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what is the yellow stuff coming out of my vagina (link)
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vaginal discharge, its a natural way to keep that are of your body clean- its completely normal don't worry : )
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Okay i am bulimic and when i throw up sometimes it comes out my nose and hurts how can i make that stop or is it normal?
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When you throw up, your stomach is trying to get rid of food as fast as possible. So it does sometimes come out through the nasal passage- and yes it will hurt because it has acid and will burn through your organs. So please stop throwing up- you need help. You're going to injure your throat, and your nose- and you're not going to get any vitamins or minerals.
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hay i just got a baby lizard and i dont know what to name it are there any suggestions????? id love as many as i could get... please help!
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joojoobs!
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I'm a 15 year old female. I don't work, I will when I turn 16 which will be in 3 months. I want to know everything there is to know, bad and good, about child emancipation. I don't like being with my dad anymore and I want to move out so I don't have to be around him. He used to abuse me but he doesn't anymore. Whatever you know about this please let me know. (link)
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Well you have to wait until your 16 in some states, and you have to be completely capable of your financial affairs meaning that you can get all of your basic needs without applying for welfare. Sadly, you need your Dad's consent if you want to be emancipated.
If you have anymore questions you can go to this website: http://www.peoples-law.org/children/emancipation/emancipation%20home.htm
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Hey, I'm quite a fashionable guy and all that but i hate my hair ? its in the lastest style..but instead of gelling it i would prefer not to. However if i don't it doesn't have any style.it just looks like a clump.
I need to make my thick hair..shiny..and very fashionable !!
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Hmm...hair styles are all about defining the shape of your face. So since I don't know how you look like I don't know what hair style to suggets you. Though I do know how to get voluminous, and shiny hair. This might sound really wierd but trust me on this. You need a natural volmizer, and deep conditioning and you can get that from mayonnaise! Seriously, leave it in your hair for 20 minutes(maximum! you want to continue this once every 2 weeks), then finish with using a shampoo that has fenugreek in it as a main ingredient(you can find this in herbal/all-natural stores in the mall), it revives the cuticles in the roots of the hair. After shampooing you want to rinse it with COLD water! That locks in the nutrients that you got from your shampoo. And one last advice if you blow-dry make sure its a fair distance between your face, and only use the cool setting, or it will suck the moiture out of your hair.
Hope this helps.
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alright, i get sick wayy to much; every other week with a sinus infection or virus or flu SOMETHING the only time i will feel good is in the summer...but i still have allergies. i was just wondering if anyone knew what i could do to boot up my metabolism i get between 7-9 hours of sleep...but i should start getting more since after school stuff is over. i don't drink a lot of water because i just think it tastes so plain so i have to have flavor with it. idk does milk help any? grape juice? a certain vitamin? anything i'm sick of getting sick!! pleaseee answer i need to get better my tuesday.
thanks a lot! (link)
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I think that milk is definitely your best bet. Calcium boosts your metabolism. And if you don't like the taste of just plain water, add crystal lights they come in great flavors.
Hope this helps.
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After my best friend's death her troubled teen daughter came to stay with my family. Of course there were conditions. Job, school (g.e.d.), no drugs, booze. After just 5 weeks she broke all the rules. Got fired from a job that I helped her get etc....THEN she started an affair with my teen age son. Claiming she's "in love", he works and goes to school. He was being rail roaded. She just dug her claws in deeper. It was getting crazy. I had her leave yesterday. She went to a shelter, I feel grief and relief at the same time. Maybe she should have never came. Maybe (somehow) I should've dealt with it. For at least a week I didn't sleep and eat (lost 6 lbs.). My husband is supportive of my decision but my )OLDER son (29), says I was unfair to her. What do you think, please I need advice !!! (link)
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Well first of all, you have to understand what is bothering her in the first place. If it has anything to do with her mom(your bestfriend) then tell her that you understand what she is going through. Do the same things that her and her mom used to do that they both enjoyed. Making her quit the drugs and the booze cold turkey wasn't such a good idea, it probably made her go through a withdrawal phase and just wasn't herself. So maybe both of you could join a support group about alcohol and drugs. And this whole thing with your son and her- if they really say that it's love then just let it be. Because with you interfering with their relationship, might've sent out a bad vibe, it was as if saying to her "You're not good enough for my son." and that hurt her feelings. Even if they decide to be together isn't that a good thing though? You properly raised your son and you know his morals and values, and he definitely might be a good influence on her. Just be with her, and try to understand what she's going through. She is in a very fragile state of mind right now, just be supportive. Try to show your vunerable side to her, it might make her feel more welcome.
Hope this helps.
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Ok this seems long and soap-opera-ish but please bear with me. I’ve gotten rid of some of the details to make it shorter but please tell me if it isn’t clear enough. And please don't rant at me about being a cheating b**** or anything. I know I am a bad bad person. I just need you to tell me what to do.
Nate has always been the typical "rich bad boy" type. He gets a pack mentality when he is with his boys so he’s labeled an official ***hole. He's had a pretty bad past and when you get him alone, he’s different. He and I go a few years back when I wasn't into the party scene, and it got around that he "wanted" me. I shot that down and he gave up. I've been intrigued by him (i.e. had a crush on him) and we always used to exchange looks all the time at school and parties and I could feel the sizzles (but wasn’t sure it was mutual). Only last year did we start talking a bit inside and outside school. Then I finished school and didn’t see him.
In May, I met Blake. He’s ridiculously good-looking, the sweetest guy ever, and a cook. I didn’t think he was into me so I backed off then recently, Blake started showing interest in me and I was thrilled. We were perfect for each other, our life goals and views were the same, we had minor arguments sometimes, which ended with practically no resentment on either end, and we always made up quickly. It was the perfect relationship. I was still a virgin but he understood because he had only been with one chick (his year-long girlfriend in grade 11).
End of last year, Nate and I ended up at a party together. I was hammered out of my mind and we had sex in a bedroom. It was harsh to the point that he did it, shoved me away and left. I was broken after. Eventually, I told Blake and he was mostly sad for me and he did whatever he could to make me feel better. Including sex and it was just like the rest of our relationship, comfortable.
Then one day, Nate showed up at my house after I saw him at the mall and went home all shaken up. We had sex. We have had sex about five times now altogether. Usually it’s when I’m vunerable. It’s pretty much casual sex but it is explosive as in really really hot, stuff I thought didn’t exist outside novels. Blake and I haven’t even come close, even though there is some sizzle, it isn’t comparable. Told Blake once and he was mad but he came back and told me he’d still have me and he didn’t understand. Usually Nate just has sex with me and sticks around for a while and leaves but one time, he actually stayed after and kissed my face and stuff.
This is what confuses me. Blake and I are perfect for each other and it’s not a completely devoid of sexual drive either but when I’m with Nate, it feels right like it’s exactly where I belong.
I’m just so afraid of hurting Blake. I want to stay with him but at the same time, I feel like puking when I think about what a disgusting unfaithful slut I’m being. And I’m pretty sure Nate doesn’t want a relationship. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to look back twenty years from now and regret it. I know that bad boy’s can’t be tamed but I know his history and I kind of still ache for Nate but Blake is just perfect.
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Belive it or not, a lot of girls have all this drama following them throughout their highschool life. It sounds like all you have going for Nate is a physical attraction- nothing more will happen except sex. I know that, that might've sounded wierd but you desrve to be with someone whos's going to treat you right- and that means that Blake deserves to be with someone who treats him right. As hard as it might sound, I think the best thing to happen for you right now is just find new people, let things blow over. Blake really sounds like a very cool and sensitive guy, he says that he'll still take you back after you being unfaithful. And if you keep hurting him like this, then what are you guys building your relationship out of? And this Nate guy, should definitely leave you alone, if he has sex with you like 5 times, doesn't it make you think that he might have the same "connection" with other girls too? Oh yeah, and kudos to you for being brutally honest with Blake.
Hope things go for the best.
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do you shave "down there"? is it weird if you do, or if you dont? i wanna know, because me and my boyfriend have been doing a lot lately, and i think he wants to go further, and i do too, so should i shave "down there"? (link)
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Well it depends what kind of activities you're going to do, if he's going to do oral on you then yeah sure shave down there- you don't want him every 5 seconds to come up and spit out hair. But you do have to be careful, you might want to try different approaches before shaving because it can cause a lot of irritation down there. So i might suggest either get it lasered or waxed(i know what your thinking- ouch!)it might be expensive/painful, but hey its better than having to reach down there every minute to scratch.
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I have a question about seepage since me and my girlfriend are worried about her getting pregnant. At the point of orgasm I have a fetish in which I have my girlfriend spread her labia and I ejaculate right on her vaginal area. She says she can get pregnant this way, but I dont believe she can seeing as its not ejaculated inside her. How likely is it? (link)
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It's pretty likely, belive me. Sperm can travel a long distance and seep through clothes, so either wear a rubber or ask her to take a birth control pill.
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well you see whenever i make out w/ my boyfriend i get a sore throat is this normal? (link)
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yeah the others are right, you're just not used to other people's germs inside your body. but i can tell you one thing, after making out with your boyfriend- use mouthwash as it kills the germs inside your mouth. if your boyfriend doesn't appear or sound sick at all, then you might want to consider asking him if he has a cold sore.
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how do u bump and grind a guy? i dont really understand how to do it. thanks! (link)
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well first of all learning how to dance is just really how you react tot he song that's playing. to answer your question, bend your knees a little bit and pretend you're hula-hooping but do it slow and thats how to grind (make sure that you're facing each other). the next one is bumping which is practically like slow dancing except you're back is facing the guy; just sway left and right moving your hips.
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so i have like.. a ton of pimples on my foreheard
i have dry skin around my T zone ( so bad, that it flakes ), i use moisturizer, but by the middle of the day ( i have bareminerals makeup on )my face gets really oily in my T zone. its weird. Does anyone know a moisturizer that is strong enough to moisturize my skin but not greasy and makes me oily?
also, i use differin and duac acne gels for my acne, they work sometimes but not all the time, it usually clears up then comes right back in a few days. Does anyone know any good home remedies or cheap stuff that works?? i dont wanna spend alot of money because i already did w/ differin & duac. so dont tell me to go to a dermatologist, cuz i already have.
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all i can say is that the less you put in your face the better. just get an all-natural moisturizer for combination skin, and a gentle exfoliator for your daily cleanser (like salt), and as for make up- a total no-no! it will clog up your pores and cause more breakouts, try using baby powder, sure it may not hide them away but it will make your skin look and feel softer.
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