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Age: 19
Member Since: December 4, 2005
Answers: 17
Last Update: September 23, 2009
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Am I too young to be giving my boyfriend a handjob or getting fingered? I mean we've been going out 2 months and we hooked up about a month before we went out...I feel almost scandalous when I do...I keep doubting my morals, there's a piece of me that wants to fight my hormones. Any personal experience or advice would help! Thank you! (link)
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Don't worry I felt exactly the same way and I was your age when I started doing stuff like that. My advice is, if you feel extremely comfortable with the guy then go ahead. but if you have any doubts about the guy then maybe lay off a bit. Also, if you still are confused then go ahead and fight your hormones every now and then.
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Okay, the title says it all.
When I get bored, I eat, what are some things I can do besides eating, that will keep me...not bored?
Thanks in advance. (link)
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Instead of eating chew gum when you are tempted to eat I don't know why exactly, but it seems to make you forget about eating because it gives you something else to do and think about.
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18 female
so i've like this guy for awhile now. he is really active, he plays three sports. well anyways he is always sore and he asks me sometimes to give him a massage and i dont mind at all ;) its a good reason for me to get somewhat closer to him i guess you could say. i always make him lay on the floor because for me its easier. but i never feel like im doing a good job, and i hate feeling like that! its usually always his lower back that hurts. i try and like rub it, it's hard to explain and i'll always be like "right here?" "is this even doing anything?" and he always says yeah but i dont know if its just because its me doing it and its somewhat good, or if he is just saying that. i am a pretty weak girl, my hands get tired easily which also makes me feel bad. i know its hard to try and explain how to give a good massage but can anyone give me any hints, experiences? i dont use oil or anything because well usually its like at a friends house when were all doing something and he'll ask me. is there ANYTHING that would make it feel better, maybe even turn him on a little bit? sometimes i'll like strattle him while doing it, because it's easier to do it at that angle but i dont know. anything will help :) (link)
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Sometimes If you put you make a fist and then like push down and just do that all over that works good. And just like not scratching but you know just kind of gently scratching a back feels good lol! And also if you want to do something to turn him on sometimes it works if you tickle his sides or just run your fingers along his sides, most of the time it gives them goose bumps and then they laugh! I hope this helps!!
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i get acne around my chin/mouth area and i wonder if its from making out with my boyfriend because ive never really had it this bad until we started making out alot.. (link)
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Don't worry I have the same problem! And I seriously think it is from making out too! But I'm not sure. So just make sure you wash your face both day and night.
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well you said i should make my boyfriend a tied fleece blanket well i was thinking about it and i wanted it to mean a little something but i dont know if this will sound dumb or anything.
i want it to be sport related sort of if i do this
my whole family loves the Green bay Packers cuz my dads half is from greenbay
And my boyfriend Likes the vikings
so i was thinking of putting a vikings fleece on one side and a packer one on the other and saying something like its for like if he ever feels like switching over to being a packer fan or something better than that or something
what do you think?? (link)
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That would be really cute! I made my boyfriend I football blanket too and he uses it all the time so it really comes in handy and then every time he uses it he says he thinks of me. So that is even better lol!
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This question is for guys.....if your girlfriend consistently asks you to come to family get-togethers...do you enjoy them or really want to go? Guess the question is do you like or mind hanging out with her family (link)
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I'm a girl also, but i've been going out with my boyfriend for three years and I can tell that he doesn't enjoy the thought of hanging out with my family, but once (after much persuading) he does come he actually starts to enjoy himself. Its important because if my family doesn't ever see him then they won't ever get to know him and then it would just be really akward.
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me and my boyfriend have been dating for 15 months and this will be our 2nd christmas together. we are both 17. Last year i got him a $50 bottle of cologne i spent like all my birthday money on it. I have a job this year but still want to keep it cheap like under $100 would be nice. i plan on getting him a few shirts cuz he said he wanted that but i need something different that he will appreciate more and i need help thinking of something!
i dont want it to do with his interests because to me thats what his birthday is for this is just something he would enjoy but not like Sport related or anything :)
(cant make a scrap book not enough pictures)
(already got him a picture frame w/me and him in it for our year)
(got him a stuffed animal for our year also)
prefurably nothing ive given him...
Please help
auto five for good answers!
THANKS =D (link)
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Don't worry I have the same problem. I've been going out with my boyfriend for three years and every year it gets harder and harder to buy stuff for him. You can make him a fleece blanket where you just tie it together, or a new hat if he wears hats, and if you guys are ever hanging out look at a sports magazine like eastbay and just keep a mental note of what he likes and then suprise him by getting it. I can't think of any thing else right now, but if you need any more help just ask!
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okay, i need a song or a few songs that are like decribing a relationship that changed and saying that you want things to be how they used to be
any helppp?
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LIfe House- Whatever it takes
Faith Hill- Cry
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ever since i got my braces off (three years ago) my jaw kinda pops sometimes.
that mostly stopped for a while, but recently i've been expieriencing a LOT of soreness on the left side; it feels like a bruise and i can't open my mouth all the way.
it's not my teeth, i suspected it might be a cavity but i got checked and it turns out i don't have any.
any way i can make the pain stop?
what might have caused this?
thanks! (link)
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Hey! I know you asked this question like ages ago, but I had the exact same problem and it hurts so bad, but then I got all of my wisdom teeth taken out and my jaw hasn't popped or hurt at all since then so maybe you should get them checked out.
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I remember from a long time ago (childhood food memory) me and my grandmother used to make peanutbutter balls i remember them being brown (the color of peanut butter) and not rolled in powdered sugar so that it looked white.. it was brown. It had seeds in it, I am assuming sesame seeds.
Does anybody have a recipe similiar to such as what I describe? (link)
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I make some using melted butter, peanut butter, rice crispies with just a little bit of powered sugar and then you let them sit in the fridge for a while and then you melt a hersheys bar with some like i think its called baking wax and also with some bitter sweet chocolate. But i'm not 100 percent sure what the measurements are, but if you are interested just message me and I can find it for you.
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after me and my boyfriend have sex and i get an orgasm i like to go until the orgasm is completely gone. but once it's gone then i don't really feel like i need another one and i like to quit. he gets frustrated and so do i but after the orgasm i just don't care anymore. I try to for him but i can't. is that normal? can i fix it? (link)
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This happens to me too and I just keep going and fight threw the wanting to stop. It only takes a few seconds and after a while it goes back to normal.
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ok so i had sex earlier today around noon and ever since i've had cramps in my abdomen and it especially hurts when i pee. is this normal? (link)
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I get these all the time. I'm not sure why either. And when you are going to the bathroom sometimes it may be because you got a little torn and it stings
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My boyfriend .. I don't him not to get his hopes high. I'm on birth control and have been for months. I told him I wasn't going to have sex with him for 4 months or so.. even then, there would be no guarantees that I would say yes. He understands this. I THINK he will ask in a month or two.
I'll have sex when I'm ready. I won't be pressured into it either. I refuse to have sex already in a 5th month relationship. we are rather sexual at times... but that's not what our whole relationship is about.
so i'm just wondering..
Your first time experiences? I'm rather small in that area and i'm afraid that it will feel like he's trying to break/TEAR me. I've seen his dick and it seems so big in my eyes and i can't IMAGINE his head going in at all! When he fingers me, when he tries to enter first, it somewhat hurts but once he's inside.. it doesn't.
Is there enough room inside for a penis to stretch? or would it be a noticeable tight feeling INSIDE?
Any ways to make make me feel a bit comfortable? pillows? lube? yes, i already told him a condom is a MUST or he's getting nothing. (link)
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I totatlly agree with Kate... I am like exactly like you! So don't worry everything will work out fine, just take your time and don't do anything that you are not ready for. Good things happen with time.
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Okay I have a boyfriend. And we have abig past .. like me with his friends. And he doesn't trust me at all ... He's always going through my phone and arguing with me... checkin up on my myspace & my buddylist. Also he'll "play around" hitting me, but when I play around and hit him.. he always gets mad. I don't know what to do cause I love him withh my life. Whhattt do I doo?! (link)
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I know what you mean! My boyfriend is a good 100 pounds heavier than me and plays football and wrestles and he thinks its fun to pick on me and push me around and put me in wrestling moves when really I'm just in pain. So I kick him and scratch him and then he acts like I just tried to murder him. What i do is sometimes i act like he really hurt me and then he is super sorry. Maybe try that if he is getting too aggressive. Also about the myspace you should not let him push you around and do everything he wants you too. Take a stand and set him straight, Tell him that you have a life and that he needs to respect that you can and do have other friends. Don't give up anything just for your boyfriend. Don't worry I'm sure everything will turn out okay! Just don't be afraid to tell him if anything is bothering you. Okay well I could type all day about this because it is so much like my life, but I to go so I hope this helps!!
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14/f. Any advice on making the first move? And building up the courage to do so?
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Just be yourself and if you are shy maybe hang out with him and some friends that way you can be yourself around him and your friends so he can see that. And just talk and smile and maybe ask him if he wants to hear a joke or something, but remember to be yourself and don't try to change who you are just for some attention. Good luck!
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i'm getting braces soon. i don't know what color to get. i like the colors baby blue, light green, and baby pink, although i'm afraid those colors will bring too much attention to my mouth. will they? what colors are good so the braces arn't as noticeable. nothing vibrant like hot pink right? (link)
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If you get baby blue from a distance it looks like you don't even have braces and up close it makes them look somewhat noticable, but in a cute way. So its kinda a little of both.
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Is color gaurd popular like cheerleader, because my sister said that it was like being a cheerleader, but i dont know if that is true or not?
So, my question is this basically:
Are color gaurd people treated like how the cheerleaders are? (popular or not?)
Thanks ahead of time?
Hev (link)
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In my school color guard is way better than being in the marching band and people realize that and tend not to think of you as a band fag. And the cheerleaders at my school aren't so popular nobody really likes them. I'm on the color guard and you aren't really thought of like a cheerleader cause cheerleading is a sport and color guard is a fine art.
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