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Hi, my name is Alexandria but i prefer to be called Alexis. I joined this site to be a advice giver because I want to help people. I have been through a lot over the years and I feel like I can relate to others. I have been told repeatedly that I give excellent advice and while I can not make your problems go away I can provide you advice on how to make things better for you. So if you need some advice don't be afraid to hit me up.
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E-mail: dest331@aol.com
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Location: originally born in north carolina but i have lived in philadelphia pa for 9 years
Occupation: babysitter
Age: 16
AIM: dest331@aol.
Yahoo: WannaBeAngel18@yahoo.com
Member Since: August 11, 2009
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Last Update: August 16, 2009
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I want to get my girlfriend somthing special I don't have that much money and we live far apart.
I want to be able to surprise her but at the same time say I'll always be there for you.
Im at a loss here and don't have a clue of somthing that will say that. (link)
Ok you know her, so think about what she likes. But something really special that would warm her heart would be to dedicate a romantic song to her. That will really make her heart warm. Hope this helps.


~Alexis~


my friend is goin out with this lad for about 4 months now and she want to have sex with him and she is still a virgin! but she told him that she wasnt so she wants to know is there a way of hiding the fact that she is?.. (link)
Good question. See not every guy can tell when you are a virgin and even when your hymen breaks it depends on your body and whether or not you bleed or not. Ok so your friend can do 2 things. 1. Just tell him the truth (some guys like doin it with a virgin) or 2. Fake it and hope he doesnt notice and if he does just say that she hasnt been with anyone in a while and by her being so tight she must of bled. But make sure you tell your friend that its not foolproof and that it might be easier to just tell him the truth if you need advice about how to tell him dont be afraid to contact me. Hope this helps.

~Alexis~


Okay so the other day I gave a guy a blow job. He is 34 years old and he has had sex with multiple women.. Anyway... I guess I didn't actually give him a blow job, I gave him a hand job and when he came, I licked some of it off (I dunno why. To be sexy maybe) anyway... There was something weird in his cum. I spit most of it out but I think I swallowed some... I had cum all over my hand so he handed me a paper towel and I noticed as I was wiping it off that there was dark stuff in his cum. (like black, I think... the lights were off so I couldn't see very well) The only way I can describe may sound weird but I dunno how to else to explain it other than it looked like part of a leaf... like you know in the fall when the leaves break apart and there are tiny little peices of leaf everywhere... thats what it looked like and thats kinda what it felt like in my mouth (not that I would know personally)... I know that is way lame but I really cant think of another way to describe it. I am worried maybe he had an STD or something... but the thing is I gave him another hand job a couple days later and there was nothing... he had been scuba diving earlier that day... could it have been something from the ocean? If you have any ideas or information please help. Thanks (link)
Ok first thing, dont panic. Its true that he couldve had a std but theres no real way to be sure. See certain stds that go with grainy black stuff coming out of the cum also he wouldve been sensitive and probally wouldve had welts on his penis. And since you didnt see anything the next time u did it it was probally something bad that he ate, no reason to worry. But do be more careful. Hope this helps.

~Alexis~


19/female. my best friend is 18/m

i have a lot of love for my best friend!

we've been friends for like 6 years now.

i have a crush on him too =p

but anyways! how can i tell him that i like, love him. i'm not IN love with him, but i love him as my best friend!?

i don't want to just say like "i love you" because that will probably come off wrong to him.

i hope you guys understand! (link)
I understand what you mean. And the best thing to do is to just sit him down and tell him. It might be embarrassing to do it face to face so try emailing or maybe even calling him and explain your feelings he might feel the same exact way about you but too afraid to mention it. Trust me guys can be such weinies lol


Is there anyway to make your butt bigger? Naturally, of course. Like, what muscles make it smaller and what muscles would make it bigger? (link)
Lol,very good question. There are ways to make your butt bigger. Of course you can eat fattier foods but they dont always work and the fat can go to the wrong place. But i recently discovered that there is a workout you can do. I call them butt crunches, all you have to do is just stand up straight with your legs at least a foot apart and squat try 20-50 make sure you stay in your squat for at least 30 seconds before lifting up again. Now I know it seems like a lot but trust me its worth it and it works. The squats actually start to firm you muscles under your butt and make your butt push out more as the muscles get stronger the more your butt pushes out. Anyway I hope it works for you and you get the nice big butt you want. ;)




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