??


Posted Tuesday March 26 2019, 5:25 am

I think someone is in love with me, but isn't telling me because I have a boyfriend. I'm pretty sure the guy is interested in me though. Should I tell my boyfriend that this guy has feelings for me???

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In love with two people?


Posted Tuesday March 26 2019, 3:58 am

So I have a boyfriend that I've been dating for over a year now and I love him dearly. However, I've recently started to get close to another friend of mine and feel like I'm catching feelings for him! I know 99% sure that he has feelings for me, but I have no clue what to do with this. I honestly love my boyfriend but I feel like this other guy is really amazing as well... what do I do?

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He ripped my heart to shreds today.


Posted Monday March 25 2019, 11:50 pm

So... I really had my heart ripped out and stomped out today. He is asking out one of my friends that knew since 6th grade but not close anymore this year, as sophomores. I asked him how he and his crush is doing, He said its good then asked how is everything. I said iffy and since wherein the topic about crushes I said how I feel like no matter how nice I am to him he doesn't notice. Then he texted back I do notice and he didn't know if it would make it worst to say. then I said what do you mean when he said he knew that I had a crush on him. to sum it up I convinced him that it would be bad to have a crush on him because of he about to ask a girl out and he didn't like me.

And he said yeah that wouldn't make sense. So conf...

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Confused about feelings of another man


Posted Monday March 25 2019, 4:19 pm

The situation is I became friends with my neighbor. We were partying together got drunk and he professed his attraction to me and asked me if I wanted to have sex. Being as my sex life with my husband has been non existant for awhile due to his medical reasons I gave in and said yes I would. We texted back and forth for awhile then we finally got together. I dont feel guilty. I love my husband but all I can think about is this other guy. Am I infatuated? Am i just reading into something that's not there? He says he thinks about me all the time but the only time he texts me is to hook up. We talk and hang out as a group alot and we act as if we are just friends and nothing more has happened.

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How can I learn to calm myself down and not put our engagement at risk?


Posted Tuesday March 19 2019, 1:12 am

To make a long story short, I come from a low income family that could barely provide for me. I'm 24 and engaged to my fiance who's 28. He comes from a wealthy family and is supporting 80% of our current bills with no problem. We just moved into our first home together (renting) and it is close to the home of my dreams. It's more than I saw myself perhaps ever living in.

However, my fiance is very arrogant and has a giant ego. He wants to get his way and can be aggressive about it. He never cusses at me or hurts me, but he does yell and threaten to break up with me if he doesn't get his way. For example, we were furniture shopping for the new home and it wound up turning into an argument because we could not compromise. He sa...

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An ex likes your engagement photo


Posted Friday March 1 2019, 11:44 pm

Hi!

This may not mean anything, but what would it mean to you if your ex liked your engagement photo on facebook?

Thanks

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I need advice!!!


Posted Wednesday February 27 2019, 12:49 am

I’m from Kazakhstan. Hello to all. I'll start with the fact that I'm too trusting and kind. and this is my problem. Many will say that this is such a good thing, but the main problem is that I can’t say “no” to anyone. If they say that they have a problem, I will immediately help them. if they say that they have not done their homework, then I will give them everything I did myself. but today was the last straw for me, my friend wrote off from me and told the teacher that he did it himself. help, how to learn to refuse people???

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Sexual orientation


Posted Friday February 22 2019, 8:26 pm

Honestly I had no idea where to post this or ask this as I never have before but I’ve had serious, serious confusion. I am a female. I know I like other women and I feel as though I do not like men. I have a boyfriend. I really like him but I don’t think I like him in that way. I never want to marry a man and my question is what do I do? And how do I tell him I’m a lesbian?

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A girl classmate likes me but im secretly gay


Posted Thursday February 21 2019, 10:00 am

Hi, i’m honestly stressed during these days because i’m an honor grade 11 student and my family’s struggling both financially and in terms of health. I would like to ask if what I should do because a girl, who is my classmate, likes me and is public about it and no one has any idea that I’m gay. I do not plan to out myself any time soon because it is much comfortable for me to keep my sexuality as a private topic. I’m also an introvert, have anxiety and depression, and my family somehow despises homosexuality. I’m used to being alone or keeping things within myself because of my family’s hatred towards homosexuality and with my father’s early passing but lately, I’m worried about hurting my classmate’s feelings and at th...

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Feeling down about approaching my crush.


Posted Wednesday February 20 2019, 10:53 pm

I am a 16-year-old girl! and at my age, I have a crush of course. So today he was in a really bad mood because he was tired and had Migraine which sucks!

So he came in and put his head down and groaned and I reassured him and touched his shoulder and he raised his face and smiled and said he was okay, but then explained his migraine and tiredness. This may sound weird but I was glad that I was able to touch his shoulder because I learned that makes your crush closer to you.

I noticed also I text him about every day, and I feel like a crazy woman or something. but I was wanted to talk to him and make sure he was okay since he was not really talking to me during school.

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my baby


Posted Saturday February 16 2019, 3:48 pm

My girlfriend has got pregnant after only like 2 month we do love each other but she saying were not ready and financial and she already has 2 kids ages 2 and 5 and had said she wants more kids just when her youngest is at school full time what should I do.. But am ready 100 percent and always wanted a child too

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Mixed signals? something with my crush...


Posted Friday February 15 2019, 10:03 pm

Hi, I am a 16 year old girl and i have a crush obvisly at this age. So i have liked my crush for a couple months now. I also helped him to get a girl that he liked, he asked her out she rejected him. I was screaming in joy( which is completely messed I know) anyways, recently I was talking to him and went on a silly tangent about valentine's day since it was today. SoI said to him if I had I man I would want him to give me food, he then said I have food and proceed to point at the cupcakes on the table. Also, I said that I kinda want a boyfriend and he responded with yay since I told him previously that I didn't want a boyfriend... I could be completely delusional I don't know. Also, i find myself ALWAYS texting him first....

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Met up with a Girl on a Non-Date Twice. Is she Interested?


Posted Wednesday February 13 2019, 7:33 am

Hi, I met a girl at a digital marketing seminar. We started chatting there, she is cute, smart and very sociable. I asked here if she wants to connect on Facebook, perhaps to exchange ideas. So we did.

After exchanging a few messages on FB Messenger, she asked if I want to meet for coffee, bring our laptops and exchange ideas on digital marketing. I said sure, and we did just that. We found this quite little coffee shop. A couple of hours pass, I ask if she wanted to grab a drink after? But she had to meet a friend for dinner next. I said ok, and we went our separate ways. A couple of months pass, I ask her about her website (a travel blog) and connected her to my friend, suggesting she interviews him, he happens to be an av...

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Been talking to girl for 1 month actively but something is holding me back


Posted Thursday February 7 2019, 2:18 pm

Been talking to a girl for 1.5 months,went out 2 times and etc. Anyways, im a bit scared of calling her out alone,cause of 2 reasons. First being that when i met her,a year ago,we talked for 10mins and friend of mine came to her after that and said that i have a crush and if he doesnt help me,i will kick his ass.(Which is false).She came to me and said that she is not interested in me but i started laughing as i didnt know what was going on.She realized that friend set her up and told me about it. She apologized to me and year later,on some song i posted on instagram,she reacted and we talked since then.
Second being that she texted me first only 2 times,and i texted her maybe 3-4 times after liking my text saying Good Night.
...

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