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Me, Jess, and Alexa are best friends. At the beginning of the year Jess and some of her other friends were friends with this group of guys. One of the guys started liking one of Jess's friends, but it didn't work out. So then those guys stopped talking to Jess and her friends all together to avoid the awkwardness. Now me and Alexa are friends with these guys out of a coincidence. Jess is jealous and feels REALLY left out. She's upset because her old guy friends "dumped" her and moved on to me and Alexa. Now they don't acknowledge her at all. But the thing is...these guys call us to hang out all the time and they persue our friendship a lot. Jess is one of my best friends and being friends with these guys is hurting our friendship.

The horrible part is that I like one of the guys. I told Jess that by the way. Its horrible! (link)
say... if jess can't come we're not! good luck :p


Hi im 14/f and i want dead straight hair but without using straightners or heat does anyone know how to get straight hair any hairdrying techniques or special things to use thanks a lot!!!

Sandy (link)
it dosen'y work that way. but if you get the right iron it won't take long. you can ask your hair stylist thiugh. PROVE ME WRONG! good luck :p


where do they sell apple bottom jeans? and are they expensive? thanks :) (link)
try ebay.com good luck! :p


Okay, so i have a boyfriend of 3, almost 4 months. He is one of the sweetest guys i have come across in a long while, but lately, that has changed. For the past 3 weeks he has barely been hanging out with me, or talking to me. He is apologizing and "trying to fix it" but its just hard to deal with, really hard.
While on the other hand, i have another boy that likes me. That i liked before me and my boyfriend started dating, but i just found out he likes me, about 3 weeks to a month ago. We talk a lot [just as friends for now] and hang out, and i am starting to like him more and more. And he is a lot sweeter to me than even my own boyfriend is at this point, and i feel like i want to be with him.
The catch is, i am my boyfriend's first real girlfriend and he is a junior in highschool, while i am a sophomore, so i would feel bad to be his first broken heart, especially if he really is trying to fix things, and i have no idea what to do. (link)
you got a good heart. but sometimes a girl has to do what a girl has to do. give the kid 2 more weeks if he dosen't shape up get with the guy YOU like ! good luck :p


ok
so im 14/f
and i have a mix p.e class like with 7th graders and 8th and im in 8th grade but i keep getting hit in the face lol but this guy hes a total cutie.. and i think hes trying to flirt with me(hes kinda bad at it!lol.) ok so in pe we talk when we have to run and hes like pushing me like a nudge and its kinda cute.and i hit him back and stuff but hes in 7th grade i have never gone out with a younger guy i mean i have dated a 11 grader but not a 7th grader or anything. i raelly like him but i dont know what my friends will say. about him they dont know him adn me and my friends are all goign to see the eye on friday and stuff i want to ask the 7th grader to come with me but im not sure what he will say.
ok if you need more info then tell me ok? (link)
yikes! i say if you are more concerned about being made fun of... (it's kinda shallow) if he's taller than you (or close)it ok! but that's just with friends! if you are alone do what ever. if you really like him and don't care ... go for it! good luck! :p


When I was younger, I used to be very hyper and energetic. I wasn't afraid to act a little crazy sometimes, and I was very confident. However, now I'm 15 and naturally, I got more mature. In fact, people say that I've changed a lot, and that I've become boring. I thought that I was just being immature, but people used to like being around me. Should I go back to being playful and carefree, or am I too old for that now? (link)
be free! :p


So my family is the richest by far in my town. My town is small, but we are probably the richest in our county and the counties surrounding us. My Grandpa was a doctor since he was in his late twenties early thirties. He died at the age of 75. All of his money went to us. My mom is an RN and makes good money. My dad is probably the biggest rancher in our state.
Recently a girl's dad in my school (who used to work for us) got an oil rig job. They finnaly got money and I was happy for them. Now they really get to live a little compared to living how they used to. Well she got a new car (mustang) when she turned sixteen. She is a year older than me. I just turned sixteen and I got a Dodge Ram 3500 dually Mega Cab 2008. Her dad saw what I had got and came up to me and said "I like your truck. Too bad it's not as nice as my daughters." I blew it off like I didn't hear it, but then his daughter came up to me and asked me what year mine was and how much it cost. I didn't answer how much because I knew that was snoody. Then the other day I was talking about a cruise I had been on with some friends and her dad happen to over hear me. He said "Tia will be going on a cruise of the next three summers." And every time I get something new she gets something just like it. She is constantly telling me how much her clothes cost when I own the same clothes. It's really annoying and I'm not sure what I should do about it. Any suggestions to get them off my back?

Also I'm not the braggy type. I like to keep to myself about the money I have. I only told you my families money to let you know where we both stand. (link)
just say... "that's nice!" (even if it dosen't make sence with what she just said) than walk away! keep doing this until she gets bored buggin you! i could take awhile! good luck :p


There is something wrong with my mind. I'm positive that there is.
I'm 5'5 and about 165lbs. When I look in the mirror, I feel physically sick. I can't STAND looking at my body. I feel like a gross obese girl. I'm a dancer. My teacher is always telling me to suck it in, and I just can't anymore. I tried anorexia, but my parents force me to eat. I've tried bulemia, but I can't make myself throw up. I would love to get down to maybe 140lbs.
I feel the need to get very skinny very quickly. I've become ADDICTED to americas next top model. I just love looking at how skinny most of them are. I just want more than anything to be skinny. I will do whatever it takes.

I'm obsessed with nutrition. I count calories like it's my job. My passion is shopping. I just can't bear going into a fitting room and trying on size 12-14 jeans.

I'm very self aware. I realize that I have an unhealthy obsession, but there is truely nothing I can do about it.

Please, don't tell me to focus on a healthy diet an excersize. I'm SO sick and tired of carrots, salads, and tiny portions of meat. I try to excersize, but I never have any motivation.

What I'm looking for now is just some advice. If anyone feels that they can break through my unstable mindset with some personal stories or other bits of advice, please, I just need help.

Thank you for your time. (link)
ask your mom to buy more heathy food. This is what i do, eat a low calorie breakfast-(cheerios or a fruit) lunch- meat, veggie, and whole wheat bread sandwich dinner 1 and 1\2 servings


SNACKS: FRUIT AND VEGGIES ONLY!


i have really thick wavy hair. its really pretty, but its too thick.
i like my hair in layers, and i have side bangs. i want it cut a little above my shoulders, not too short.
my question is, exactly how do the people cutting your hair make it thin? and can i still have layers?
thanks!! (link)
sometimes they can take a SPECIAL razor and take away some of the thickness of the hair . i would stick with layers and flat ironing good luck :p


what are the positive sides and negative sides to car pooling? like, how does it affect (effect?) the enviroment? (link)
it's great 4 the environment ! it can can get a little squished sometimes . if that happens sit by a guy u like ! lol good luck :p


I really like this guy at my school; we have a lot in common, we like the same movies and stuff, he's cute and smart and funny, but there is a problem: i'm a year older and like a foot taller than him. he says he doesn't care that i'm older but that it would be too weird dating a girl who's so taller. Everyone says he likes me and i'm graduating this year (it's a middle school) and i don't have time to wait for his growth spurt. I want him to ask me out (preferably before valentine's day). i've promised never to wear high heels, please help!! (link)
if you really like him and nothing happens by vday you do something ! good luck :p


Me and this girl have been talking for a while and we both sound interested in eachother but i was wondering how to ask her out. We hardly get a chance to hang out and now i'll almost never see her in school and i want to ask her out very soon so she doesn't think we arn't going anywhere and move on...cause i seem to find that happen with girls lol. So would it be ok to ask her out via text message or what? Thanks. (link)
i wouldn't text! phone, in person, or with a bunch of flowers! good luck :p


Why do girls use the word Love so much?
Im friends with a bunch of girls and they always use it. Im good friends with them but do they like me or sumthin? Its also really akward becuase i dont use it unless its actuall love, (link)
when we say love we just mean "really like"


14/f

I love the summer, and I want this summer to be packed with just tons of great stuff and for it to be really busy.
Would you please tell me any great things you have done with friends in the summer that were awesome?
And any other other ideas?

Thanks, xxx (link)
sleep overs, camping , go to camp , go to outdoor movies , double dates ect.


14/f
so today i went to the ymca with my older brother [hes a junior] and like all his friends. i like his friend chas and he was there too. i was kinda mad at chas today because the day before he made a comment about my outfit and kinda implied he didnt like it..so i didnt really have any patience with him today at the ymca. i was talking to all of my brothers friends for awhile and then chas came..we were all just playin bball and shooting around.. chas was like trying to say hi to me and hold a conversation but i was just ignoring him..a few times when he attempted to talk to me i kinda just walked away and talked to one of the other guys..he definitely knows something is up because sometimes he would tease me when we were playing and i would just immediately snap at him or tell him to shut up.and i know its cause i was angry.and i talked to like all of the guys except for him.
welll i came to the conclusion tonight that im the biggest idiot on the face of the planet.i like this kid and i totally blew him off today and gave him the wrong impression.i see him in school like 4 times a day so now things are going to be weird if he thinks i dont like him.. i dont know what to do because if i act like nothing happened that will seem totally sketchy. but if i talk to him about it,i would probably end up telling him i like him..which would make things awkward if he didnt like me back. help.. any advice would be great (link)
wow! i did something preety stupid yesterday too! I WAS @ my crush's b-ball game ! after they won me and my girls were give 5s! i chichened out right when my guy came! i say just shake it off and talk to him it might be better if you tell him you like him


My boyfriend and I have been together for seven months. This last month has been really rocky, because we've just been arguing on a daily basis.

The 23rd was his ex girlfriend's birthday and that day he kept saying, "You know I'm going to call her and wish her a happy birthday." They never talk, ever. She was so rude to me when we first started dating, she'd always message me saying stupid things, and at one point, she had his little sister completely HATING me.

So, yesterday I had brought it up and I said I knew he had called her because she had told his little sister over Myspace. He kept denying it, and then today I get on his myspace and there's a message that says, "I know it's you who called me, and I wanted to let you know it made me feel really great." I hate this girl. I really do.

I'm so pissed at him. I really feel like this is making me want to end the relationship. Am I blowing this out of porportion? (link)
that would tick me too! it's your nature to get mad! I SAY give him one more chance! then if he's still making you mad dump him cuz he's not good enough 4 u


i run almost everyday for about 30 minutes and by like 10 minutes i get very bored, like i just want to stop. so what can i do to make running more fun? i also bring my ipod but that also doesnt work .. (link)
get a tv and watch you fav show while running


anyone one no a store or place that has a lot of cute and fun necklaces? i generally like long ones but i like them to be creative =] (link)
claires!




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