hey everybody my name is maria, i'm 13 years old and i am really good at giving advice: my speacilities are love and relationship, fashion, and just random weird things. i have just recently joined this website and hope to give everybody some good advice. message me asking any question u have. my aim is xopantherangelox, if u really feel that you would like to talked to me, go ahead. just dont try and like "prank me" i am really here to help. i have been through alot in my life so i can probly relate to your problem. well have fun searching the web, oh and iconator.com is an awesome website for different iconas, avatars, and wallpapers.
E-mail: xopantherangelox@aol.com
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Location: florida
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Age: 13
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i have dark body hair, and i feel like i have kind of a lot on my stomach and lower back. i know every girl has hair there, but i feel like i have way more than most girls. i shave my arm hair off, since its super dark, as well as my legs of course. anyways, its probably not as bad to others as it looks to me, but i've always had more body hair than others. so i was wondering, should i shave the hair or try to dye it like a bleach blonde kind of color? especially with it being bikini season i dont want people to see my kinda hairy tummy and back! ew! ha plus i feel self concious. any advice is very appreciated thanks! (: 17/f btw (link)
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wax it.
yes it'll probly hurt.
and yes it'll grow back.
but it doesn't grow back like as thick,. or as much. so yeah. hope i can help!
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Hello there =D I'm 15 years old, and yeah XD and female...so there we go!
Oki doki, anyway! I am going to get my hair cute soon, but my mom and I don't really agree with what looks good on me...I love having my hair cut with lots of layers, cause I think it gives my hair personality. I like the punk/emo styles...but my mom hates it...It's really annoying to me cause my mom doesn't think it is my best look, while I think I look great with it...
So, can anyone help me with choosing something that will look good on me and how I can get my mom to let me have it?
Oh, by the way, my mom thinks that more...preppy (I suppose) stlyes will look good on me...while I, on the other hand, don't...XD
^^ Thanks for taking the time to read all this! =3 (link)
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okay maybe something like this
http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi158.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Ft87%2Fbabyballoongirl%2FScene%2520Hair%2Fscenehair54.jpg&searchTerm=scene%20kids%20or%20scene%20hair&pageOffset=1
its not as emo and punk because it doesnt have as many layers but it still is a little punkish, plus you dont have to dye your hair this color so yeah
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im 19 years old. female. i think i have a mental disorder but i dont know. i dont want to be evaluated. i just want to know how to be happier. i get so mad over little things. i know i should be mad and upset of them. but i cant help it. i just get so upset. i think its affecting my relationship too, which needs to stop. so i guess my question is..how can i be happier..and stop getting so angry? =/ (link)
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well okay im only 13 so i dont have any like doctor proven advice but i think that you should think before you speak or act, and maybe a therapist??? i dont know if that would help
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how do u know when ur cherry is popped
can a tampon pop it or just sex
& if sum1 pops a cherry wouldnt it bleed
if it does y do guys like 2 pop it wouldnt it be nasty (link)
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you can pop you cherry just from anything not only guys. it doesn't bleeed. if you r into gymnastics or something your probly already popped it from your legs stretching, it dont hurt
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Hi!
I'm thinking about getting a tattoo on the back of my neck, or around my ankle.
I really want it on the back of my neck though.
I've been wanting a black dragon forever!!!
But I cant find any pics. Nothing big, just a solid black dragon.
Or anything cute with a lot of color.
Like I said, nothing big.
Thanks.
Pictures please. (link)
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http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi195.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fz214%2Fbankai257%2Fdragon-1.jpg&searchTerm=dragon%20tatoo&pageOffset=7
http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi182.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fx44%2FtheXangel%2Ftatoo.jpg&searchTerm=dragon%20tatoo&pageOffset=10
http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi249.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fgg231%2FLu9_bucket%2Ftatoo-dragones-37.jpg&searchTerm=dragon%20tatoo&pageOffset=18
http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi164.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fu34%2FFirefly_Haven%2FMy%2520Creations%2Fdragon_tatoo.jpg&searchTerm=dragon%20tatoo&pageOffset=13
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I'm a freshman and there's a girl in my grade who moved here from Africa. I noticed she has bruises and what looks like burn marks all over her legs and arms. What exactly do they do to young girls in Africa? (link)
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ask the girl lol thats what i would do
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i have eczema and acne on my face and i recently started using a product to remove the acne. Not too long after, however, i began to notice dry spots on the corners of my mouth and then it started turning darker and darker, which im sure is due to the eczema. I stopped using the product and now im trying to get rid of the dark spots around my mouth. So does anyone know how to get rid of these dark spots caused by eczema? Especially any natural remedies???? (link)
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i suggest seeing a dermatologist
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ok so i really like this guy, but he doesnt like me so how would i get him to like me???
my other wuestion is that this guy likes me alot and asked me out but i said no and now i want to say yes but i wont know wat to do once im his girlfriend any advice on wat to do when u have a boyfriend???
plzz i need an anser quick cuz he wants to know by 2morrow
thankxxx (link)
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hey i think you should say yes. and you shouldn't, well you dont need to "plan" what to say, just start a conversation, thats all i can say
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Alright this isnt exactly a question but whatever. Alot of times things finally start going right in my life and i'm happy...for a little while until something goes wrong or something and then i'm not happy i dont know it's jst not constant and it bugs me because i dont like going from everything being great to everything being bad from being happy to numb and all these things it's really confusing and of course you would probably say "your 14 your barely a teenager things are going to be confusing and inconsistant" but i like i said i dont like it cause anytime things go good i think to much about it and how great things are going and how happy i am then when things go bad i think way to much about how i just wish i was happy and things were good again and how i must be doing something wrong if things keep changing so quikly and what not anywho i guess what i need is some advice hence this website so i just want your thoughts on this please an thankyou in advance (link)
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i so know what you mean but i guess everybody just has to stay tough and roll with the punches
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F/13.
im depressed. the guy i like doesn't like me the same way. my step-dad has hit and bruised me about 5 or 6 times in the past 4 months. my mom is dying of a disease. everyone i care about is starting to hate me, because they're getting to know the real me. and it sucks, because right now i need people the most.
i cry myself to sleep, and today [[march 30]] i started cutting again. after not cutting for 2 1/2 months. my mom doesn't know i started cutting again. my therapist might put me on anti-depressants. i'm prolly bi-polar and have ADHD. the only people i have left are the people that can't help me through it. [[except a few people]] and i don't know what to do. i can't help this depression, and i want it to stop. but i can't. my best friend [[that's a girl]] is prolly the girl that everyone thinks im going out with. and my best guy friend is the guy i love, and wanna go out with. im going through the normal shit. times 5 billion. i barely get any sleep. and when i do i have nightmares. about what im gonna turn into. and it sucks because im turning into the person that i hate. i hate my step-dad's part of the family with a passion, but i have to deal with them. i need to talk to my real dad. but i can't. im scared of what he's gonna think. i don't care what people think of me, but im terrifyed of what they think, i think im ugly, i hate the way i am, and how i look. the only reason i haven't commited suicide is because of one person. but i think i'm loosing them. please. help me get over my depression, help me. talk to me, keep me alive. keep me going, please. i wanna hang on. but it's hard when nobody cares. please.
aim:randomconfusionx
i just need someone to talk to, someone to keep me going.
please.
i wanna hold on. (link)
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hi, my name is maria and i really want to help you. my AIM is xopantherangelox I have saved your aim so i can i/m you when you get on. you shouldn't hurt yourself because the b.s other people put you threw. and you need to let someone know about your abusive step-dad, he isn't allowed to do that, its wrong. and no matter what anybody says you are beautiful.you having ADHD and being bi-polar isn't your fault, you can't really help this. you will get threw this, just please stop hurting yourself.
lots of love [[maria]]
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I am in 8th grade and there is going to be an eighth grade dance on may 30th. i need a dress. kind of fancy, and i want no one else to have it. I live in New York, not in the city. I live near commack if anyone knows where that is. Thanks (link)
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http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi140.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fr26%2Filuvrobbiewilliams%2F99de99897aad227e3dcf1654008c6971.jpg&searchTerm=formal%20dress&pageOffset=3
http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi265.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fii220%2Fbearox05%2Fhot.jpg&searchTerm=formal%20dress&pageOffset=5
http://photobucket.com/mediadetail/?media=http%3A%2F%2Fi212.photobucket.com%2Falbums%2Fcc274%2FxXUndiscoveredLoveXx%2F37072129_o.jpg&searchTerm=formal%20dress&pageOffset=2
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13/f and 13/m
ok so theres this guy. lets call him "tyler" and so me and tyler have 2 hour together everyday. and when we are there, everyone says hes looking at me. and in pe my friend says that last friday when we were playing soccer, he was cheering for me. but he always says hes better then me. but in a kidding way. so we are always doing things to see whos better. like in soccer, who gets more goals. Well today in health he was kinda looking at me. and in the hall he was too. but its not like he stares. he just looks over till someone sees him or i see him. and my other friend says that he likes me because he always laughs at my jokes when they arent funny.(and i think they are so) and how hes always flirthing with me. and btw if it helps, everone at our school says we would make the cutest couple there. but when my friend asked him if he liked me he said no but he was with his friends. but when he was alone with this guy friend of mine, he said that i was kinda sexy. but i dont know what that means. (link)
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HE SO LIKES YOU. i know because of the way he looks, this kid that liked me, lets call him "alex" had the look, me and my friend called it THE LOOK because it was just this look i couldnt explain but it was so hot! anyways, if you like him you should drop some hits, start flirting!
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okk so im considering letting my bf feel me up but i dont want him to touch my breasts without my bra on. first) to easy to have someone find out like his older brother walk in with me without a shirt and 2) im self consious about my breast soo my questions are
-i know he really wants to see me without a shirt on but with a bra (well he wants me without a bra on but i wont do that) but how is that possible without us getting found out??
-whenever i touch my breast myself it feels really weird and i dont like it at all it gives me a weird feeling in my stomach so i dont really want him too but i want to go further but idk my stomach just feels weird when i do almost like a little naseous.
-can a guy like feel up a girl with her bra on and how would he do that? cause if my shirt is on then he cant see my breasts and idk maybe he could unhook my bra but then what if i had to get up and go do something or someone came in? it would be obvious i wore no bra...unless i wore a cami? ok so ya what should i do about that too
thanks soo much! i will rate :] (link)
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okay. yeah i know i feel the same way with my boyfriend. i think you guys need to be somewhere where u know nobody will see you guys!! and if you wear like a big dark t-shirt you might not be able to tell you have no bra on. and last, make sure you feel comfortable doing it, if not tell him, just stick to kissing or making-out if you want, really its up to you
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alright well to start off i'm 14/f.(sorry this might be long, go to the end paragraph if you dont wanna read all ) well i go to my best friend's boyfriends house alot because we always have like a bunch of people there ranging from ages 13 to like 20 and we always have like a party or just chill around or watchc movies and have fires and stuff but theres this one kid there that i really like. but theres a few problems... i talk ALOT. constantly and non stop. i can't help it, i try hard. and he doesn't talk like at all. hes in my grade but not in any of my classes. i'm actually better friends with his 18 year old brother than him. but anyways their always at this kids house too so i see them all the time. and i try to put my talking to good use by trying to talk to the kid i like on like myspace or AIM or something, but i feel like i'm annoying him and stuff.
i honestly dont know where i'm getting at at this point. i guess what i'm asking is how can i stop talking so much, because when i talk, its always stories. and then people stop listening to me sometimes and i hate it so i just want to stop talking but i guesss i do that when i'm nervous.
what things can i do to help myself to chill out and relax when i'm around this kid or anyone so i dont get annoying? i try telling myself to relax and stuff, but i always forget to do it at the right time so that wont help. and also, any tips on getting this guy to talk to ME more? because my friend lieks him too and she likes every guy i like but idkkkk. HELPPPPP PLEASE (link)
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i tend to talk alot to. i talk alot and very fast, and i ahve a new jersey accent so im kinda hard to understand sometimes lol. well i would say, instead of telling long and maybe boring stories you should tell either short interesting storiees or ask im some questions to get to know him, dont get really personal or anything like that
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i rrreealllyyy wanna get my hair cut! right now its about to my bra line, and i have long layers, and side bangs. I want it with short/choppy layers, but NOT the scene hair thing (like not with the spiky, and really short layers and then thin long hair)
i want it kindof like these:
http://i198.photobucket.com/albums/aa82/_wannabescene_/Scene%20hair/Hanz.jpg
http://i170.photobucket.com/albums/u248/whitpay/Scene%20Hair/Jordyn15.jpg
just a heads up, i have blonde hair..so short layers and long hair like in the pictures..but i have to make it with blonde hair. pleasseee send pictures!
Thanks =] (link)
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hey if you i/m me i have a really cute picture of this hair cut i want to get. there is many layers but the length is not short and the girl has side bangs. if you cant i/m me let me know, ill give you the link
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I have been wanting to get gauges for my ears for a long time, but have never gotten them because I thought you had to have them done. I was recently told that if you have your ears pierced, you can do it yourself just have to work your way from a smaller gauge to a larger one. Is this true? If it is, do you know what gauge sizes are? Like what is the best size to start with? (link)
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the smaller the gauge size is, the bigger the gauge will actually be. i say start with a 16/14 and work your way up
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I am so in love with my boyfriend and i even made him a youtube video about it, and i say it all the time. But somehow i just dont think thats enough. is there any way else i csn show him i love him?
14/Fm (link)
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well i think your boyfriend has heard it enough. don't become obsessive or anything. i think but giving him a kiss when he least accepects it would be cute for you guys
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What are some cute and funny ways to flirt with a guy.
I have this thing going on with this guy, and since we're always joking around each other and so on, then I want some tips.
Thanks! (link)
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hey! okay when i want to get a guys attention i get a il physical. you knoe, like a little push or a pock in the stomach. its really cute when he knows you are ticklish and tickles you! you could also walk in the class room and be like HIS NAME!!!! oh my gosh!! and just joke around
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