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giving a GOOD massage
18 female
so i've like this guy for awhile now. he is really active, he plays three sports. well anyways he is always sore and he asks me sometimes to give him a massage and i dont mind at all ;) its a good reason for me to get somewhat closer to him i guess you could say. i always make him lay on the floor because for me its easier. but i never feel like im doing a good job, and i hate feeling like that! its usually always his lower back that hurts. i try and like rub it, it's hard to explain and i'll always be like "right here?" "is this even doing anything?" and he always says yeah but i dont know if its just because its me doing it and its somewhat good, or if he is just saying that. i am a pretty weak girl, my hands get tired easily which also makes me feel bad. i know its hard to try and explain how to give a good massage but can anyone give me any hints, experiences? i dont use oil or anything because well usually its like at a friends house when were all doing something and he'll ask me. is there ANYTHING that would make it feel better, maybe even turn him on a little bit? sometimes i'll like strattle him while doing it, because it's easier to do it at that angle but i dont know. anything will help :)
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As you are giving the massage imagine how it feels. In your mind "feel" the massage and do to him what you think would feel best to you. If his lower back is bothering him, don't forget about his bum. Butt cheeks are a muscle, and feel great when being massaged. Ggenerally, men like the pressure to be more than what a woman would feel comfortable with, so push down a little harder than you would like if it were you. Also, don't ask, "does this feel good," or "right here," because that will take a person totally out of their groove. Consider the environment just as much as the actual massage. Candles, soothing music, etc. Use an oil or a lotion. Neutragina (excuse the spelling) has a really great sesame seed oil that isn't too girly and is really good for the skin.
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Start just rubbing his back up and down with your palms preferably with his shirt off. Besides just plain feeling nice (there's something intimate and arousing about a girl caressing you), it warms up the tissue for a better massage. Once you've done that for a bit, start pushing down with the.."heel"? of your palm. Start at the center of the spine and push in an outwards direction. Straddling him is good for this, cause you can put more of your weight into it if you need to. Work from the top down, or vice versa. Make your movements symmetrical. You can use your palms to push up the spine too, from bottom to top, to work the muscles in a different direction. Use your thumbs next. You can either push out from the spine with them like you did with your palms, or massage with them in a circular motion. That feels really good. I would also recommend rubbing his back in between changing styles. Like you did in the beginning with your palms flat.
A good way to end a massage (for me at least) is to do a quick shoulder massage, and a head massage. It feels really good.
If you want to turn him on, then definitely try and touch him a lot. Even if you were just massaging his lower back, when your rubbing him with your palms, explore more of him. Go all the way from the top of his neck to as far down to his butt as you can, and his sides too.
Good luck! (p.s., lucky guy, to have a friend willing to give him so many massages. They're one of my favorite things.)
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Sometimes If you put you make a fist and then like push down and just do that all over that works good. And just like not scratching but you know just kind of gently scratching a back feels good lol! And also if you want to do something to turn him on sometimes it works if you tickle his sides or just run your fingers along his sides, most of the time it gives them goose bumps and then they laugh! I hope this helps!!
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