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Gender: Female
Location: TX
Age: 19
Member Since: August 11, 2009
Answers: 6
Last Update: August 16, 2009
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Hi remember me. I'm frances the one with the guyy from the marines. Well anyways you told me to come back if i needed anything more and i do. I didnt text him or call him since the last time i saw him. I even ran into him at the store and i didnt even turn to look at him. I also deleted him from my Myspace. I was determined to forget him. But last night he text me asking if he could come over and me being stupid i said. But last night was different than before. Last night he was being reallyy nice and he was just cuddling up next to me and he stayed till 8 a.m. and the whole time he had me in his arms. I'm so confused:/ Whyy is he doing this all of a sudden. (link)
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Well remember i told you that if you wouldnt pay attention to him he would come back?he is acting that way because he noticed you didnt look at him....girl hang in there..keep him hangin and dnt get into anythin with him....if he dsnt get frustrated and if he keeps bein nice well maybe he really does like you...but dnt forget that when he left he told you it wasnt gonna work out....
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19/female.
so me and this guy are really attracted to each other. i'm SOOOO ready just to get with him. don't tell me it's bad or i'm not ready, i know i am. i know who I am, and what i believe in BUT the problem is actually getting to that point.
should i text him sometime this week and ask what he's doing this weekend? and be like "wanna have some fun;)" youuuu know where i'm getting at hahaa. but i don't know if he would really understand what i was talking about what if he was like hahaa why? or something like that, it would ruin it all!
any other suggestions? (link)
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lol girl your sneaky...lol
look act sweet with a bit of hmmm sexy...
Tell him you want to play a game with him
he will obviously ask you what game
well then just tell him where you wanna meet and
tata...lol
idk much about this but im pretty sure that if hes attracted to you as well it wont take too long for him to get your point.lol
just do it
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18/f 18/m
Okayy so i met michael on Myspace and we talked for a while. So about two weeks later we actually met face to face and that same nighht he asked if i got sneak him in so i did. We had sex about three times with a condom but the 4th time we didnt use one and he got scared that i might get pregnant so he bought me the "plan b". And we never spoke to each other again.
So now 5 months later he texted saying he wanted to see me and me being so stupid i said yes and we had sex again and he told me he loved mee but that he didnt wanna be with me because he's leaving to the marines and i said i'd wait for him and all he said was that it wasn't gonna work out that wayy and walked out the door:(
what do i do to make him realize we're right for each other and that it'll work out when he leaves...
PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
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HONESTLY?????You actually think you guys are meant for each other?I'm not trying to offend you or anything but im just letting you know what I think.Look hunn,if he really loved you or cared for you the way you think he does, he wouldnt have done sex with you before he left.Actually when a guy is really in to you they do their best to make you happy and not to hurt you, and HUNN you are HURT here.I can tell.By what Im reading he just used you for a while to have a good time.But ok,lets act smart now...If you really believe he is the one and that you all are meant for each other, next time you see him avoid having relationships,..keep your distance.Its then when you will realize if he really respects your decision or not.If he does he loves you if he doesnt and he gets all but hurt then you know what he wants.Try not to contact him for a while...if its meant to be he will come back by himself.
Email me if you need to =)
lely
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Today is my 6 month anniversary with my boyfriend. He's picture perfect in every way, I could start telling you about all the things he does for me but I think my fingers would get tired of typing. He's everything I've ever wanted and according to him I am what he's spent years looking for. Everyone sees us together for a long time and deep down inside I do too and so does he. We'll be going to college (me for 6 years, him for one) and after he's done with school he's moving so he can live with me while I finish school. We've planned our lives out already and I'm loving every bit of the plan but I can't stop thinking about the what-ifs. I've had other boyfriends and went through my first love but I've never been so deeply in love as I am now and I know if anything ever happened to us I'd be an absolute wreck. I'm always thinking "What if I'm tempted by the guys at college" (my major is dominated by men so I'd be surrounded by guys although I know that I would never cheat, I think its disgusting). "What if we lose touch while we're apart" (in different states for college. about 5 hours apart) "What if I get bored" (happened with my first boyfriend after 4 months)"What if I miss him so badly in college that my grades start slipping" "What if we get stressed and start fighting over stupid stuff which leads to our downfall".
I know they're rediculous ideas but there's a part of me thats still afraid of the answers to those what ifs. This is the first relationship for both of us where we felt like we could really spend the rest of our lives with each other. Guys like this are too good to pass up so I need help letting go of all the what if's and just learning to take it one day at a time. (link)
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Wow girl I can relate to you. I talked to this guy for about a year and 3 months and we also made plans(and we werent even dating)he lived in houston while I live in RioGrande city...We where 6 hours apart...and trust me.it sounds close but it aint.I stopped talking to him because I was like you.He was two years younger than I was and well honestly I wouldnt see much future with him.I was in college while he was still a junior in high school.I always thought about the "what if he is not good, or what if my family dont like him, or what if he turns out to be a drunkie like his father, and yattty yattty yattta." Girl Ive learned to just live the moment.Ivenever had a boyfriend and I am 19years old.WOW,that must be a bummer for you...lol jk.BUT yea,I personally Im not in a rush you know.Same with you.Dont rush the future.Just live the moment.Hey if he meets someone else, just have the thought that god knows why he does things.THEY ALL HAVE THEIR PURPOSE...same with you.If you meet someone else and you find that someone charming..well sweety let me tell you this, it might be for a reason.Just make sure your honest about everything your feeling with your boyfriend and make sure he tells you how he feels as well.And again try not to worry about the what if's, because eventually your gonna make them happen if you keep thinking about them.
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18/F just out of highschool. well, I've avoided social situations for the last few years. The only time I embraced them was when I had a "best friend" and felt good about myself. Now, I practically pray no one invites me anywhere. Like, if someone puts me on the guest list for a birthday party...I'll make up an excuse of why I can't go. Also, one reason I'm really insecure about hanging out in public is because I don't dance well. It sounds silly, but the people I would be hanging out with if I got over this anxiety would be getting jiggy with it and I'd just sit there and be uncomfortable! Help! (link)
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hunn dont push them away...be yourself and enjoy life...you know what I mean? Who cares if you dont know how to dance...people dnt know how to sing and yet they go make a fool out of themselves at the auditions for american idol..lol away with that feeling...I personally can care less of what others think of my personality and trust me, when you are postitve about yourself everyone sees you with a positve way too.dont be ucomfortable...talk with who ever is besides you..."wow, so who invited you to this party?' just ask them questions randomly ...good luck
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I probably wouldn't even ask this, but I told my best guy friend what I did, and he told me that what I did was very wrong to the point that even a Satanist would have problems condoning all of my actions.
It really has messed w/ my head since he said that, so I wanted your opinion on if you think I did the right things or not in this instance.
I was in college this past semester, and had 19 hours worth of classes. I also was working two jobs, one of them on campus for the housing dept., one off campus. I had been engaged to this guy I'd been w/ for 5 years from back home, but it was long distance by then because he didn't go to college. I had gotten pretty bored w/ him, and I had found a friend w/ benefits on the side, and the more that went on, the more I felt like I need to break off the engagement, so I did that over Christmas break.
Well, about 3 weeks before the semester ended, my ex fiance showed up and surprised me at my apt. He had a gun, but he didn't threaten me w/ it. He said that unless I got on his Harley w/ him and ran away, he was going to kill his self right then and there. I did call my little sister and I told her that I was running away w/ my ex-fiance, and she was the only person I would call while I was gone. I told her to tell our parents for me, so they'd know I was ok, but not to tell anybody else. So then I left w/ him, and we headed out west. The plan was that we were going to Vegas to get married. We were on the road for like 4 weeks, and the longer I was w/ him, the more I remembered why I had broken up w/ him to begin w/. We were somewhere in west Texas, I forget the name of the place, and he had gotten really drunk at our motel room and passed out. I looked in his pants pocket and got his wallet, and I slipped out the door. I used what cash he had to buy a bus ticket to Dallas, because he didn't have enough cash on him to buy a bus ticket for anywhere closer to home. On the way to Dallas, I ripped up or cut up everything from his wallet because I was bored, plus I didn't want someone to do identity theft on him, ya know? So when I got to Dallas, I found this strip club and asked if I could dance there for one shift to make money for bus fare, and the manager was nice enough to let me. (I had worked in strip clubs where I go to college at before.) So, I was able to use that money to finally make it back home. When I made it back home, I found out that I had fired from both of my jobs when they didn't hear from me, and also that I was on academic suspension because they had given me F's in all of my classes when I didn't show up for finals. Also, when I didn't show up to move out of my dorm room, they cleaned my room out, so I lost everything in there. In short, I lost my whole life on that trip. But still, in my mind, I did the right thing b/c he would've killed his self otherwise if I hadn't have left with him. I can rebuild what I've lost, and I've already found one new job.
The thing that my best guy friend has the biggest problem w/ was that he said if I was going to steal my ex's wallet, then I should have also stolen his gun and thrown it away or pawned it so that he couldn't use it to kill his self when he woke up and saw that I was gone. I really didn't think about that at the time, and now that it has been pointed out to me, I am a little bit worried about it.
So, did I really handle things as badly as my best guy friend said? (link)
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Well in my point of view,everyting you did was dangerous,but I understand when its a life or death situation as yours you dont think about your actions and you just do the first thing that pops in to your head.Honestly though your ex fiance got what he wanted.He GOT YOU to think he was going to kill himself that way you would leave with him..but sweety what about yourself?Imagine if you would of stayed with him>he might of killed you...hmmm if he didnt care about his life wat makes you think he would care about the girl that dumped him life.???Anyways back to the point...I dont think he did anything to himself.But if he was that much of a psycho well he probably did if he had the gun...but trust me..dont blame yourself for that.Guys and girls who have suicidal thoughts aren't that good in their heads.
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