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I feel scared to ask my parents for a snapchat facebook Kris even an instagram because of how over protective they are what should I do (link)
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Unless they go through your personal space, I don't see why you would need to ask, unless you feel like it's something that you should share with them. Except for Facebook, none of those have an age requirement. I hope the odds are ever in your favor! ;)
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I sent a few nudes to a guy I met online and he's sent me money in return for them and now he's blackmailing me saying if I don't send him something else then he'll post all my pics on the internet.. Is there anything I can do to stop him? Can the police do anything? (link)
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Absolutely, the police can help. I'm not sure what else to tell you. I would definitely talk to someone at the police department to see what they can do. Hope it goes well for you! :(
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So last week I was at an extra color guard practice just for fun and my color guard partner was there too She's a senior and I'm a freshman, but we're close friends. So anyway, even though I'm younger than her, I can spin a quad on my flag which is extremely hard to do. My coach saw me doing this with some other fancy work and she asked me if I wanted a solo part of our performance. I obviously said yes and I was super happy. So I went to my partner and she already heard the news. She didn't look excited like I was and I asked her "aren't you happy for me?" And she was honest and told me no. She said she was jealous because she never got a solo and she is better than I am. I got a little offended by this. I told her it wasn't my fault coach asked me. But of course, she yelled at me and told me it was my fault. I then told her how I work as hard as her and how she is never proud of me for anything I do and how she's always better than me and will never say I'm good and that hurts me. We fought more until she yelled at me to shut up and I said no and I tried to finish what I was saying when she hit me. Right in the face. My cheek was bleeding and it was swelling. My partners face was more shocked than mine. She said "(my name) I--" and stopped there. I started tearing up and ran out of the band room. I ran into 2 other team mates and they asked me what was wrong but I ignored them and ran home. My face has a nasty bruise where she hit me and I can't believe she did that to me. I thought she was my friend. What do I do now? I'm so scared of her. (link)
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I completely understand why you would be afraid of her. Sometimes situations can get out of control, even between good friends, and things like this can happen. It sounds like she was surprised at what she did to, although that doesn't excuse her behavior. Sometimes we do things we wouldn't normally do simply because we're experiencing stress and we aren't thinking, so it comes sort of as a reflex.I think you should give it some time and either wait for her to talk to you, or maybe try to talk to her about it. I hope things work out!
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So I had been a Wiccan for months, and my dad had the bad idea of it. That every Wiccan was a witch. That witches are evil. That the Horned God is associated with Satan because he has horns/antlers. I have never felt comfortable in Christianity, but felt comfortable in Wicca, like I was 100% safe and nothing would ever hurt me. I'll be turning 18 in a few months. Should I just light candles in my room, try to tell the Horned God that I'm sorry and that I'll move in with my friend when I turn 18 and become a Wiccan again? (link)
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I'm an Atheist with a Wiccan friend and an extremely Christian friend got into an argument with me about the exact same thing a couple months ago because I showed her a tarot card I had found. It started when I showed her the pentagram on the back which she insisted was the Satanic pentagram.(Sorry about the ramble, I was just intrigued to find someone who had a similar experience and wanted to share mine.) I was told when I was little that I could believe in whatever I wanted. Your father can't make you believe in anything. You don't need to quit and then "become Wiccan again" later. You should practice freely. It's your religion, your beliefs, and your right. That's what America was originally all about, right? I say keep practicing, he obviously has no idea what he's talking about. (: Good luck.
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Here's a picture of me: http://i.imgur.com/e2uF7w6.jpg
I have a stupid haircut and i don't look good.
I have no idea what hairstyle would look good for me, but could someone tell me what hairstyle would look best with my face? Every time I've asked this, people have just made fun for how I look; I know I'm ugly, but I just want legitimate advice as to what would look good for me. (link)
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Awwh! Hey, I think it looks fine on you! And you're not ugly at all. I've seen ugly. Ugly follows me :P If you really don't like it, that's cool. Give it a little time though, maybe it'll grow on you. After all, it is something new, it'll just take a little bit to get used to it :) I personally think it looks great.
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What qualifies someone to give advice on this site? (link)
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You set up an account. You try to help people out. Sadly, there isn't an idiot filter for the people giving advice, but I haven't seen anyone on here yet who didn't know what they were talking about. (:
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I am 25 years old and I am a female and I had oral sex for thefirst time ever I have ner fone anything sexual before nowb in my life and I am a virgin . I knowbyou proble dodon't get a lot of women who are old as I am who are virgins asking about stds on this site but iam terrified that I might have aids when I didn't even have intercourse. We were both naked and he ate me out and I sucked his dick and he gingered me could I get aids from letting this guy that I have known since I was 16 do this to me . I know this may make .e sound like a whore but we was only dating a week before he wanted to have sex and I said didn't want to have sex so we decided on oral sex . I am so scared because the other day I was in the shower and I noticed 3 little bumps inside my vagiana and I also have a boil that's kind of grey looking sorry if this is to grafic but I wanted to give you complete detail of what's going on with me so you could answer my question properly. I talked to my cousin about my situation and she said that I needed to go see a gbyon and get tested for aids and other stds . I am so scared. Please help . I made an appointment gor the 10th of my next month and iam absolutely terrified because I don't know what to they are going to do. How do they check for aids is it s blood test or do they actually have to check down there ? Will they tell anyone if I have aids . Please help me. Thank you so much. (link)
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Ive always thought that that STD's from oral sex would only affect your mouth. But I could be wrong. Sounds like it very well could be. Getting the appointment was a good idea. No, they will not tell anyone, everything should stay private between you and your doctor. You might wash frequently "down there" to avoid it causing any other nasty infections of any sorts. Sorry to hear, hope you get it all sorted out and treated.
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If she loves me but she don't want to have sex with me what must I do (link)
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Respect that she doesnt want to. You cant force her to.And like what someone else said, looks like you should be focusing more on school.
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ok so i am a 16 year old girl and really bi-curious? I think i like guys but if i get into a relationship i end it too quickly because it doesnt feel right when i am with a guy. but I'll look at a guy and say he's hot but it ends there. as with girls though i've never had a crush on a girl but i can see myself in a relationship with one (a girl in general). i am just so confused, i don't think there is anything wrong with being gay but i am afraid that if i am that I'll loose friends and be judged harshly. i know my family will accept but i am still scared. (link)
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I myself am bisexual. I started only curious and i did question myself quite a bit, but it felt natural to find both sexes appealing and i embraced it. Most of my friends are bisexual, but the ones who arent are still accepting and actually have probably forgotten. If you talk to your friends about it, im sure they'll be very accepting, and you may even learn that they're bi curious/bisexual. As for being judged, it will happen. Its happened several times to me allready, especialy since i moved a whole state away from everyone i know. But dont let it get to you too much. Ive actualy learned that more people are bisexual/gay/lesbian than straight. Its not as uncommon as you think. Scientific studies show that only one species on earth is homophobic and thats the human race. So dont be too afraid. I told my family pretty quickly. I was a little afraid, but they were very accepting. Keeping your feelings bottled up too long can actually cause stress, but take your time and tell them when it feels right. I know im two years younger than you, but I also have three years experience (lol). I hope you find this helpful :)
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Well, I should start by saying I'm an 18 white British girl who grew up in a very middle class background.
Anyway, I have never had a boyfriend before and have been seeing this guy for about 5 months, I only see him on weekends because he lives in the rougher city area and I am in the country side (I should also point out in England countryside is 95% white while inner cities are more 40-50%). He's from the Caribbean originally and came to England a few years ago, so obviously, he is black. He loves me and his family love me too but my family is against whites and blacks being together, my Nana said people see a slut when they see me now.
Is it honestly so bad to see white and black people together? (link)
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Absoloutly not!!! I honestly think that sometimes people get their heads stuck in the past and believe that thats how the world still is... My grandmother practicly lives in the fifties.... Im not sure how to help, but like you said your 18... Your technacly an adult now.... At least here in the US you are... I take it your close to your family so sit them down and talk to them about how you feel.... they should listen. And why would anyone see a slut??? Ok so your dating... So what? And why is it anyone else buisness what you do? Just because you walk down the street with a black man doesnt mean your anything horrible. I hope i helped because im only 12.... Just stay confident.
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So my boyfriend and I have been dating for three months. He gets me gifts all the time. He gave me a really pretty ring on Monday and for Valentine's Day he gave me a box of chocolates. Well this time it's not really a special occasion. I just want to get him something nice for the heck of it.
Thing is, I'm broke. To compensate I write cute little love notes every Wednesday for him but I want something more. I really want to make him something he'll really like. I know he likes videogames and stuff but we pretty much like the same things. He's sixteen. I'm fifteen.
Any romantic suggestions would be nice. Greatly appreciated! (link)
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Ive never been in this situation, (nor hav i ever had a BF) but ive heard thousands of times over tht the quickest wy to a mans heart is through his stomach. Invite him over and make a special dinner for the two of you, or maybe go to his place and do it. From watching the guys at school and how grown men cry over dropped or dog-eaten steak, i know they LOVE food. I cant really think of anything else, but i hope this is helpfull! ^.^
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M/15 I feel like I have been stripped of emotions, or the good ones at least. I do not feel the same about things and people anymore. It is hard to explain. My parents ask me why I don't like hugging people and things of that nature. I have less friends now and I never feel like going out and doing things. I laugh and have fun but it seems the older I get, the more I'm stripped. I have no girlfriend either. It feels like I miss how I felt previously. A year ago, even earlier this year. A year from now, I'll probably miss the way I was feeling now. Its like I'm being blocked. I'm starting to lose care for certain things. I'm tired, I feel cold. On V-day, a friend told me I'm not human. I'm nice to people but I still feel lifeless and useless. I don't want to go crazy in my stupid house. What is this? What can I do to change? I wanna feel what I used to feel. Am I desensitized? I need a change in my life soon! I feel dead. Its hard to explain, especially when I myself barely understand what this is. (link)
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OMG im not the only one.... ya im a chick and im 12, but if you knew me ud know im smart. ANyway; I had the same problem going on last year(2010) and erlier this year. I just hid out in my room with my music, took walks, and was ALLWAYS yelling at someone. So ik how u feel. But i still feel tired all the time and every one in a while i dn t care wht everyone wants done; i get it. ANyway, dnt feel useless..... I know it sounds weird, but i started acting crazy, happy-go-lucky, and things went ok. (u probly dnt wanna do tht lolz) Dnt feel so useless.... When i got in trouble for something, i would put myself down; drying helps i guess; even though it dsnt look manly... ANway if all of this was a waste i appologize. I tried. like i said im only 12... hope i helped! ^.^
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My boyfriend is away at college. I am a high school senior. We have dated for almost a year and a half.
He says he loves me. I'm sure he thinks he does.
Our relationship has changed. We see each other once a week, usually - he comes home every weekend to see his mommy, not me - and he makes no effort to call me during the week. If we Skype, its my suggestion. All of our conversations are superficial. We're just texting "I love you"'s back and forth maybe 5 times a day instead of actually saying something meaningful or sharing stories. I try, but get nothing back. I used to ask him what he was doing as a conversation topic but because it was never returned I felt as if I was prying and stopped. Now we don't talk about anything via text.
The college he's at is not THAT competitive at all. That said he has a 5-class workload plus two labs. He's pretty lazy and I don't think he's handling freshman year well. I know he's busy, but shouldn't he have/make time to give me a 15-minute call at least once a week? Is that too much to ask? Should I break up with him? (link)
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I know it doesn't help much but it looks like you've annalyzed the situation pretty well.... It's up to you now. What do you think? Is he really worth it? What does your gut say? Is he worth stressing out? What about a guy you've been friends with since you were little? If you have a guy friend and hes perfectly single... You guys would know eachother well and it might work out better. Hope i helped!
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Does anyone have a list of really good anime shows like;
Fruits Basket, Naruto, Inuyasha.
With some romance in it?
Please don't suggest anything currently being aired on Adult swim.
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Well one of my bff's like to watch this along with my aunt. Its called.... Touhou... I think. I've never watched it but it shouldnt be an adult swim.
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I am 15 years old ive had my period since i was 11 and tge last time i had my period was DEC 15 2010 and i missed january. During january i masturbated like put things in mY vajayjay. I never had sex before. Now its feb and now im feeling cramps, tiredness, backaches, and now i feel like crying for no reason.!! What is wrong with me.??, (link)
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Well i'll bet the crying for no reason is from stress or your picking up on the fellings of another energy or person. I've done it before and it drove me insane. The stomach cramps sound like ur period, but i dont know about your back... It could be your sleeping funny at night.. Hope this helps!
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